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RE: Gifts to your One - 2/21/2007 2:23:29 PM

littleone35

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i just realized i did not answer the quetion asked so i will do so now.

I do not have to buy Masters atention i have it always, and if i had to buy it then he would not be the Master for me. I buy him sweets to let him know he is always on my mind, more than any other thought.

Buying something to get out of punishement ain't gonna happen even if i did try, which i would not if i deserve punishment or displine i an gona get punished or displined no matter what i bought him. He may like whatever i get him but i know it would not get me out of whatever i have coming.

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RE: Gifts to your One - 2/21/2007 3:14:38 PM

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ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam

The langauges he defines are:
gifts
sex (or affection)
quality time
quality talk
acts of service

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I liked your post. I find four of the five neccessities for a good long lasting relationship. The gifts for me just is a way of showing her that I was thinking of her when she might have thought that I wasn't. Does that make sense?

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RE: Gifts to your One - 2/22/2007 12:31:03 PM

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Sometimes I buy things, it's rare though. I'm the crappiest gift chooser I know.

If I felt I'd *bought attention*..........I'd treat it shabbily and be uninterested in it.

Giving a gift and deserving a punishment are two totally different spheres and they don't ever collide.

I make cards, write stuff and attempt to make edible food for him. I don't give much in a material sense at all, to him or to anyone.To be honest, even when I do these things, they are as much for me, as for him.

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RE: Gifts to your One - 2/22/2007 2:12:16 PM

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well part of our dynamic is that He controls the finances. i only carry $5 at any given time although i carry a credit card and a check book that i can use in case of emergency without asking. our agreement is that anything over $5 i need to discuss with Him first. so it's hard to buy him material gifts as He usually says no. i do give him things that i make often. those things come from the heart and are never to 'buy' my way out of punishment. but i guess you could say that subconciously when i make him a gift i'm buying his affection because i know he'll give me His time and attention when He thanks me. does that count?

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RE: Gifts to your One - 2/22/2007 4:38:08 PM

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ORIGINAL: rollinonward05

My question to everyone in this forum is this.
Do you buy things for your owner , besides at Christmas and their birthdays? Do you feel it would be like trying to buy their attention? Would you or have you tried this to get out of being punished? lol

be well all
rollin

i do buy Master tokens of affection or make them as often as i can. i have never tried to buy my way out of punishment ...the attempt itself would warrent greater punishment...IMO it is unbecoming for a slave to attempt to manipulate thier Owner.

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RE: Gifts to your One - 2/22/2007 10:16:54 PM

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i don't allow subs to give me gifts that they bought. they are allowed to knit me sweaters or hats, and make food or baked goods. i just want their service and submission. i get them silver jewelry that they must wear at all times to reward them if they have been extra pleasing

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RE: Gifts to your One - 2/23/2007 6:29:25 AM

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~Fast Reply~

I often pick things up for Valyraen when I'm out shopping. He loves gummi bears so I'll pick them up when I'm putting gas in my car, or if I spot his favorite brand of beer (rather hard to find where we live). When schoolwork has been making me intolerable, I will pick up a few sweets or other small items that he likes as my way of saying "Sorry I've been a bear, I still love you and thank you for sticking with me." However, I could never imagine trying to buy my way out of punishment. Somehow I don't think gummi bears come with a "get out of the corner free" card.

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RE: Gifts to your One - 2/23/2007 8:30:14 AM

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Sure, if I see something small that I think would make life easier for him, then I buy it. Usually clothes, a new pair of winter gloves or wool socks at the end of the season when they're on sale. He never buys clothes which reminds me I need to wander by the shop in town and look for new tee shirts for him as all his hacking around clothes have become work clothes covered in car repair spots and such.

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RE: Gifts to your One - 2/23/2007 12:14:34 PM

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To this I have to say....

A gift is a gift, as blackmail is blackmail...

If your not doing it for the wrong reasons, why question it?
I buy things for my Master and I dont care when it is, I just like to spoil him and there is nothing wrong with that (unless he said otherwise).

Hope it helps

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RE: Gifts to your One - 2/23/2007 2:35:22 PM

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I too like to spoil Master. I believe this lets Him know in one way my feelings for Him. I have often wished I could buy more things for Him, could make more things for Him and do more things for Him. He has helped me in so many ways such as my self esteem, being more open minded ( in and out of the lifestyle), so much more. For these reasons He deserves to be shown in any way I can that He means the world to me.
Have a great weekend all.

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RE: Gifts to your One - 2/23/2007 4:53:15 PM

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i buy lots of little things for my wife at random times... since we've lived together for several years now i hardly think of it as buying attention. If they bring her joy, or make her life easier, then i consider that to be part of doing my job as her pet (and, really, as her husband). Fortunately, my wife likes cute and inexpensive things as much as, and often more than expensive gifts.

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RE: Gifts to your One - 2/23/2007 6:02:51 PM

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i spose i just think masters should give their subs gifts and subs should give of themselves in service. i am a master soapmaker. i like to make soaps with a subs favorite fragrance and with her favorite colors if she has been above n beyond

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RE: Gifts to your One - 2/23/2007 6:07:21 PM

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My master is overseas right now ... so I send him are packages 2x a month ... I send him little things like his favorite food or new DVDs that come out (since he has no access to movies in Iraq). I also like to send him little personal things, like superman pjs, since I call him my superman.

Would it get me out of a punishment? Hell No ... but sometimes cooking his favorite meal and having it ready when he comes home does the trick, hehe.

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RE: Gifts to your One - 2/24/2007 11:41:08 AM

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i don't buy gifts for my Master. i express my love and appreciation in written words, which is something my Master takes great joy in. i make him smile, i keep him laughing, and i even though there are never enough words to tell my Master how much i love him, i still try.

When i have given my Master a gift, it has been something that i created with my hands, and poured all my love into. And those kinds of gifts are far too precrious to give to get out of punishment. Aside from the fact that it wouldn't be right, since if i'm being punished i've obviously wronged in some way and deserve the consequences for it.

There is no better gift to give then one that shows that i'm not only thinking of Master, but also that my heart was completely in it.

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