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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/20/2007 1:52:21 PM   
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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/20/2007 1:53:26 PM   
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shibari, whips, beatings---- all these things tend to rein in free spirits.  I don't think an entire straitjacket is required in this instance.  I have been wrong before, tho.


Pllllllllllease can i have a straight jacket ?????????

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/20/2007 1:54:39 PM   
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Okay... got to go coach some soccer... or football for all the limey's and other weirdo’s.


Heyyyyyyyyy im not a weirdo

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/20/2007 1:54:55 PM   
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FukinTroll:  My vagina is an outy and not an iny.


As my teen-age daughter says:  TMI TMI TMI!!!!

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/20/2007 1:55:26 PM   
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Okay... got to go coach some soccer... or football for all the limey's and other weirdo’s.


Heyyyyyyyyy im not a weirdo


Saying you're not a weirdo on a derailed thread about bisexuality in a BDSM forum... are you sure you want to stand by that statement?

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/20/2007 1:56:14 PM   
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And if you have pissed longer than 2 minutes you should specify that in your profile.


Just out of curiosity, how would you feel if you became involved with a woman and had no idea until after you slept with her that she used to be a man? What if she used the excuse that you didn't specifically ask when you wondered why she never told you? Would you feel like you had been deceived?


No, I wouldn't... but then, I'm open-minded about people. Whatever that woman used to be, she is what she is now (and yes, the use of "she" was very deliberate). Then again, I don't believe in sleeping with someone that I haven't already gotten to know and felt an attraction to. If my partner's gender throughout their life was such an issue to me, however, I'd have made certain to ask at some point before sleeping with her.

Not like this response matters at all, because you'll ignore it just like you've ignored the dozens of other posts on this board that you can't use to further your agenda.


I think potential partners have a right to know. You do not. Although we disagree this issue, you are definitely not a hypocrite. I bet alot of people who say it's nobody's business if they have engaged in acts that contradict with their specified sexual orientation would get very upset if they found out their partner had a sex change, didn't specify that on their profile, and used the excuse that they never asked.

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/20/2007 1:57:59 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Valyraen

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Okay... got to go coach some soccer... or football for all the limey's and other weirdo’s.


Heyyyyyyyyy im not a weirdo


Saying you're not a weirdo on a derailed thread about bisexuality in a BDSM forum... are you sure you want to stand by that statement?


Yes, as my forum rating says im actually deranged - just slightly.

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/20/2007 1:59:06 PM   
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I think potential partners have a right to know. You do not. Although we disagree this issue, you are definitely not a hypocrite. I bet alot of people who say it's nobody's business if they have engaged in acts that contradict with their specified sexual orientation would get very upset if they found out their partner had a sex change, didn't specify that on their profile, and used the excuse that they never asked.



Well, by all means, start another thread that deals with this all-important issue... I think we've all seen just about enough of this one.

Would you like some BBQ?

*edited to ask* By the by... where are you drawing the hypocrite reference from? Did you get confused by the picture too?

Also... as I said in my post, if something is an issue for me, I ask any potential partner about. I don't feel that they're required to divulge any information to me upfront, because they can't read my mind to know what my potential buttons are.

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/20/2007 2:00:43 PM   
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Yes, as my forum rating says im actually deranged - just slightly.


My forum rating used to say I was "vanilla"... does that make it true that I only stopped being vanilla last night?

*Note* Please DON'T weigh in on that issue... I think we've all seen far too much of that old chestnut about the forum rankings.

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/20/2007 2:03:34 PM   
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I'm pretty sure LaT has my back on this one.





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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/20/2007 2:03:57 PM   
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I never said I knew you. I did however learn something about you in that thread. Guess that puts to rest the idea that I never learn anything from threads lol


I am still waiting for you to enlighten me as to what it is that you learnt about me from that thread.

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/20/2007 2:04:06 PM   
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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/20/2007 2:05:10 PM   
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I'm pretty sure LaT has my back on this one.





Ahhhhhhhyup.



was that a yes?

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/20/2007 2:06:44 PM   
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I bet alot of people who say it's nobody's business if they have engaged in acts that contradict with their specified sexual orientation would get very upset if they found out their partner had a sex change, didn't specify that on their profile, and used the excuse that they never asked.


Yes, but they do not think people should write this in their profiles.  If you do not think to ask things which squick you, but not many others within the lifestyle you are seeking in, then it is your job to ask.

I understand, the whole sleeping with men thing may squick many a backwater hick, but the general population has come to terms with the fact that this exists, and someone may have gone poopy-poking in their salad days.  You want to know, you ask. 

Now, I think that if I get to know a woman, spend weeks dating her, getting to know her, and eventually prod the squishy bits with my meatrod, continue getting busy for a while, and after 6 months, she confesses her weeny whacking surgery, that's a lie of omission.  Still wouldn't bother me, but I would consider it something that would come up in conversation when we discuss previous relationships, jobs, growing up, siblings, and the likes.

But if I want to know something, I ask.  It's called communication, but I'm sure you did enough of that in convincing your man to turn gay.

Yours,


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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/20/2007 2:06:46 PM   
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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/20/2007 2:08:01 PM   
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My vagina is an outy and not an iny.


Contrary to the latest rumours I really twuely think the innies are bestest.


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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/20/2007 2:08:44 PM   
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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/20/2007 2:09:18 PM   
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ORIGINAL: missturbation

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I'm pretty sure LaT has my back on this one.





Ahhhhhhhyup.



was that a yes?


That would be correct.


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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/20/2007 2:10:47 PM   
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*blows raspberry*


Idle thought: is it possible for someone to be a fruit-sexual.

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/20/2007 2:13:17 PM   
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Status: offline 		Well, Jason in American Pie, proved that it's possible to be pie-sexual, so why not fruitsexual?

Please, though, remember that if you experiment with it, you will have to tell your potential partners (Read: put on profile) that you shoved a pineapple in your meat wallet.

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