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RE: Cleaning My Room - 2/19/2007 7:58:15 AM   
slaveish


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ORIGINAL: BRNaughtyAngel

When I had to write a report on the life, care and reproduction of the crawfish. 


*Stop laughing!*





~LOL~ Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh, yes. I love these sorts of tasks (even though I often put up a cacaphonous mock protest - "Please please don't fling me in that briar patch!").

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RE: Cleaning My Room - 2/19/2007 8:41:38 AM   
sambamanslilgirl


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ORIGINAL: needdiscipline23

So, I'm curious from others--what was your first experience (or even just a notable one) of realizing that submission isn't just about playing and having fun?


when Daddy said He had goals for me. honestly i was laughing but i knew He was right as He mapped out goals for my career, love relationship and my life. the more we talked about it, the more i realized how serious Daddy was and He's still serious about me reaching my full potential. so far, i completed the first step in my career currently working to reach my goal. as far as love goes, Daddy said i would meet the right guy for me. i recently met a wonderful guy from here and we're taking baby steps with our relationship.  when He collared me last month, i knew my submission to Daddy was forever.




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RE: Cleaning My Room - 2/19/2007 9:00:28 AM   
SweetCaleigh


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Status: offline 		The first time for me was when Master and i spent a long weekend together and i was told i had to ask permission to use the bathroom and that i had to leave the door open.   Ahhhhhhhhh!  Talk about embarrassing!  It was so hard for me, but i did it and as time went on it became easier and easier.

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RE: Cleaning My Room - 2/19/2007 9:56:08 AM   
Mercnbeth


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Status: offline 		this slave leaned about non-sexual, non-play oriented submission before she can remember learning it~and it has been something this slave has frequently sought out, specifically, in the past, on a volunteer basis.  it is fulfilling, purposeful service to this slave, and doesn't get her all wet and horny.  it is pleasing to Master-which is what she signed on for--His direction, His pleasure being paramount.

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RE: Cleaning My Room - 2/19/2007 10:08:26 AM   
BRNaughtyAngel


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ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth

this slave leaned about non-sexual, non-play oriented submission before she can remember learning it~and it has been something this slave has frequently sought out, specifically, in the past, on a volunteer basis.  it is fulfilling, purposeful service to this slave, and doesn't get her all wet and horny.  it is pleasing to Master-which is what she signed on for--His direction, His pleasure being paramount.


Merc never made you write a report on the life, care and reproduction of the crawfish, beth?



I've done something beth hasn't done! Yay me!

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RE: Cleaning My Room - 2/19/2007 4:02:14 PM   
yourgrrl


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Status: offline 		Interesting thread-
i am learning (sometimes the hard way) that submission isn't the play, the spankings or even sex but making Her happy with even the simplist of chores. coming home after work and taking my "down time" and relaxing because it is what She wants me to do.yes sometimes the chores and service aren't pleasant or exciting ,BUT it is what She has asked me to do. The rewards from this can be simply being allowed to sit at Her feet and feeling close. i am finding great pleasure in the service, be it a small task , in knowing that i am a learning patience and will be rewarded with my  good behavior. i treasure Her everyday as She treasures my submission .
yourgrrl

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RE: Cleaning My Room - 3/5/2007 12:50:47 AM   
FelinePersuasion


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Status: offline 		It's interesting to see how others feel about such things, Me I leave the bathroom open all the time, and I actually request that James comes in with me. I am not bathroom shy at all. Sometimes I won't ask him to come in if it's going to be a stinky 2, but that's just careing about the fact he hates anything poop related.
quote:

ORIGINAL: SweetCaleigh

The first time for me was when Master and i spent a long weekend together and i was told i had to ask permission to use the bathroom and that i had to leave the door open.   Ahhhhhhhhh!  Talk about embarrassing!  It was so hard for me, but i did it and as time went on it became easier and easier.


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RE: Cleaning My Room - 3/5/2007 4:31:56 AM   
StellaByStarlite


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Status: offline 		Hello. =)

Chores and such were no big deal for me, since I'm a stay at home mom in the first place. =)

My first real sense of submission was when the Mister decided he was going to buy decorate the bedroom in Denver Broncos colors. <gulp> Having control over the little details of home decor was something I always took for granted, so it was a bit of a shock, lol.

Don't be so hard on yourself. =) It's natural to feel some dissapointment when you were expecting fun and got chores instead. The important thing is that you did what was required, and even turned it into a growth experience.

Cheers,
Stella

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RE: Cleaning My Room - 3/5/2007 4:33:54 AM   
StellaByStarlite


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ORIGINAL: BRNaughtyAngel

When I had to write a report on the life, care and reproduction of the crawfish. 





*Stop laughing!*






Ok, I'm officially a nerd. Writing a report on the crawfish just sounds cool and interesting to me. =)


Cheers,
Stella

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RE: Cleaning My Room - 3/5/2007 4:36:21 AM   
nissa


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Status: offline 		My first realization came the day I said to him ' I want to be yours Master'  From that moment on it was never about me; and all about him.

