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RE: A different kind of "does anyone else?" q... - 2/17/2007 1:56:13 PM

daddysprop247

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as for the sex?? it's quite amazing. i love when Daddy f*cks his little girl hard and rough, dumping his seed deep deeep in his daughter's womb. :)

AAAAACK! Safeword! Safeword!

A few postscripts to the List O' Disclaimers...
i certainly don't think that a D/s relationship is strictly about the sexual relationship between the parties... however, that is the part that unsettles me the most about the Daddy-girl/boy dynamic... actually, having a non-sexual Dominant mentor/trainer that is referred to as Daddy makes a certain amount of sense to me....
As a "pet", i do understand the need to live with a nontraditional dynamic, and that it transcends scening...
Oddly enough, if you take away the discipline aspect and look only to the nurturing/protecting side, my relationship with my wife has a certain Daddy/girl aspect, as i think that much of what she finds attractive in me are the things that she wanted, but didn't get from her loser father, and those are all characteristics of my father that i admired and try to emulate.

Anyway, i'm feeling muuuch better now... or at least i will once i get daddyprop's message off my screen

Happy weekend,

...dave

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RE: A different kind of "does anyone else?" q... - 2/17/2007 6:33:45 PM

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When i first started reading posts here, i was rather surprised at how many subs call their partners Daddy as i had only heard that term used by daddy girls. At first i thought 'Wow....lots of dg's here!'. Then i realized that some just call their partner that as a term of endearment or because they view him in some Daddy fashion (but not as a lil girl). i thought it was kind of cool to see that term around here.

Not too long ago, there was a thread about calling your partner 'Lord or God' or something like that. Seems no matter what people do, there will always be those who don't like it. Sounds like a personal problem to me...lol.

my first Daddy Dom insisted i call him Daddy around everyone, even his adult kids. i asked him how he might explain that should they ask and he said he would tell them that is how i was raised....like Southern girls who call their fathers Daddy well into adulthood. Worked for me

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RE: A different kind of "does anyone else?" q... - 2/17/2007 6:48:35 PM

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I have to admit I have some Daddy qualities, however that does not mean I like being called Daddy. I have tried to allow it with three different relationships that never went beyond the phone stage. It always came to the same situations, when they were in the throes of an orgasm and would beg "Daddy, please may your baby cum?" though I could say yes, it always bothered me. I could not imagine myself doing it in real life.
The last girl/slave was the one I came the closest to meeting and was going to try to see if I could do it real life. It was something I was willing to make the attempt at, for yes, I do have those nurturing qualities, and any other time she called me Daddy it did not bother me, only during phone sex.
I am thankful that our meeting never took place. Even though I was hurt by the lies that it turned out she was telling me, I am still thankful that the relationship ended. I prefer being called Robert, Master, or some more normal euthanism, but not Daddy.
Yet, I still feel, each person has the right and need to be the way they must be. I cannot be someone's Daddy. However, I have no problem with the Daddy/daughter, Mommy/son, Daddy/son, Mommy/daughter dynamics. I do admit I have problems with the female Daddy/daughter dynamics, but that is me.. I will get over it and be tolerant of it, it just bothers me a bit.

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RE: A different kind of "does anyone else?" q... - 2/18/2007 8:51:17 AM

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Now that you mention this....the first Daddy Dom i was with pretty much kept the Daddy/girl stuff out of the bedroom. In other words, i was always his lil girl....but in the bedroom i was his slut.....and i did not call him Daddy there. Not many can make this distinction, but that was his preference.

The second Daddy Dom i was with started out that way. But then he tried something different. He dabbled with the D/g dynamic in the bedroom as well and although neither of us knew how it would go, it surprisingly turned out very well.

Not all Daddy/girl stuff is sexual. For some it is....it had never been for me but i could see with the right partner, that it may have gone to a different level.

This guy had no daughters of his own. This was not about an incest thing to him. i was never abused as a child so i really had no adversity to trying it (some lil girls who were involved in incest cannot bring themselves to call anyone Daddy in a sexual way because it triggers some bad memories....but it wasn't that way for me). In any event, D/g certainly isn't for everyone....and i can respect that.....as long as i can feel the same respect in return.

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