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RE: A Warning To The Ladies - 2/17/2007 4:06:20 PM

JerseyKrissi72

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I never refused to take my money back but now i'm out 300 i gave you, the 100 on my bus ticket and they hit me with fees for cancelling early...feel free by all means to pay me back you know where to send it since you picked up the money in the first place..I NEVER MENTIONED YOUR NAME...SO HOW IS THAT TRASHING YOU?? You CHOSE to admit it was you babe..get it right.

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RE: A Warning To The Ladies - 2/17/2007 4:11:43 PM

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I still think this should be discussed and settled privately... between the two of them...

There are far too many details to air in public -- words can be mis-construed to mean something other than the intent.

Is there any way this can be taken down before it becomes bashing for either or both of them?

Both of you, to me anyhow, seem like decent people, just made some errors in judgement... no one is to blame and neither are innocent... and I don't see how this is anyone's business, IMHO.

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RE: A Warning To The Ladies - 2/17/2007 4:12:08 PM

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Maybe not the best of moves.......who knows, but you can't fault generosity.

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RE: A Warning To The Ladies - 2/17/2007 4:12:27 PM

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This is still a personal issue between Krissi and I and should not be in a public forum

then, i suggest that you stop posting in this public forum if this is the way you truly feel...the fact that you continue to contribute to this makes me wonder who you really are...methinks the dude doth protest too much........

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RE: A Warning To The Ladies - 2/17/2007 4:13:33 PM

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ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

Krissi, dumb move. Learn or don't, that's up to you and for Christ's sake, take the fucking money back and chalk up the other $300 to being foolish.

Robert, damn, just damn. You really tried to talk her out of it? How did she know where to send it? Who gave her the information? Wasn't that you? Did you try to talk her out of sending it before or after you gave her the information on 'how' to send it to you? When you got to the place it was wired, did you refuse it and send it back? Did you do one damn thing to take some responsibility for that money other than take it and spend it?

Send it back. If she cashes the check, she cashes it, if she doesn't, she doesn't. You want your honor, buddy, pay for it because reading this he said/she said, she comes off as foolish, but you, my friend, hardly look like a saint in all this.

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Yes, Celeste, I did try to talk her out of it..
However, I also did need the medication. So yes, I did get the check, cashed it got my meds and paid the bill. So will I send the money back to her. Yes, I will. When she gives me her addess and information, and it was not $300, it was $275.. not much of a dif, but some. Will it be all at once, probably not, unfortunately, that is my life, but it will be over two months and she will get it all back, but so far she has not done that and has refused. Her comment was to keep it and spend it on my new girl, perhaps my new girl will treat me the way I treated her. Maybe so.

I do not expect to look like a saint, yet, the biggest mistake I made was trying to help someone see that they did not need to allow themselves to be used by a Dom that does not care for them and that they are worth something more than that. My second biggest mistake was when I saw that Krissi had a crush on me I should never have accepted anything from her at all. Not one penny, no matter what my situation was, and no matter what the consequences were. I had no clue she would come back and treat what she called a friendship with such distain. I regret that I have lost her friendship. I regret all of this. I will not be making anymore posts because I will not carry on with this drama.

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RE: A Warning To The Ladies - 2/17/2007 4:15:44 PM

JerseyKrissi72

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It was 275.00 but it cost me 30.00 to send it western union so do the math genius. and i just messaged you on yahoo and told you to give it back to me.

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RE: A Warning To The Ladies - 2/17/2007 4:19:55 PM

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Krissi framed this as 'a warning to others', and has largely taken responsibility for her errors in judgement. Her posts reveal hurt, regret, and some foolish pride.

Your entries into this were not required. Someone with way too much time on their hands (which I did have this week) may have deduced it was you she was speaking of (though I guessed wrong), but your confirming it has done no good for anyone. Your attempts to paint yourself as innocent have damaged your rep far more than anything she could have said, and have only portrayed you as whining and manipulitive.

