switchsecrets -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (7/3/2007 3:26:28 PM)
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Just found this thread and it's too long to read all the way thru it, but a few comments like the author's Master wouldn't think about anal sex with her, because that would be gay? I don't see that as gay at all. I don't think you can put a black and white description on what Bi is. There are many shades of grey in between. I've never been with another man, but sure I've fantasized about it and experimented with toys (and even blown myself before... truth be known).(and i'd be willing to bet that any man who could suck himself would try it too. Strange thing is, I never thought about trying it till I was about 37. I guess I became more resourceful as I got older!) I don't care to take that any further with another guy.(But, more power to those who do) But, from a straight person's perspective, I'd be considered Bi. From a gay man's perspective, I'd be straight, a tease, a wannabe... I guess, I'd be comfortable with the the Bi-curious term. But, by riding the fence, you're just going to piss off both sides! just can't win! (now you talk about hard finding the right woman, to understand all of this...!)
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