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gooddogbenji -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/20/2007 2:06:44 PM)
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ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl
I bet alot of people who say it's nobody's business if they have engaged in acts that contradict with their specified sexual orientation would get very upset if they found out their partner had a sex change, didn't specify that on their profile, and used the excuse that they never asked.
Yes, but they do not think people should write this in their profiles. If you do not think to ask things which squick you, but not many others within the lifestyle you are seeking in, then it is your job to ask.
I understand, the whole sleeping with men thing may squick many a backwater hick, but the general population has come to terms with the fact that this exists, and someone may have gone poopy-poking in their salad days. You want to know, you ask.
Now, I think that if I get to know a woman, spend weeks dating her, getting to know her, and eventually prod the squishy bits with my meatrod, continue getting busy for a while, and after 6 months, she confesses her weeny whacking surgery, that's a lie of omission. Still wouldn't bother me, but I would consider it something that would come up in conversation when we discuss previous relationships, jobs, growing up, siblings, and the likes.
But if I want to know something, I ask. It's called communication, but I'm sure you did enough of that in convincing your man to turn gay.
Yours,
benji
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