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agirl -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 9:09:14 AM)

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ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl

The reason it "should" be a hard limit is simply that if a person was straight, their own sexual orientation would make the deed impossible for them to perform.


You know, it's amazing what you can do when you want to please someone or you made an agreement to *submit* YOUR will .........or the threat of a big stick hangs over your head. Either way...some things are unpleasant but possible, some things are abhorrent, but possible. It's called * submission*.

agirl



viperess -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 9:10:43 AM)

Thanks benji now i am cleaning house singing an xrated version of the hokey pokey using humpy humpy in its place...Do the humpy humpy and thats what its all about....okay way to much caffeine here



sensualmagirl -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 9:11:02 AM)

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ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl

I still can't believe that 9 pages later, not a single male sub has said bisexual activities are a hard limit. I'm beginning to think I should forget dominating anyone and just become a sub.


Honestly, I am thinking (after reading all 9 pages), that you should consider re-evaluating everything all together. It sounds to me as if you're not ready to open your heart and mind to anyone or any new situations at this time in your life.



defiantbadgirl -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 9:12:55 AM)

I disagree. If a person was straight, their sexual orientation would stop them from being able to perform the act. Just like a homosexual's sexuality would stop him/her from having relations with the opposite sex. The only exception I can think of is if someone was non-consentually forced. In that case it wouldn't affect their sexual orientation at all.



sensualmagirl -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 9:13:10 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

OMG!!!!!!! What a way to start my day.......I am so depressed, maybe even to the point of eating chocolate or something....

I find out in eight alternatingly miserable and hysterical pages that I am

Bi-sexual
Alchoholic
Drug addict
criminal
prostitute
chef
race car driver
house keeper and maid[:'(]
etc
etc
etc..............too many to list........and I am depressed and all


LaT... I think this was one of my many favorites... LOL... almost choked on my coffee... Apparently, I"m also an accountant, travel agent... ha ha ha



LaTigresse -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 9:13:55 AM)

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ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl

I still can't believe that 9 pages later, not a single male sub has said bisexual activities are a hard limit. I'm beginning to think I should forget dominating anyone and just become a sub.


Hmmmmmm, have you met Michael from Georgia?



BRNaughtyAngel -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 9:15:42 AM)

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ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl

I still can't believe that 9 pages later, not a single male sub has said bisexual activities are a hard limit. I'm beginning to think I should forget dominating anyone and just become a sub.


Would you mind telling us what it is you like about BDSM?  Is it the Bondage and Discipline?  Dominance and submission?  Sadism and masochism?  What do you want in a relationship?  24/7 or casual play?  Your profile says you seek a dom.  Do you want to be a sub?  Or do you want to still switch if you find a dom?  If you find a dom, are you planning on obeying him and submitting to his will?  Do you hope to grow and change, push your limits?





defiantbadgirl -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 9:16:59 AM)

No, I haven't. I probably would if he was from my area.



defiantbadgirl -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 9:19:51 AM)

It's the bondage and discipline, dominance and submission. I am willing to push soft limits, just not hard limits.



gooddogbenji -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 9:20:52 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

quote:

ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl

I still can't believe that 9 pages later, not a single male sub has said bisexual activities are a hard limit. I'm beginning to think I should forget dominating anyone and just become a sub.


Hmmmmmm, have you met Michael from Georgia?



*Tips over dead.*



defiantbadgirl -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 9:22:37 AM)

What's wrong with Michael from Georgia? Does everyone make fun of him because he's straight?



gooddogbenji -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 9:23:41 AM)

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ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl

I disagree. If a person was straight, their sexual orientation would stop them from being able to perform the act. Just like a homosexual's sexuality would stop him/her from having relations with the opposite sex. The only exception I can think of is if someone was non-consentually forced. In that case it wouldn't affect their sexual orientation at all.


Would then not my hating fat chicks stop me from having sex with them?  Or does sleeping with one when I'm drunk make me a fatsexual?

Yours,


benji

PS:  Before anyone has an aneurism, sleeping with fat women doesn't make you fatsexual, only the desire to. 



gooddogbenji -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 9:25:05 AM)

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ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl

What's wrong with Michael from Georgia? Does everyone make fun of him because he's straight?


No.  We actually think you'd make a good match.  Homophobia has a way of finding its own.

Yours,


benji



mnottertail -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 9:27:10 AM)

Everybody likes Mike, he just don't get out of the house-----much.......

He needs to at least put a chair outside his door and get some sun.

Ron 



defiantbadgirl -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 9:27:41 AM)

It should stop you. A word of advice......don't get anyone pregnant unless either you or she has the money to surgically remove the stretched skin after the pregnancy.



gooddogbenji -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 9:32:11 AM)

What do I care what happens after the pregnancy?  Find 'em, fuck 'em and flee.

Yours,


benji



agirl -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 9:34:20 AM)

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ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl

I disagree. If a person was straight, their sexual orientation would stop them from being able to perform the act. Just like a homosexual's sexuality would stop him/her from having relations with the opposite sex. The only exception I can think of is if someone was non-consentually forced. In that case it wouldn't affect their sexual orientation at all.


I could eat a poo if I was told to........I don't WANT to, I'd detest it and I'd probably cry, a lot, if I had to........Just because I don't want to doesn't mean I'm unable to do so. Does that mean that I should have listed *eating poo* as a hard limit?

Sexual orientation doesn't have magical properties that render a person physically unable to undertake a task. It's how you interpret these things in your mind.

agirl





defiantbadgirl -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 9:38:10 AM)

Ok. How could a straight man have sex with another man to please his mistress? Wouldn't he develop a temporary case of erectile dysfunction?



gooddogbenji -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 9:39:38 AM)

I think what DBG meant was a man can't get hard unless he's horny. 

I won't point out the obvious flaws in this theory, but yeah....

Yours,


benji

Edited to add, now that she's confirmed this point, I'll point this out.  A lot of men get hard on command, simply because they enjoy the power exchange.  Or, if you've ever played with a winky, you'd know that squeezing the base of the cock restricts outgoing blood, but not incoming.  Therefore, it gets hard.  Or, you have a bi man get hard, and a straight man take it.  Or, or, or....



juliaoceania -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 9:41:13 AM)

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Sexual orientation doesn't have magical properties that render a person physically unable to undertake a task. It's how you interpret these things in your mind.

 
Well we all know that porn actresses all love bisexual acts and really do cum for about 15 minutes the moment another woman touches them because it is "so real"... chuckles. There are all sorts of motivations to engage in bisexual behaviors that have nothing to do with orientation



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