RchmdServiceNeed
Posts: 36
Joined: 3/5/2007 Status: offline
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No one is "asking" you to do anything. It's on a profile or in 1st email and you are either fine with it or you are not, just like anything else in the kink world someone may ask for that you dislike. it is not disrespectful for one to be honest about what they are looking for or need and see if you two are a match. If you aren't a match, move on like always, no need to blame or berate the other person. If you are a match, have fun! haha! P.s. If you are finding the only ladies that will tolerate you/your kinks are pro-dommes and that is why you are getting mad at them for asking for $$ you might consider just doing it, -- they are poviding a service you might not otherwise get somewhere else for little effort on your part and a high degree of safety. We would all like to find exactly what we want exactly when we want it-- but there is reality where that doens't always happen or we don't have the time necessary to make it happen. In the end, it does satisfy your need and if you are having a problem finding it or spending the time courting a lifestyle domme or finding one that matches your kinks, my god, just do it! put yourself out of your misery, have fun, & live your life! You only get one man & it's too short at that! Best Wishes. :)
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