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Rose4Mistress -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (7/4/2007 3:11:42 PM)
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From my experience, most people experiment in some form or another with the same sex. When I was in elementary school, it was practicing kissing each other so we would know how, as we got older it was discussing and even "teaching" each other masturbation techniques. Most of these friends are now "completely" straight...they date men, they only have sex with men, etc. Even so, it is still very common for these same girls to kiss other girls at bars, or to even engage in threesomes! Are they bisexual? No. They are just comfortable with their sexuality.
I am bisexual, true. I am equally happy with either sex, and I will seek out both men and women for sex. To me, this is what it means to be bisexual. Not that I have in the past had sex with a girl, decided I didn't like it, and moved on. That would make me a straight girl who had once experimented. But as it is, I do like women, I do like men. Anyone who is going to be in my life will know that. I can be monogamous and happy...I don't need both sexes in my life in that manner, although when I am allowed to, I enjoy having both. What can I say...I'm greedy!
True, because of the stigma against male homosexuals and bisexuals, maybe men don't experiment as much as women do. Guys cheer when two girls makeout...but I don't think many girls would cheer seeing two men make out (although some women do like that, and thats ok with me). Still, you can't tell me that men don't compare penis length, etc. Ask a man about porn. Does he want to see guys with small dicks on there? NO! They want to see men with large ones, because that makes the porn more interesting. Are these men gay/bi? Not at all.
My boyfriend has never been intimate with another man, and has no desire to. Does that mean he does not notice if males are attractive, or does that mean he never discussed masturbation with his friends? Of course not.
I am sorry that you have had some bad things happen to you, but simply because someone has experimented in the past does not make them bisexual. Have you ever taken more aspirin than you should? Have you ever smoked weed? Then, by your definition, you are a drugee.
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