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RE: How do people feel about Biting as a bdsm activity? - 2/15/2007 7:47:34 AM   
Valyraen


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Status: offline 		I'm not really into hardcore biting, most of the time - the exception to that being when I put in my fangs. Got a lovely little pair of removeable canine caps made for me a few months back, and they're fully pointy enough to break skin with enough pressure. I put those on, and there's a guarantee I'll be leaving painfully red pinpoints.

Generally, though, I don't like giving serious bites... I've been bitten in the past, by humans and animals in a non-play situation, and they hurt. I don't have a problem at all with nibbling, even giving a few strong nips here and there. However, being nibbled on makes me extremely squirmy, because there are someone's teeth in places that could do a serious amount of damage. Perhaps it's a trust issue with me, or just a trained-in response (self-trained, mind you - my little brother and I fought a lot, sometimes viciously) to a potential threat... I'm not sure. However, I know from past experience that a strong nip gets my blood up and sends adrenaline coursing through me in the bad, "make the biting thing unable to bite by ripping off its lower jaw" kind of way, and I've warned my sub about doing that, and why.

So, yes, I've done biting, and it drives my sub crazy, particularly when I'm wearing fangs (which, now that I think about it, I've got to put in again), but I'm hardline against being bitten or anything more serious than a delicate little nibble.

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RE: How do people feel about Biting as a bdsm activity? - 2/15/2007 7:54:10 AM   
Magdalena156


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ORIGINAL: swtnsparkling

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SusanofO
Anyone out there absolutely love hard biting?

Yes


Me too! :)


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RE: How do people feel about Biting as a bdsm activity? - 2/15/2007 8:18:55 AM   
silverwings0002


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Status: offline 		Love giving and getting hickeys.
I love to bite hard when I'm reaching a particularly high point of sexual tension or release. I usually temper it, esp. vanilla, but I did bite hard once on My slave. Don't think he liked it much. Strong muscles are best, cuz then maybe can bite harder safely. The chest is of particular interest as an area. Not into breaking skin, or being bitten.
Using teeth with right amount of pressue on the nipples for nt is a good tease  too.
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RE: How do people feel about Biting as a bdsm activity? - 2/15/2007 8:22:47 AM   
Wyrd


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Status: offline 		Biting to me is about marking my property, I leave a mark when I bite, a deep bruise, would never break the skin, not too fond of the taste of blood anyway.  I have even carefully aligned multiple bites to make a patter for my slave to wear for the comming days/weeks.

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RE: How do people feel about Biting as a bdsm activity? - 2/15/2007 8:37:02 AM   
BitaTruble


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Status: offline 		Just reading the title of the thread gave me a shiver. ::chuckles::

I'm pretty much a fan of anything that has the ability to draw blood.

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RE: How do people feel about Biting as a bdsm activity? - 2/15/2007 8:49:08 AM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		I love hard biting and my sub enjoys it. He loves walking around with my teeth marks in his flesh. I never draw blood though thats a hard limit we both have NO BLOOD
There is just something hot and animalistic about that it drives me wild. I also love to claw him with my nails and yank his hair hard. Yeah I like to play rough.

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RE: How do people feel about Biting as a bdsm activity? - 2/15/2007 9:00:28 AM   
AZSweetie


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ORIGINAL: SusanofO

I am curious - do many out there engage in (hard) Biting of their submissive or slave (or Dom or Domme) as part of bdsm activity?
 
I didn't see this listed at CM in the "BDSM Interests" section for profiles, and I just let my Dominant know it's a hard limit for me. I am bringing it up here on the message board, I guess, because I rarely hear it mentioned as a bdsm acitivity (maybe it is thought of as an off-shoot of Vampiristic activity, which is really a fringe bdsm activity, if it's one at all. But maybe that's not the reason).

Anyway, it really is a hard limit for me - I just hate biting. It scares me, and for me, it's really painful, too (and not in any enjoyable way - at all). But - all that aside - I am curious how many maybe enjoy this (or not).

I am not referring here to gentle nibbling, or even the kind of biting that would give many folks a hickey I guess, but real chomping on someone (like maybe even drawing blood, although it doesn't necessarily need to be that extreme).

Nibbling I can handle (and even enjoy a lot). Ditto for hickeys (although I've found, even though I've rarely had these, that covering them up with make-up, even, can be a challenge for me).

I was thinking about this because thought I should let my Daddy know, and then got curious how many others might feel this way, too (or not), besides me (he recently asked me if I had any hard limits, other than the ones I'd already mentioned, that he should know about. Plus, we'd been discussing nipple clamps, and the thought of him really biting me hard there terrifies me).

Am I unusual? (not that I really care. I am curious, though).

Anybody else really hate biting?

Anyone out there absolutely love hard biting?

I mean hard biting. Biting hard and chomping on someone else.
 
Thanks for any replies.

- Susan


OMG i loveeeeeee biting! Hard biting! i love the kinda bites that make me squirm or even try to pull away. i guess you could say borderline drawing blood maybe. The kind that would definitely leave a mark but not puncture. It definitely has to be during rough sex too. i wouldn't like it during love making. To me it would be a total mood breaker if i was being caressed softly and then BAM i get a bite to my ass! Nibbles during lovemaking yes.. Hard biting during rough sex..YES PLEASE!!

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RE: How do people feel about Biting as a bdsm activity? - 2/15/2007 9:06:01 AM   
Wolf1020


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Status: offline 		It really depends on the biting.  Just like anything else there are pretty wide descriptions.  We could talk something a little more then a brushing of teeth, nibbling, hard enough to leave a few teeth marks but not break the skin, break the skin, etc.  Between myself and my submissive biting is good short of extremely hard or breaking the skin.

