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RE: How do people feel about Biting as a bdsm activity? - 2/15/2007 5:10:05 AM

onestandingstill

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Hi Susan,
I too hate being bitten. I have played with 2 Doms who just love to bite and pinch though.
I am talking about bites that bruise and last for over two weeks, not little love nibbles.
I'm with you in I DON"T like it one bit, but of course as it's about pleasing the Dom in my scenes more than me controlling the play.
I have permitted it ( I was bottoming to these two guys not owned) as they enjoyed it so much.
It's a very animalistic activity that definitely is a painful experience, but also I think it sexy to watch their faces and see the way they are responding from my flesh being in their teeth like that.
It's funny, but it's so horribly intense I start bucking and wiggling to break the bite.
I'm working on staying still, but my instinct so far have prevented that.
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RE: How do people feel about Biting as a bdsm activity? - 2/15/2007 5:12:20 AM

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I never enjoyed the biting before. But the favorite man I am with right now loves it...and for some strange reason it turns me on a lot. I also love the marks it leaves. I am very lucky I don't have to worry about covering them up....just a couple of cracks at work and that is it.

I think it all goes back to the fact that not everyone does things the same, you can do something with one person and love it...do exactly the same thing with another and hate it. Tis why I always say I will try almost anything 3 times with 3 different people...gots to give it a chance.

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RE: How do people feel about Biting as a bdsm activity? - 2/15/2007 5:20:45 AM

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It is absolutely delicious and i love to be bitten and love to bite...........that will make me beg for more

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RE: How do people feel about Biting as a bdsm activity? - 2/15/2007 5:21:16 AM

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I've never bitten anyone or been bitten. But it sounds kind of sexy. I would imagine it to be a situation of really being at one's mercy on how hard they are going to bite. I think I'd like to be bitten hard, maybe hard enough to leave bruises, but definately not hard enough to draw blood; I think that would make me feel terribly insulted and I'd probably cry like a big baby.

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RE: How do people feel about Biting as a bdsm activity? - 2/15/2007 5:22:38 AM

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I agree with the chomping being a bit too much, tearing of the skin is not something I would enjoy on either end.
Biting itself though is wonderfully primal and yes, like onestandingstill said, very animalistic. I think that is why I can get lost in the whole fang and claw experience.

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RE: How do people feel about Biting as a bdsm activity? - 2/15/2007 5:30:22 AM

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I guess I might well be the only one chiming in who enjoys it even to the point occasionally of breaking skin. Proper after care, and making sure you are quite well cleaned before you allow yourself to do so make it safer, and I have never had a problem with infection, nor have I left any serous marks. It is more a little spot where they can bleed, leading into the vampire fantasy for many of the subs I have been with.
I love the biting, even when it isnt to that extent. Angel enjoys it too, it is one of the few rougher activities we can engage in wher I dont have to worry about doing any damage to him. It is not something I would recommend to someone right off, you have to learn your partners tolerances and how quickly or easily they bruise and break. You also have to learn to control your own pressure in the heat of the moment... but when done right, worked up to, it can be pretty enjoyable.

DV

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RE: How do people feel about Biting as a bdsm activity? - 2/15/2007 5:35:12 AM

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I am a biter, although I am having a hard time figuring out where I fall between nibbling and chomping. I know I don't chomp though!

It's a little bit of a joke between my submissive and me because one time he said, "Let me show you what the biting is like" and I agreed. So he apparently bit me as I often bite him, and I said "Hey, that hurts." End of that experiment.

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RE: How do people feel about Biting as a bdsm activity? - 2/15/2007 5:39:09 AM

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I like a few others have to be attracted to the person doing the biting. I do not go as far as having my skin broken. I also do not bite back.

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RE: How do people feel about Biting as a bdsm activity? - 2/15/2007 5:40:36 AM

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I know what you mean, rascallymisty. I can nibble on someone, I can't bite them back very hard, though.

