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I have often wondered wether it was Me physically, ment... - 2/22/2007 1:40:10 AM   
SirDiscipliner69


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Status: offline 		I have often wondered wether it was Me physically, mentally or emotionally they were really attracted to or just what I represented in a mindseys of their fantasy of being dominanted.
 
Has this crossed anyone else's mind?

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RE: I have often wondered wether it was Me physically, ... - 2/22/2007 7:28:22 AM   
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wether it was Me physically, mentally or emotionally they were really attracted to or just what I represented in a mindseys of their fantasy of being dominanted.

Has this crossed anyone else's mind?

Ross

No, it tends to be pretty obvious which way it is.

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RE: I have often wondered wether it was Me physically, ... - 2/22/2007 1:29:31 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

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wether it was Me physically, mentally or emotionally they were really attracted to or just what I represented in a mindseys of their fantasy of being dominanted.

Has this crossed anyone else's mind?

Ross

No, it tends to be pretty obvious which way it is.


amen.

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RE: I have often wondered wether it was Me physically, ... - 2/22/2007 1:51:53 PM   
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Status: offline 		Too, wondered I if wether my mindseye dominated my mind or instead did fantasy.

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RE: I have often wondered wether it was Me physically, ... - 2/22/2007 1:54:48 PM   
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Status: offline 		I think that even if it is a fantasy, if a sub submits to you, ~you~ will become her fantasy.

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RE: I have often wondered wether it was Me physically, ... - 2/22/2007 2:19:18 PM   
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RE: I have often wondered wether it was Me physically, ... - 2/22/2007 2:28:40 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SirDiscipliner69

I have often wondered wether it was Me physically, mentally or emotionally they were really attracted to or just what I represented in a mindseys of their fantasy of being dominanted.


To be honest, it's easy enough to find out; don't dominate (or submit) until after the relationship is established.  If they are only looking to have their fantasies fulfilled, they won't stick around long enough.


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RE: I have often wondered wether it was Me physically, ... - 2/22/2007 6:51:03 PM   
Driver1961


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Yes, I understand what you mean, so I generally ask the submissive so I can make a judgement based on their replies and self-awareness.

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RE: I have often wondered wether it was Me physically, ... - 2/22/2007 6:53:29 PM   
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I think that even if it is a fantasy, if a sub submits to you, ~you~ will become her fantasy.

 
Nicely said slavish

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RE: I have often wondered wether it was Me physically, ... - 2/22/2007 7:04:23 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael
Too, wondered I if wether my mindseye dominated my mind or instead did fantasy.


This often crosses My mind. Sometimes I wonder if it is Me or My car or perhaps fantasies of being dominanted by the immense Bulge in My pants.

Bob

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RE: I have often wondered wether it was Me physically, ... - 2/23/2007 3:40:35 AM   
grinningcat


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Status: offline 		For me it was initially a physical attraction to Him...which lead to a mental attraction then the emotional attachment.

Now, i don't think i could separate one from the other.

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RE: I have often wondered wether it was Me physically, ... - 2/23/2007 5:45:49 AM   
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Status: offline 		Some of that might depend on whether it's casual, or a relationship - if it's casual, you might represent the fantasy to some, if it's a relationship, it generally takes some attraction to you as a person for someone to stick around.

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RE: I have often wondered wether it was Me physically, ... - 2/23/2007 7:01:08 AM   
Celeste43


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Status: offline 		Well, if the people you get into relationships with are this confused it sure doesn't say much for your ability to pick a healthy partner with whom you can have a mutually satisfying relationship. I suggest therapy to learn better people skills.

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RE: I have often wondered wether it was Me physically, ... - 2/23/2007 10:34:19 AM   
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ORIGINAL: SirDiscipliner69

I have often wondered wether it was Me physically, mentally or emotionally they were really attracted to or just what I represented in a mindseys of their fantasy of being dominanted.



I'm wondering if it matters, Ross. Or if indeed it isn't a little of both at first. Also, as kinki said, it depends on the depth of the relationship. If one is in a longterm relationship, I would have to say it is the people involved. Fantasy can only last so long before it hits reality in a longterm relationship.

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RE: I have often wondered wether it was Me physically, ... - 2/23/2007 12:14:49 PM   
kate


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Status: offline 		ok..for me it is the fantasy....BUT it is a fantasy of being dominated by someone that i was physicaly and mentaly and emotinaly attracted to..... the attraction is part of the fantasy....get me?

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