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RE: How do people feel about Biting as a bdsm activity? - 2/15/2007 9:09:07 AM   
freakgoddess


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Status: offline 		the urge to bite just kind of naturally arises sometimes.  it can be very erotic to pin someone and nibble their flesh as they squirm.  and i've noticed it always makes them giggle and smile too, no matter how they may protest. 

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RE: How do people feel about Biting as a bdsm activity? - 2/15/2007 9:11:25 AM   
SirDominic


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Status: offline 		A few have alluded to, but no-one has come out and said the downside of biting; if it breaks the skin. The human bite is practically the worst kind of bite another person can get. If the skin is broken, it is very easy to get a very bad infection, one if not treated properly can cause major problems.

Nothing wrong with biting otherwise. I enjoy it from time to time, but I would never break the skin.

all the best, Sir Dominic

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RE: How do people feel about Biting as a bdsm activity? - 2/15/2007 9:13:28 AM   
sugarcoatedscamp


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Status: offline 		I'm a biter.  A poker, a pincher, a tickler, and most definitely a biter.  My hubby loves it.  When we're having sex, and really getting into it, to bite him hard on the nipple is guaranteed to make him lose his mind (and his load).  *grins*  When I'm in the mood to give him oral, he almost always begs me to bite him as hard as I can.  Some people really get off on it.  I'm just lucky to have found such a great fit, since I like to dish it out as much as he likes to take it.  Often times, when we're just sitting together watching tv or something, I'll bite his hand or arm until he responds with an "ouch" or some other indication that it hurts... then I kiss where I bit him, trace the teeth-marks with my fingertip and inform him that "love is round."

Just goes to show you that some people's idea of romance is very different than others'.

***edited to add:  When biting in particularly sensitive areas, a latex barrier helps to protect against breaking skin and also against saliva getting into a wound if one does occur.***

< Message edited by sugarcoatedscamp -- 2/15/2007 9:19:26 AM >

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RE: How do people feel about Biting as a bdsm activity? - 2/15/2007 9:19:31 AM   
lighthearted


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ORIGINAL: onestandingstill

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ORIGINAL: lighthearted
and the sensation of getting a hickey drives me insane, I love it.  unfortunately, a 41 year old walking around with a bunch of hickeys on her neck is just...gross! 

Is it gross, or are other people just jealous you're still sexual enough to get hickeys and they are not?
I don't think hickeys are gross. I think every time I see someone with them on their throat I thing Dang, they got some recently!
Besides hickeys can be in lots of places people can't see. Those IMO are the really fun ones to get.
suzanne


I don't mind people knowing, but it just seems...weird.  like wearing sandals and pantyhose.  good question tho, got me thinking!

fortunately, my hair is long enough to cover my neck, if need be

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RE: How do people feel about Biting as a bdsm activity? - 2/15/2007 9:20:47 AM   
mixielicous


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if you were to ask my Master what His favorite thing to do to me is, He would reply, "bite, hard" i am not too fond of it of course it is painful. i experience this everyday though, any time we are in bed cuddling even. its just regular for Him. He bites very hard, everywhere. He doesnt break my skin but sometimes you can see His teeth on me for days. He likes to bite wrists and breasts the most. Often while doing it He will say, "I just want to EAT you" lol

i think its cute. annoying, but cute. and it serves for a good reminder of Him when i see His teeth all over before i hop into the shower

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RE: How do people feel about Biting as a bdsm activity? - 2/15/2007 10:57:10 AM   
Magdalena156


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ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

Just reading the title of the thread gave me a shiver. ::chuckles::

I'm pretty much a fan of anything that has the ability to draw blood.

Celeste


Oh yes, I'm going to get along just fine with the people on here.  LOL

(yeah, I'm the same way...)


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RE: How do people feel about Biting as a bdsm activity? - 2/15/2007 11:13:42 AM   
kyraofMists


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Status: offline 		I hate it and love it at the same time.  He will draw blood and he has left marks from his teeth on me for weeks.  I crave it and fear it at the same time.  It is one of the few things that I flinch from but it is such a primal feeling and all I can do is scream.  He also likes to do it when I have to be silent and watch me struggle not to scream.

It's a love/hate thing for me.

Knight's kyra

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RE: How do people feel about Biting as a bdsm activity? - 2/15/2007 11:31:17 AM   
Magdalena156


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ORIGINAL: kyraofMists

I hate it and love it at the same time.  He will draw blood and he has left marks from his teeth on me for weeks.  I crave it and fear it at the same time.  It is one of the few things that I flinch from but it is such a primal feeling and all I can do is scream.  He also likes to do it when I have to be silent and watch me struggle not to scream.


That sounds positively delicious.


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RE: How do people feel about Biting as a bdsm activity? - 2/15/2007 11:36:18 AM   
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I love being bitten. I beg for it.

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RE: How do people feel about Biting as a bdsm activity? - 2/15/2007 11:40:54 AM   
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Status: offline 		WHOA!!! Biting? Did I hear biting?
 
Oooohhh SLUUURRPP!
 
I love biting... primal, animalistic, erotic, sweaty bodies in the throes of passion...
 
Um... I’m a supporter.


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RE: How do people feel about Biting as a bdsm activity? - 2/15/2007 11:44:42 AM   
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Status: offline 		Nibbles. I am a nibbler & niblee yum yum shivery fun lol. Biting? No thanks, there is something about it that really hurts in a bad way. Some folks have naturally sharp teeth dang it and it hurts!
Nibbles turn me on, make me melt.

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RE: How do people feel about Biting as a bdsm activity? - 2/15/2007 11:46:56 AM   
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Status: offline 		I love biting and being bitten, as long as there is no blood drawn. Nibbles are nice too.

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