- Susan

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RE: How do people feel about Biting as a bdsm activity? - 2/15/2007 5:48:00 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire

I guess I might well be the only one chiming in who enjoys it even to the point occasionally of breaking skin. Proper after care, and making sure you are quite well cleaned before you allow yourself to do so make it safer, and I have never had a problem with infection, nor have I left any serous marks. It is more a little spot where they can bleed, leading into the vampire fantasy for many of the subs I have been with.
I love the biting, even when it isnt to that extent. Angel enjoys it too, it is one of the few rougher activities we can engage in wher I dont have to worry about doing any damage to him. It is not something I would recommend to someone right off, you have to learn your partners tolerances and how quickly or easily they bruise and break. You also have to learn to control your own pressure in the heat of the moment... but when done right, worked up to, it can be pretty enjoyable.

DV

Well, the bleeding wouldn't bother me, providing all necessary precautions (and medical histories) are accounted for. Tearing/Chomping is what would bother me. Some people make me see red and I can imagine pushing that far, others do not and I can't wrap my head around it. I never thought there was anything wrong with a little blood...

Dang it... now I really need to stop or bite someone....
This has been such a good morning.

Psy

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RE: How do people feel about Biting as a bdsm activity? - 2/15/2007 5:52:05 AM

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I enjoy the sensation of being bitten, but not chomped. I don't like the idea of the skin being broken. it's all about the intention of the one biting me. when I was a kid, I would actually bite on the skin between my thumb and forefinger. it was almost like some kind of weird tension release. apparently I would do it a lot, I remember a teacher asking me (in front of the whole class...cow!) if I was hungry.

and the sensation of getting a hickey drives me insane, I love it. unfortunately, a 41 year old walking around with a bunch of hickeys on her neck is just...gross!

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RE: How do people feel about Biting as a bdsm activity? - 2/15/2007 6:04:08 AM

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I love to bite. I hate hate hate being bitten. He loves to bite hard. It happens on a regular basis. I still have a mark from where he broke skin. He tends to bite me on my stomach and my ass, not my neck or shoulder area. When he bites me on my stomach it makes me feel nauseous. I kid that I'm going to accidentally throw up on him one day. Biting is the quickest way for him to tear down whatever walls I build up. It's probably the easiest way to make me cry too.

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RE: How do people feel about Biting as a bdsm activity? - 2/15/2007 6:04:55 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: lighthearted
and the sensation of getting a hickey drives me insane, I love it. unfortunately, a 41 year old walking around with a bunch of hickeys on her neck is just...gross!

Is it gross, or are other people just jealous you're still sexual enough to get hickeys and they are not?
I don't think hickeys are gross. I think every time I see someone with them on their throat I thing Dang, they got some recently!
Besides hickeys can be in lots of places people can't see. Those IMO are the really fun ones to get.
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RE: How do people feel about Biting as a bdsm activity? - 2/15/2007 6:06:08 AM

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Thanks for the continuing replies, people.

junecleaver: Now thatI think about it, I guess my neck is about the only place I enjoy being bitten, The thought of someone biting me on my stomach just sends shivers down my spine (not good).

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RE: How do people feel about Biting as a bdsm activity? - 2/15/2007 6:32:12 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: junecleaver

I love to bite. I hate hate hate being bitten. He loves to bite hard. It happens on a regular basis. I still have a mark from where he broke skin. He tends to bite me on my stomach and my ass, not my neck or shoulder area. When he bites me on my stomach it makes me feel nauseous. I kid that I'm going to accidentally throw up on him one day. Biting is the quickest way for him to tear down whatever walls I build up. It's probably the easiest way to make me cry too.

