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reamer -> RE: question for monogamous doms (2/23/2007 10:10:10 PM)
well, considering he'll never have the chance tyo assfukk you, Julia, that's probably not gonna bother him, LOL

juliaoceania -> RE: question for monogamous doms (2/23/2007 10:14:41 PM)
I am not attempting to bother him...smiles

azzmaster -> RE: question for monogamous doms (2/24/2007 8:59:18 AM)
yes its tru i may neva have the pleasure of a deep intimate physical knowledge of the fair julia's rear portal but sinergy was just describing his methods of anal entry to me so i can comtemplate it at my leisure if i was so inclined.

novicecourtesan -> RE: question for monogamous doms (2/24/2007 12:29:04 PM)
this is exactly my point. these threads start out informative and then disappear on ridiculous personalized squabbling that everyone else steers clear of. Suddenly I don't feel the need to defend the multiple monogamy threads so much.....it'll probably take three or four to separate the wheat from the chaff....

dawntreader -> RE: question for monogamous doms (2/24/2007 12:44:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: novicecourtesan this is exactly my point. these threads start out informative and then disappear on ridiculous personalized squabbling that everyone else steers clear of. Suddenly I don't feel the need to defend the multiple monogamy threads so much.....it'll probably take three or four to separate the wheat from the chaff.... And i would have to agree with you wholeheartedly on this assessment! LOL!!!

BeingChewsie -> RE: question for monogamous doms (2/24/2007 4:25:38 PM)
quote: BPCD psycho bunny As a psych nurse I LOVE this one..the only thing worse than one borderline female on the unit is two...I'm going to have to remember the above lol.

HatesParisHilton -> RE: question for monogamous doms (2/24/2007 8:03:01 PM)
Yup, they are the landmines in the lilly fields... Back to the OP and NC's question ~ since I'm in a such an honest mood, I'll add some stuff: For my own reasons, I have decided that I'll never legally marry, although I'll be more fidelity oriented (and effective) than MANY married guys (and gals) I know. I think "marriage" is in the behaviour, NOT the paper. However, this means when I state this upfront (like other things I mentioned above), even women INTO monog LOSE interest, even though I can be more of a "hubbie" without the paper than louts who give the ring. I think that's CRAP. But hey, if a woman needs a ring and a weding party and all that crap that can go south in a big bad way after less thsan a year, they can go for it, just not with me. Same with kids; I'll NEVER have kids, PERIOD. I don;t like the way the world is now, don't like the idera of bringing another helpless little soul into a world where Dubbu Dubba Dumb-ass can be filmed stating the "30th of February" and still have the power to have young men's faces and legs get blown off over a war HIS DADDY didn't want, or Cheney getting TWO FUCKING MILLION spent on security just so he can drive over the Sydney Harbour Bridge from a Gov't that won't guarantee TEACHERS more than a POVERTY LEVEL SALARY for teaching kids, plus killing nurses' wages. while taking BILLIONS from cigs. Not a great place to raise a kid in. But when I am honest like women ASK for (and demand) and tell them this, even if they wee gung ho for me beforehand, they lose interest in my offer of monogamy. THEY lose interest even though I OFFER it. Because no ring, no wedding cake, no bridesmaids. My definition of monog is not limited to such consumeristic CRAPPOLA. I thought this needed to be added.

Sinergy -> RE: question for monogamous doms (2/24/2007 10:03:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: azzmaster yes its tru i may neva have the pleasure of a deep intimate physical knowledge of the fair julia's rear portal but sinergy was just describing his methods of anal entry to me so i can comtemplate it at my leisure if i was so inclined. I asked you already to not consider my posts where I have not listed names to imply what I have or have not done in my relationships. Apparently, you are incapable of respecting myself, juliaoceania, or our relationship. Sinergy

HatesParisHilton -> RE: question for monogamous doms (2/24/2007 10:13:39 PM)
Sin, if you loosen the fuck up for one goddamn second, he'll take that as a respect from you by HIS standards and then respect you by yours. Takes 2 to tango. Get a little loose and he'll likely cut the crap, seriously. If not, well, I'm a worse booty fiend than he, and I'll have "fun" with him afterwards, I promise.

