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ORIGINAL: BRNaughtyAngel

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ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl

It's the bondage and discipline, dominance and submission. I am willing to push soft limits, just not hard limits.

Do you understand what submission is?  I'm not talking about bottoming, but willingly and happily submitting your mind, body, heart and soul to your dominant? 

Two of your hard limits you list are face slapping and knife play.  So what would you do if your dom had you bound nude on your knees, legs open, hands behind your back.  He's been teasing and tormenting you for what seems like hours.  Sweet, soft caresses across your breasts bringing sighs of pleasure from your mouth, only to be interrupted by his pinching and twising your nipple until you want to scream from the pain.  Stinging blows from his cane followed by soft kisses and low whispers in your ear.

His hands moving over every inch of your body until he finds that tender spot between your legs.  His fingers slide between the lips, rubbing and stroking, then sliding inside and out again.  When you beg him for more, he responds by slapping that tender place with his riding crop.  The soft, sweet touches and the hard, stinging pain, all of it making you wet and throbbing, begging him to take you over the top. 

Over and over again, he brings you to the brink with his teasing, taunting and torturing.  You are physically, mentally and emotionally exhausted, but you want more. You want that release.  You beg him to give you that release.  You'll do anything, just please give you that release.....

He stands in front of you now and tells you to look up.  Through tear filled eyes you see he's holding a knife.  I'm going to cut you now defiant.  I'm going to mark you as mine.  Your heart is pounding louder and louder.  Your body is on fire and begging for release.  But you say start crying and saying No No No, I don't want that.  Please!  Then you feel the sting of his hand on your cheek and it brings you back, but oh god how it made you more wet. 

He runs the blade over your aching body.  Slowly up your arms, then across your tender, swollen breasts.  Up your thigh and down the other.  You're terrified, but your body is on fire and every inch of you is throbbing, just aching for him to take you and give you release.  The knife moves between your legs and the smooth, coolness across your throbbing clit is about to send you over the edge.  His other hand moves between your legs again, and he slides his fingers inside you.  You are panting and begging, humping against his hand.  His hard whisper in your ear that he's going to mark you as his now, but you can only cum if you tell him it's okay.  His fingers moving in and out of your wet, throbbing pussy.  His palm rubbing your swollen clit.  The knife poised and ready to mark you. 




RED!  STOP!!  PURPLE DINOSAURS!!!!  LordMasterDom, I know you read my profile about knives and face slapping being a hard limit and I  know you didn't just slap my face and run a knife over my wet throbbing pussy.  And don't EVEN get me started on you wanting to mark me as your own even though we've been in a loving, trusting, committed relationship for two years.  Untie me this instant!

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

naughtangel, damn that was hot!

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ORIGINAL: LotusSong

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ORIGINAL: hisannabelle

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ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl

Whether he performs the act for his mistress or not, he is bisexual. For a straight sub, this would be a hard limit. I'm a switch so I sub sometimes. Because I'm straight, anything bisexual is a hard limit..

erm, that's by your definition. according to a lot of people, that's bullshit. that would be like saying allowing myself to be sexually used by a mistress automatically makes me bisexual, and were i straight (which i'm not) it wouldn't. it seems to me that you simply have a lot of deep-seated fears based on what you've been through, and while there's nothing wrong with that, i think it's kind of presumptuous for you to project those fears onto other people, especially when your definition of it is likely far different from most. (i'd be curious to see how many people on this board agree wholeheartedly with you.)

eta: what about slaves, or submissives whose limits are only defined by those of their owner? i don't really -have- hard limits - at least any that aren't His - i imagine that's true of many male submissives as well. where does the limit factor come into play there, by your definition?

I agree with defiantbadgirl.  Everyone is allowed to speak their own truth and readers are allowed to accept or deny it.

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ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl

I understand that most of the people who have responded on this thread have a different definition of bisexuality than I do. But alot of the mainstream would agree with me. A straight person who never read the forums or was new to bdsm might not know the bdsm definition for bisexuality is different. 

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ORIGINAL: topcat

I apoligise to anyone reading this thread for my venting- but after reading this far in this trainwreck of a thread, it just popped.
 
I apologise for my error in judgement in posting the above.

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ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl

No, I don't hate you. I don't hate anyone for their sexual orientation.......straight, bi, or gay. I just think potential partners have a right to know if someone has engaged in bisexual acts before sleeping with them. You have a dom anyway. If for some reason you and your dom split and you are seeking, telling new potential doms that you're bisexual would actually benefit you. Most men are turned on by bisexual women.  Ask these same men if they like watching two males get it on and they're like no thanks. That's why I'm surprised TopCat was so mean. Straight male doms normally don't like to think about two men getting it on.

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

*rolls eyes* Yes. Continue the stereotypes. Can we start talking about how straight women suck at sex now?

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That's why I'm surprised TopCat was so mean. Straight male doms normally don't like to think about two men getting it on.

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ORIGINAL: stef

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

*rolls eyes* Yes. Continue the stereotypes. Can we start talking about how straight women suck at sex now?

She might very well think that, especially when you consider that she turned her ex gay.

~stef

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ORIGINAL: porthuronsub

I've got another angle on this thread.  What about the gay guy that gets married to a woman because he lives in a narrow minded town and has to protect his career.  The entire time he is married he has sex with men outside of the marriage, it is a sexless marriage.  Is he gay or straight.  Must be straight because he is married to a woman,  at least by her definition.

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ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl
That's why I'm surprised TopCat was so mean. Straight male doms normally don't like to think about two men getting it on.

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

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ORIGINAL: porthuronsub

I've got another angle on this thread.  What about the gay guy that gets married to a woman because he lives in a narrow minded town and has to protect his career.  The entire time he is married he has sex with men outside of the marriage, it is a sexless marriage.  Is he gay or straight.  Must be straight because he is married to a woman,  at least by her definition.

Oooo that reminds me - what if I have sex with a man and realize I hate it but I keep having relationships with men because that's what everyone expects from me. At about 30 I realize that I'm really into only women. I guess then I couldn't be a lesbian, I have to be bisexual!