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kinkiminx -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/23/2007 6:36:55 AM)
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ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl
Women who perform sexual acts to please their Master are also bisexual or it would be a hard limit for them too.
I noticed you mentioned bisexual acts past, present or future - if you're straight, surely past isn't relevant as what you have or haven't done can't be changed?! [sm=confused.gif] lol
Anyway, I tried being bisexual at the request of my ex Dom and it didn't work for me, so it became a hard limit. Last year, I switched (properly) for the first time -something I'd felt very apprehensious about doing before,- and whereas before I had no bisexual fantasies whatsoever, once I started considering the other side of the whip, my fantasies changed - motivations, activities I was interested in, even my sexuality, as a sub, being 100% straight, I find myself bi-curious as a Domme.
Yep, my profile isn't totally clear as it says sub - the problem is I can't tick both sub and Domme, I don't think of myself exactly as a switch, I don't think I could have a switch relationship which really meant anything, because the relationship itself would be confined to vanilla - (If I had one,) I wouldn't be happy dominating my Dom, or subbing to my sub!. Neither do I really want to tick both right now, as I'm looking for a Dom.
Life is not black and white.
Women who take part in bisexual acts, might genuinely be doing it for the sake of their Doms, and not getting anything out of it for themselves. "Bisexual" is an orientation, not an action.
As for why people lie about their sexuality, it's openly accepted for women to be bisexual; but women (and other men) are often critical of men for being bi. I'm not bothered whether a partner is straight or bi, just as long as if he's my Dom, he's still Dom with the guys if he's bi! [;)]
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