juliaoceania -> RE: question for monogamous doms (2/24/2007 10:18:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HatesParisHilton Sin, if you loosen the fuck up for one goddamn second, he'll take that as a respect from you by HIS standards and then respect you by yours. Takes 2 to tango. Get a little loose and he'll likely cut the crap, seriously. If not, well, I'm a worse booty fiend than he, and I'll have "fun" with him afterwards, I promise. I am simply going to say that if coming to this board means I have to be subjected to some stranger pointing out to my dom that he is fantasizing about ass fucking me.. my days on CM are numbered. I will not be coming here anymore if sexual harassment is part of the picture... I prefer to have discourse where that sort of nonconsensual kink is not smiled upon and defended....

Sinergy -> RE: question for monogamous doms (2/24/2007 10:21:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HatesParisHilton Sin, if you loosen the fuck up for one goddamn second, he'll take that as a respect from you by HIS standards and then respect you by yours. Takes 2 to tango. Get a little loose and he'll likely cut the crap, seriously. If not, well, I'm a worse booty fiend than he, and I'll have "fun" with him afterwards, I promise. Thank you for the lovely thoughts, HatesParisHilton. Why exactly do you think I care what his standards are? He refuses to respect mine. I have a friend whose Scandanavian grandmother told her as a little girl "You tell zem vonce, and zen you clip zem." I tried to be polite and respectful and asked him to leave us alone. He continued to be a disrespectful jackass. I continued to be polite, asking him to refrain from being disrespectful. He continued to make obnoxious statements to both myself and my submissive. I continued to politely ask him to cease and desist. He simply changed forums and continued to make disparaging and obnoxious comments about me and mine. So I have told him (three times "vonce") three times. Guess what happens next. Sinergy

Sinergy -> RE: question for monogamous doms (2/24/2007 10:23:20 PM)
Regarding my friend. She was hitchhiking in Europe and some trucker tried to have his way with her. She told him vonce. Zen she stuck her ice axe in something soft and got out of the truck. Sinergy

novicecourtesan -> RE: question for monogamous doms (2/24/2007 11:30:30 PM)
again, I'd just like to say......I'M the newbie????? Why can't we all just get along? Or....at least ignore each other? Isn't there a chatroom for this stuff? (note that this does not in anyway was diminish my admiration for Sinergy's defense of his lady. julieoceania, don't go anywhere, we need you. azzmaster, you are funny, but its not nice to make ladies uncomfortable. everyone else, don't encourage this!). Seriously, prepare for a fourth goddamn monogamy thread if we don't get back on topic soon....

azzmaster -> RE: question for monogamous doms (2/25/2007 12:00:17 AM)
i am not fantacizing about assfukking julia, or any other way even tho sinergy was just bragging about her doing her kegels. the only thing i really like about julia is her humanitarian based political views. really i like women with more meat on their bones or darker. but u know, in a dim room when i m drunk i will assfuckk just about anything that will hold still. as for u ms novice, my apologies for going off topic, i know u are seeking understanding and trying to find fullfillment

hisannabelle -> RE: question for monogamous doms (2/25/2007 12:08:07 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: novicecourtesan Seriously, prepare for a fourth goddamn monogamy thread if we don't get back on topic soon.... you've gotten beaucoup on-topic responses to your questions on all your threads...what's the need for MORE threads?

novicecourtesan -> RE: question for monogamous doms (2/25/2007 12:25:20 AM)
actually, it was more of an idle threat. apparently starting a repetitive thread is more of a sin that battling endlessly off topic as seems to the be case on every message board. azzmaster, apology accepted and I hope we can all be friends again. hisannabelle: no, my question for this thread has a few answers, but only HatesParisHilton has given me an answer to the exact question, which I will repeat again, only to be forgotten again, but what the hell: For those doms who have been poly or are open to poly, what would make you choose monogamy, perhaps in a given situation? Emotions and desire are the core, but I thought HatesParisHilton was most enlightening by giving details of his process. Some others may not be so analytical, but I'm sure that they have contemplated the different situations and when they choose monogamy, I'm interested in their pros and cons. I am simply asking questions. In about a week, someone else will post a monogamy thread. Perhaps they are looking for new perspectives, or can't be bothered to look up old threads, or want to chat "live" instead of reading. I am very grateful to those who gave specific answers--too much drama, too much trouble to find people, jealousy and possessiveness, etc. But more knowledge is always better than less, and three opinions does not a survey make. If I've exhausted the topic, fine, but I wanted to give the thread a fair chance to die an honorable death rather than to be pummelled to death by relentless imaginary assfucking. :)

