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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/20/2007 3:04:56 PM   
michaelOfGeorgia


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Status: offline 		there's a difference between being homophobic and just hating men "PERIOD" i have no problem with bi or lesbian women...i actually have some lesbian friends...it's MEN (bi, gay or straight) i hate. and i still believe that two men should never engage in sex with each other...i know, i'm picky that way. it's just plain gross on so many levels.

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/20/2007 3:05:27 PM   
SDFemDom4cuck


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Please, read what people say. Don't twist it, just read it.



I dont' think the problem is in the reading..the problem for the OP is in the comprehension of what's being said.

Back on topic...

Any BBQ left? I have some Merlot left from the Sister sub thread the other night.

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/20/2007 3:08:23 PM   
gooddogbenji


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ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia
and i still believe that two men should never engage in sex with each other...


Luckily, the waking world doesn't really give a damn about your opinion, eh? 

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/20/2007 3:09:05 PM   
porthuronsub


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ORIGINAL: Celeste43

Actually I'm with the op. I don't have sex with men who have had male/male sex. I'm not in the least homophobic. I've spend the last 40 years of my life summering on one of Fire Island's gay communities.

But I have known too many men to claim they were bi and then discover they actually only have sex with women, they don't have relationships with them. I've seen women strung along by these men, sometimes for years. I've had men try to pick me up one night, and then been snubbed by them the next when they were in total drag. (Besides he could walk on the boardwalk in heels while I never could, that in itself meant we weren't compatible.)

And of course, I've buried too many dear friends from AIDS.

However the onus is not on the men to volunteer who they had sex with one drunk night seven years ago. This is important to the op therefore it is her responsibility to ask about it.


Just to bring you up to date...gay men are not the only people to contract AIDS. 

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/20/2007 3:10:27 PM   
michaelOfGeorgia


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Luckily, the waking world doesn't really give a damn about your opinion, eh?


likewise, don't give a damn what you think of me either...i already know what you think...afterall...you're a MAN. you have no choice but to ridicule everything i say.


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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/20/2007 3:10:29 PM   
gooddogbenji


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ORIGINAL: porthuronsub
Just to bring you up to date...gay men are not the only people to contract AIDS. 


Yes, but did you write this in your profile?

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benji

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/20/2007 3:11:15 PM   
hisannabelle


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i go away for like 12 hours and the topic has sprouted heads.

what am i going to do with you people? :P

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/20/2007 3:13:14 PM   
gooddogbenji


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ORIGINAL: hisannabelle

forty fucking pages?

i go away for like 12 hours and the topic has sprouted heads.

what am i going to do with you people? :P



Leave us be for another 40 pages?

Or, jump in, have some ribs, and help out.

Yours,


benji

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/20/2007 3:21:14 PM   
porthuronsub


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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/20/2007 3:23:13 PM   
gooddogbenji


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ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia
likewise, don't give a damn what you think of me either...i already know what you think...afterall...you're a MAN. you have no choice but to ridicule everything i say.


Actually, I do.  I proudly make the choice to.

Then again, are you implying that women agree with your opinions?  Or just that they have a choice whether or not to ridicule you, and generally choose in favour?

Yours,


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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/20/2007 3:24:16 PM   
gooddogbenji


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ORIGINAL: porthuronsub

Hey can I get some BBQ over here.  I take a plate of eyeballs and a side of tongue.


You know the rules 'round these parts - Eye for an eye.

Hold still, I'll get the spoon.

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/20/2007 3:25:18 PM   
porthuronsub


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ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji

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ORIGINAL: porthuronsub
Just to bring you up to date...gay men are not the only people to contract AIDS. 


Yes, but did you write this in your profile?

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benji


I have a lot of writing to do.  Complete sexual history and I am 42 y/o.  Then I suppose I should put my educational history and work history down too.  I will have to put down personal references and maybe list a couple of teachers for people to talk to to see how I acted in school.  Oh, and don't forget the medical history.  Anything i am forgetting?  Wouldn't want to have someone ask me this in an actual conversation if they were interested in me.  Gotta put it out there for the world to see. 
Does dbg work for the government?  Homeland security by chance?  Is she tapping our phones?   

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/20/2007 3:26:18 PM   
SDFemDom4cuck


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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/20/2007 3:30:07 PM   
gooddogbenji


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ORIGINAL: porthuronsub

I have a lot of writing to do.  Complete sexual history and I am 42 y/o.  Then I suppose I should put my educational history and work history down too.  I will have to put down personal references and maybe list a couple of teachers for people to talk to to see how I acted in school.  Oh, and don't forget the medical history.  Anything i am forgetting?  Wouldn't want to have someone ask me this in an actual conversation if they were interested in me.  Gotta put it out there for the world to see. 
Does dbg work for the government?  Homeland security by chance?  Is she tapping our phones?   


Fashion styles subscribed to, movies seen, cars owned, CD's listened to, complete with inventory of repetitions per track, linen closet inventory sheets (only 7 years necessary) pets (names, type & breed, sexual partners, colour, medical history, traceable ancestry) profiles (site, name, password, forum post direct links, and reputation)

That's not all, but until you finish that, I'll have the next batch.

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benji

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/20/2007 3:30:08 PM   
hisannabelle


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ORIGINAL: SDFemDom4cuck

Damn aren't there any ribs left?


sorry, i was hungry. *burps, covers mouth, and looks abashed*

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/20/2007 3:31:55 PM   
AquaticSub


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ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl

If these lesbians are seeking, they should specify in their profile that they have engaged in opposite sex acts. If male subs who are seeking identify as straight, they should specify in their profiles that they have engaged in same sex acts. If someone has undergone a sex change and is seeking, they should specify they were once another gender in their profile. Potential partners have a right to know these things before getting involved. Now if they are involved and/or not seeking, I would have to agree that it's nobody's business. The point I'm trying to make is that since there is more than one definition (yes, I realize that), a potential partner may not be familiar with both definitions, so people who are seeking need to be more specific if they have engaged in acts opposite of their stated sexual orientation.


No the point you were trying to make is that anyone who is straight and has done bisexual act is bisexual and that they are lying to say they are straight.

By this logic, our lesbian friends are also lying. Or do you give the field on this point?

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/20/2007 3:33:40 PM   
AquaticSub


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ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl

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ORIGINAL: FukinTroll

And if you have pissed longer than 2 minutes you should specify that in your profile.


Just out of curiosity, how would you feel if you became involved with a woman and had no idea until after you slept with her that she used to be a man? What if she used the excuse that you didn't specifically ask when you wondered why she never told you? Would you feel like you had been deceived?


Your OP had nothing to do with this. Stop trying to bring muddle the waters in hopes we ignore your weak argument. Bad girl, no cookie for you.

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/20/2007 3:34:33 PM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		Ohhhhhhhh, I got my first weird hatemail email ever!!!!!!!! And it's from a gorean female submissive, I feel so special. Of course she has only been a member since January 2 of this year. And yet I have managed to upset the poor creature.

According to her I am an "ugly vanilla dyke". Well, that just blows my besmirched status right out the proverbial window now doesn't it. I am crushed.


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Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/20/2007 3:37:21 PM   
untamedshysub


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Status: offline 		I have a question for michael you can answer or tell me tomind my own business. Why do you hate men? I have my man hating days as well but with good reason  and they do come in handy from time to time.

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/20/2007 3:38:52 PM   
AquaticSub


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ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl

I never said I knew you. I did however learn something about you in that thread. Guess that puts to rest the idea that I never learn anything from threads lol


You say you learn but so far you demonstrate little applied knowledge...

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