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RE: Cleaning My Room - 3/5/2007 6:45:51 AM   
BRNaughtyAngel


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ORIGINAL: StellaByStarlite

quote:

ORIGINAL: BRNaughtyAngel

When I had to write a report on the life, care and reproduction of the crawfish. 





*Stop laughing!*






Ok, I'm officially a nerd. Writing a report on the crawfish just sounds cool and interesting to me. =)


Cheers,
Stella


Ahahahaha well I just wanna eat 'em, I don't care to know 'em personally!    But should you ever get an overwhelming desire to know all about crawfish...... drop me a line!

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RE: Cleaning My Room - 3/5/2007 6:52:00 AM   
gypsygrl


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ORIGINAL: needdiscipline23
Is it just completely lazy and immature of me to have even felt the way I did, or a typical part of growing as a submissive?


I think a lot of it has to do with where a person starts.    It was never about "fun" for me,  and I've always taken a very serious approach to it which, of course, doesnt mean I don't have fun.  Most of this, I think, is because I was pretty old before I started actively exploring this stuff, and had been through the wringer a few times.  I already knew life is mostly about doing dishes and other sorts of tasks that keep the wheels turning.  From the very beginning, I've always recruited Dominants into helping me do this stuff (a do-me sub, perhaps?).  So, if they were coming for a visit, it was great motivation to get things all neat and tidy.  I was involved with someone who would cancel alot at the last minute, and even though I was dissapointed, the dynamic still worked for me (at least for a while...I eventually got tired of his inability to follow through)  because my apartment was clean and I even had some good food around because I'd make sure to have lunch for him so I still felt grateful for the extra motivation and enjoyed the food (the sort of stuff I'd never buy for myself). 



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RE: Cleaning My Room - 3/5/2007 7:11:47 AM   
Artsslave


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Status: offline 		When i had my first child, which was before i even knew there was a lifestyle.

Oh, and by the way, before being accepted into training, i had to do a report too. But mine was actually lifestyle related in that i had to go to various sites that He gave me to read, then write out a two page report on my needs, expectations, limits and in detail explain them all.

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RE: Cleaning My Room - 3/5/2007 7:16:02 AM   
Arastella


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Status: offline 		First realized when I was a sub of a Master who already had an Alpha.  I realized a lot then.  Then I met Mistress.  Submission is much more beautiful now.

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RE: Cleaning My Room - 3/5/2007 8:00:45 AM   
swtrayn


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quote:

ORIGINAL: BRNaughtyAngel

When I had to write a report on the life, care and reproduction of the crawfish. 





*Stop laughing!*





Oh come on.. let us laugh.. that is to funny.


rayn



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RE: Cleaning My Room - 3/5/2007 8:17:20 AM   
swtrayn


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Status: offline 		My favorite thing use to be  getting my "to do" list in the mornings.
There were always things on it I really didn't want to do, but I always had to smile as I checked each one off, knowing He would be very pleased.



rayn



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RE: Cleaning My Room - 3/5/2007 12:04:32 PM   
gretchenS


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ORIGINAL: behindmirrors

Not the first, but a notable, was when I discovered doing the dishes at his request suddenly made it that much more thrilling. I did them right away, and was very pleased- as was he.

behindmirrors.


Same thing over here. It sucks... but in a very good way, and you put your best effort and leave everything sparkling clean afterwards, to just see him smile for a second.

Is not the same to do this kind of task with free will...

Talking about free will... I have to do my dishes... ugh...

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RE: Cleaning My Room - 3/6/2007 6:51:47 AM   
Mustardseed


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Status: offline 		I learned this shortly after re-entering the local scene after a few years absence.  At one point, I ended up hanging out with a D/S household and seeing the day to day specifics of what they did and how people reacted to each other under that dynamic.  It was ... interesting.  There are some people who might be appalled to learn that this particular kinky family was my introduction to 24/7 dominance and submission, but I got to see the good and the bad from a fairly safe distance and realize that pretty much any group of people I knew in the scene probably had these exact same issues come up and their own ways of dealing with them.  I got a good look at a reality before I went back to playing in ernest, and I'm glad that I did.

This made situations like being assigned the homework of shining Daddy's boots, writing book reports, having him influence my work-drag clothing purchases, stitching up the close he'd cut off of me the weekend before and the like seem rather normal than a bit of a shock.

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RE: Cleaning My Room - 3/6/2007 7:03:09 AM   
goodpet


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ORIGINAL: BRNaughtyAngel

Ahahahaha well I just wanna eat 'em, I don't care to know 'em personally!    But should you ever get an overwhelming desire to know all about crawfish...... drop me a line!




I'll take a copy please.. Never know when i might have to use it.   really.. i would like to read it..
~ann

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RE: Cleaning My Room - 3/6/2007 7:15:13 AM   
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