azzmaster -> RE: question for monogamous doms (2/25/2007 12:30:06 AM)
i don't think u or anyone needs to apologize for posting a topic. if one is not interested in the topic one need not post a reply. well i don't like to be analytical but i will say this. nothing right now could make me monogamous. in time when i decide to start a family i will probably be ready to settle down, tho i might still have a little fling here and there if it could be done discreetly.

hisannabelle -> RE: question for monogamous doms (2/25/2007 12:48:06 AM)
i think you're just looking for answers that you're probably not going to find, as a lot of posters seem to feel like choosing a relationship style is analogous to choosing their role...and many people here feel that they are naturally submissive or dominant, just as many are naturally predisposed to monogamy or poly. (i'm citing this simply because it's a common answer, not because it's the only answer.) i guess i'm just curious how many ways you want to hear the same answers, as it seems as though you're just dissatisfied with the answers you had before hatesparishilton - because i counted a number of straightforward ones on the first few pages of the thread, and i seem to recall a number of straightforward ones on the other thread. honestly, it really doesn't matter to me how many times you feel the need to post about this; as azzmaster said, we can all skip it. i guess it just seems to me as though you're banging your head against a wall, because you can ask it ten different ways and you're still going to get answers mostly along the same vein, and someone is still going to come by a month or a week or two days later and ask the same question.

Lucius -> RE: question for monogamous doms (2/25/2007 1:06:26 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: novicecourtesan For those doms who have been poly or are open to poly, what would make you choose monogamy, perhaps in a given situation? Nothing. Lucius Alexander House of the Palindromedary

aSlavesLife -> RE: question for monogamous doms (2/25/2007 5:46:07 AM)
azzmaster this has really gone on long enough. My indignation buttons have all been pressed due to this thread. And since my wrath has been raised, I must now insist that the non consent stops! This is an ADULT site, and adults don't have sex, let alone talk about it. Hell, I went into an adult toy store last week, and I almost called the police! Not a single game of Scrabble was anywhere to be found. Every single thing there offended my delicate sensibilities. The audacity of those people to actually display things of such perverse and vulgar nature in a building that I MIGHT WALK INTO! I almost went into shock, and told the low life behind the counter that. And do you know what he had the nerve to say? He said " You don't have to come in here if you don't want to. " Can you imagine that? Him telling ME that I didn't have to come in there? That was even more non consensual than the filthy pieces of plastic laying around, because telling me to not look at something that might offend me is a super special double non consensual hard limit! If you are wondering why this should be of utmost importance to everyone here, the answer is simple. I am the hub of the entirety of the multi verse.Yes, thats right, the earth, other planets, galaxy, universe, and dimensional membranes all revolve around me! So to spare you all the grievous sin of violating my right to not consent, here is a list of words and subject that I do not consent to, and I expect everyone to respect my HARD LIMITS on these subjects. 1. Bondage, discipline, sadism, masochism, dominance, submission, slave, switch, top, bottom, daddy, mommy, daughter, pet, pony, puppy, kitten, mongoose, llama, vanilla, anal sex, oral sex, vaginal sex, masturbation, hand jobs, foot jobs, toe jobs, nose jobs, rim jobs, fisting, fingering, clitoris, penis, testicles, G-spot, nipples, sensual, arousal, pleasure, pain, humiliation, water, rubber, latex, corsets, rope, collar, whips, paddles, dildos, vibrators, age play, exhibitionism, face slapping, gags, knife, wax, nudity, bruising, music, poems, relationships, health, politics, religion, metaphysics, celebrities, groups, munches, books ( except Harry Potter ), movies, vampires, monogamy, polyamory, polygamy, celibacy, marriage, and last but not least, love. Any of these subjects will be considered non consensual by me, and I will view them as being a direct personal attack. So please everyone, go back, look through everything you have ever posted, and delete these affronts to me. Thanks in advance.

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