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RE: A Warning To The Ladies - 2/17/2007 4:22:11 PM

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Good call Topcat. For a bit I thought it was me... being a bad guy and all.

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RE: A Warning To The Ladies - 2/17/2007 4:26:53 PM

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Outch............

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RE: A Warning To The Ladies - 2/17/2007 4:27:41 PM

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Man...

I see the writing on the walls now.

There sure are a few sides to each story... don't forget the side of the witness to it all. (if/when there are witnesses).

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Call me jaded due to personal experience... but, giving money to a guy that you are interested in IS a manipulation ploy to dig the nails in deeper to hold on. I mean, all is fair in love and war and if money is the only thing you have to offer to try and put you above the others... that is pretty sad.

I hope you find some level of self-worth and realize that you have more than your body and money that makes you worthy of love and attention.

As far as the guy taking the money, well... lol... a dog is as a dog does. Obviously she knew who and what he was but simply chose to ignore the signs or had a seriously desperate need to save him when she should have been saving herself.

These are two adults who have the capacity for rational thought process. They did what they did and now both have to deal with the consequences.

I think the OP learned a valuable lesson at a relatively cheap price. Some have paid ALOT more...and lost it.

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RE: A Warning To The Ladies - 2/17/2007 4:30:09 PM

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I disagree. I knew who Krissi was talking about in her first post. Anyone who plays the same game threads would too, I should think.
Robert has tried to do a decent job of defending his side, as anyone would. I give him credit for hanging in there when so many are jumping on him.

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RE: A Warning To The Ladies - 2/17/2007 4:31:02 PM

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Krissi I'm so sorry! Sorry that you've been hurt and sorry that this post has turned into a Jerry Springer side show (where's bouncer Steve?)
...But, at least there's a learning I'm taking from it because of you. Now I know that RC has a wife. Wonder why he didn't say that in his previous communications to me? hmmmmm............... interesting.

P.S. No, I'm not the chick he spent the night on the phone with...just to clarify

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RE: A Warning To The Ladies - 2/17/2007 4:31:18 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: RobertCloud
This is still a personal issue between Krissi and I and should not be in a public forum. Krissi taking it public was immature.

Amazing.... utterly amazing. it shouldnt have gone public, but there you are raising your hand around and pointing .. WTF dude, you took it public, you named names.

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RE: A Warning To The Ladies - 2/17/2007 4:32:14 PM

JerseyKrissi72

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I still never once mentioned his name and it's easy for you to say that being that you never chatted with him and I together....but it's all good....I learned a lesson from it, something good came out of it...I also realize chatting w/ a married man was a mistake.....it never leads to anything positive.

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RE: A Warning To The Ladies - 2/17/2007 4:32:16 PM

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ORIGINAL: JerseyKrissi72

It was 275.00 but it cost me 30.00 to send it western union so do the math genius. and i just messaged you on yahoo and told you to give it back to me.

i'm not a math genius but $275 and $30 is $305.

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RE: A Warning To The Ladies - 2/17/2007 4:32:18 PM

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Stef, you and me both.

'cept I'm in this for the long haul. Pint, anyone?

Yours,

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RE: A Warning To The Ladies - 2/17/2007 4:33:11 PM

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Umm, how does one 'refuse to take no for an answer' in this case?

You say no; you don't go pick up the money up if it's still sent. Simple.

edit: e-books? Dude, no...

*shakes head*

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RE: A Warning To The Ladies - 2/17/2007 4:33:46 PM

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Oh sweetie I'm sorry. I've always been secretly rooting for you finding someone after reading your profile.

Do keep trying luv.

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RE: A Warning To The Ladies - 2/17/2007 4:34:09 PM

KatyLied

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Wonder why he didn't say that in his previous communications to me? hmmmmm............... interesting.

Many guys will not freely volunteer that stuff. You've got to ask..."any wife?" "any girlfriend?" "any other sub?"

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RE: A Warning To The Ladies - 2/17/2007 4:34:25 PM

JerseyKrissi72

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I was gonna let him save the $5.00 for a bottle of shampoo and a razor

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