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please help, piles and anal sex - 2/16/2007 3:09:57 AM   
raindancer36


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Status: offline 		Hello This is my first post and am hopimg someone can help me. I have piles and my teacher wants us to have anal sex we have only 'played' 3 times and the last time i said i wasnt ready i haven't said why and he is being patient.
I would like to have anal sex with him but am worried will it work. Has anyone had anal sex with someone with piles and what is it like? If this is too personal to answer in public please message me provately as this is a genuine concern and i would appreciate any advice or feedback. i will respect any confidences of anyone who mesages me privately.
Thank you for your time.
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RE: please help, piles and anal sex - 2/16/2007 3:18:30 AM   
defiantbadgirl


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Status: offline 		What is piles?

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RE: please help, piles and anal sex - 2/16/2007 3:19:26 AM   
raindancer36


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Status: offline 		haemorrhoids sorry it may be spelt wrong

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RE: please help, piles and anal sex - 2/16/2007 3:23:20 AM   
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Status: offline 		yeah was just about to say roids.

It's up to your discretion (I wouldent do it), but your likely going to hear the most important thing: TELL HIM.

there are so many problems, injuries, messy no nos that happen because for some reason people think your supposed to keep your mouth shut, dont.

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RE: please help, piles and anal sex - 2/16/2007 4:38:46 AM   
cjenny


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Status: offline 		I recommend seeing your doctor first of all. There are also a lot of over the counter things that can help. Such as Preparation H, witch hazel (thankyou MasterFireMaam lol) and other things.
If you go see your doctor you can get a timeline on when it is safe to play. I also suggest you tell the dom what is going on, yes it is embarrassing sometimes but stuff like that needs to be known.
I really hope things work out for you.

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RE: please help, piles and anal sex - 2/16/2007 5:56:28 AM   
azzmaster


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Status: offline 		I M A PAST MASTER OF ANAL SEX. THE PILES WILL MAKE IT HIRT BUT ALOT OF PEOPLE LIKE IT TO HURT. IF YOU DON'T USE PREP H LIKE SHE SAY. PLENTY OF LUBE TILL YA GETS USED TO IT

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RE: please help, piles and anal sex - 2/16/2007 6:08:12 AM   
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I M A PAST MASTER OF ANAL SEX.


I just have to ask...you’re a past master of anal sex?  What does that mean?  Did you forget to re-certify as anal master?  How often does it expire?

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RE: please help, piles and anal sex - 2/16/2007 6:16:15 AM   
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I just have to ask...you’re a past master of anal sex?  What does that mean? 

Maybe he just got paroled  

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RE: please help, piles and anal sex - 2/16/2007 6:19:39 AM   
barefootgal


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ORIGINAL: kindaeasy69

quote:

ORIGINAL: azzmaster

I M A PAST MASTER OF ANAL SEX.


I just have to ask...you’re a past master of anal sex?  What does that mean?  Did you forget to re-certify as anal master?  How often does it expire?


Perhaps it's an elected position and his constituency did not re-elect him because they felt he was no longer up to the job?

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RE: please help, piles and anal sex - 2/16/2007 6:32:02 AM   
sensualmagirl


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ORIGINAL: raindancer36

Hello This is my first post and am hopimg someone can help me. I have piles and my teacher wants us to have anal sex we have only 'played' 3 times and the last time i said i wasnt ready i haven't said why and he is being patient.
I would like to have anal sex with him but am worried will it work. Has anyone had anal sex with someone with piles and what is it like? If this is too personal to answer in public please message me provately as this is a genuine concern and i would appreciate any advice or feedback. i will respect any confidences of anyone who mesages me privately.
Thank you for your time.


First off, you need to tell him... yah, it's embarrassing, but communication is key, and hey, I'm going to embarrass myself pretty soon by admitting I know about the subject... LOL

Second, I think it would hurt like crazy! I enjoy anal, but, not when that kind of stuff is going on... ouch.

Third, besides preparation H and witch hazel (you can get them in wipes) like CJ mentioned, there's also a great homeopathic cream from Nelsons that I find much gentler than Prep. H personally. Also, try warm bath with epsom salts and no fragrance in the water.

Fourth, like CJ said, maybe you should talk to your doctor too about this.

Good luck.

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RE: please help, piles and anal sex - 2/16/2007 7:34:20 AM   
heartfeltsub


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Status: offline 		It depends on the hemorroids, how large they are, how often they flair up, etc. i enjoying anal sex trememdously and have had a hemorroid since the birth of my first replicant. It doesn't bother me, doesn't get enflamed or flair up, so my experience may not be the norm. But i have no trouble with it at all. It doesn't make it hurt more (for me) always use lots of lube. For me it is a non-issue.

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RE: please help, piles and anal sex - 2/16/2007 8:03:06 AM   
raindancer36


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It depends on the hemorroids, how large they are, how often they flair up, etc. i enjoying anal sex trememdously and have had a hemorroid since the birth of my first replicant. It doesn't bother me, doesn't get enflamed or flair up, so my experience may not be the norm. But i have no trouble with it at all. It doesn't make it hurt more (for me) always use lots of lube. For me it is a non-issue.

heartfelt



Mine are from when i had my children and they dont hurt but one hangs down, sorry tmi. I have made an appointment with the doctor but it isnt until friday. Thanks for replying

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RE: please help, piles and anal sex - 2/16/2007 8:04:58 AM   
raindancer36


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Status: offline 		Thank you everyone for not just mocking me. i hope there is something that can be done. Thank you to all who replied and i will try preparation h and witch hazel too

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RE: please help, piles and anal sex - 2/16/2007 8:10:28 AM   
azzmaster


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Status: offline 		don't u worry baby u gonna enjoy the hell outa anal once u get broken n2 it. anal is the bomb trust me

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RE: please help, piles and anal sex - 2/16/2007 8:18:03 AM   
BlindDescent


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Status: offline 		Peprsonally I think far too much emphasis is placed on anal obligations at all costs. Just ask how many penetrators would oblige the same treatment at the whim of another's tool. Sphincter tone fades with age and even those who do not particiapte in anal frivolities have trouble containing their poo. I'd say going into the anal phase of your relationship with a known structural condition wouldn't be the most prudent course of action. Of course if he is slim...but if he is well endowed, you risk a worsening of your condition. Prudence and information are smart partners. Good luck regardless.

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RE: please help, piles and anal sex - 2/16/2007 8:21:52 AM   
azzmaster


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Status: offline 		oh no don't say that. ain't nuthin like anal and u can enjoy it tha same with men or women. anal is the ultimate submission. i look like a god with my rod buried way up a juicy azz. i can make someone nut so hard they pass out when i gets goin 

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RE: please help, piles and anal sex - 2/16/2007 8:34:13 AM   
BlindDescent


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RE: please help, piles and anal sex - 2/16/2007 9:07:49 AM   
dirtyfemm


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RE: please help, piles and anal sex - 2/16/2007 9:48:33 AM   
agirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: kindaeasy69

quote:

ORIGINAL: azzmaster

I M A PAST MASTER OF ANAL SEX.


I just have to ask...you’re a past master of anal sex?  What does that mean?  Did you forget to re-certify as anal master?  How often does it expire?


Well, although it's not a term you may be used to; a past master is someone who is an expert or experienced in something.

It's an oft used term in UK English.

agirl

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RE: please help, piles and anal sex - 2/16/2007 1:15:45 PM   
MagiksSlave


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Status: offline 		OK I just have to say... if you arent at a point in your relationship where you can tell him you have hemeroids then you are deffinetly not at  a point in the relationship where you are ready for anal sex or sex at all. There is a natural progretion of things.

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