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sanita -> RE: Showing Respect. (3/19/2005 2:16:16 PM)
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ORIGINAL: temptation
I agree with taggard completely.
But I think the real problem, isnt that I read the email. its that most people dont read the profile, or dont have enough reading comprehension to understand what it says.
too many people "jump" to conclusions when they read profiles.
]...or don't read profiles as the case may be. now, i do not mind people contacting me. it is not as out of hand for me as it is for some people here. however, last night, i received 3 emails. one from a TranDomme looking for a bi slave. one from a FemDom in NJ with no profile text flattering me and offering me chat and a $200/hr job. and one from a male submissive who "can be Dom" simply asking if i had a Yahoo ID.
now, i said "no thank you" to all three, and pointed out that i am not "available" and wished them luck. errrrrrrm, i also mentioned that such a wage would be wonderful, but might not be something i could tell my mother about...
and there was no answer from any of these "genuinely interested in [me]" people.
Y/you know, it is the ones that respond with something along the lines of "Oh! I didn't notice that in your journal. I'm sorry if I offended, but thank you for responding." that end up becoming an interesting exchange.
eh, i am not innundated in CM, but i have been innundated in other sites, and yes, while one can try to answer all the emails within reason, there is a point where you know it is not a genuine inquiry, and there are more important things to do with life, than to repeatedly have to reiterate what is already in your profile.
and if someone were to get ugly, blocking is easy, and so is telling Master. *l*
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