I find when I do hard biting or pinch play the intensity releases the endorphins so fast I also end up sick to my stomach.
LOL I thought it was just me, I'm glad to see I'm not the only one who's like this.
I thought I was just a wuss, now I wonder if there's not some scientific explanation.
suzanne

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RE: How do people feel about Biting as a bdsm activity? - 2/15/2007 7:08:48 AM

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Personally, i love getting 'love bites' from my Master. Because i work with children, and i don't want them to ask inappropriate questions or for parents to think i'm exposing their children to 'bad things', i can't get bites on my neck like i want (would leave way too much bruising). As an alternative, m'Lord prefers the back of my arm, which is convenient when He has me cuffed and tied to a post, to the headboard, or any other over-the-head position. That is also a very sensitive spot for me. i wear long sleeves for a couple of weeks after so people (and kids especially) don't ask about the huge bruises on the back of my arms...but when i'm home alone or with Him, i prefer to wear clothes (or none) that show my arms off...i love my bruises :)

i also love biting. But my biting is a little different. With permission (now take in mind, i am -not- a professional, don't run a business, and only do this for approved persons who want the not-so-professional approach), i work biting into massages. A friend of mine said that the way i worked her shoulder with my teeth, it was a -lot- better than with just hands. With biting, one can get much deeper at the muscle. It's gentle biting, and not nipping or any such, and doesn't usually even leave bruises (because i'm working -past- the skin, to the muscles). However, i also love biting that's not massaging...m'Lord has a low pain tolerance, and so doesn't allow me to bite or scratch Him, because He knows (and has felt) how hard i go. *pout* But since i can play with others....:D

i consider it vampire play, especially when He bites my neck or wrist, because it -can- be to bleeding (though it often isn't; He prefers not to), but more because it's the mood it sets of someone taking you like a vampire might. However, i also say vampire play, because people who are vampyres, that's not play. That's who they are. Some are connected to bdsm, some aren't. But none of them 'play' vampyre, they -are- vampyre. So, i consider vampire play as a sort of roleplay.

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RE: How do people feel about Biting as a bdsm activity? - 2/15/2007 7:24:08 AM

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I love to bite when the mood is right, and I even enjoy having somebody bite me, again when the mood or tone is right. Not an everyday fetish which I live for. Yes, it can be very painful. What is right for somebody may not be right for the other. These are all part of finding out and testing your limits. There are many times, where the biting was playful or almost on the edge of being too painful. Then there are the type of bites which break the skin causing the skin to bleed. These are wonds which require proper medical treatment. They need to be cleaned and taken care just like any other wond. Allowed time to heal, and checked for infection. There are places on the body which are better and less painful. Never bite on a major vien, that is an obvious no no to do. It's between you and your DOM to figure out your limits and the activities he/she enjoys the most. Chances are if it's a hard limit for you, and on their top 10 list of things to do, then you have an issue which needs to be worked out. This may be an activity which your limit allows to occur 3-4 times a year. Yes, limits can set according to how often you wish to engage in an activity. Perhaps you can present and offer your body for biting when it's your DOMs birthday. This will perhaps make it more valued by your DOM. What's important is that you communicate with your DOM and establish or redefine limits from time to time. Just because some of us enjoy this from time to time, does not make your limits invalid.

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RE: How do people feel about Biting as a bdsm activity? - 2/15/2007 7:27:07 AM

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I love to bite. Some tushies just beg for a lil chomp chomp.

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RE: How do people feel about Biting as a bdsm activity? - 2/15/2007 7:31:20 AM

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http://www.collarchat.com/m_373560/mpage_1/key_biting/tm.htm#373560
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http://www.collarchat.com/m_44130/mpage_1/key_biting/tm.htm#44130
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It's not mentioned as an interest for the same reason that "kissing" isn't. It's just a particular act that we can all do, doesn't require much skill, and isn't really fetishized as most kinks are.

I enjoy biting people, the flexing of their flesh under my lips and the tension of their body pulsing into mine as my teeth press in.

I've carried many a bruise from teeth before, but I don't enjoy getting them because I don't like pain.

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RE: How do people feel about Biting as a bdsm activity? - 2/15/2007 7:46:23 AM

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Biting is fun, if you enjoy it bite on. I don't want someone breaking my skin, though.

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