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Aine -> RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! (2/23/2007 8:21:02 PM)

huked awn fonics werkd 4 mee!
 
Seriously though...it took more time and thought for me to type the above statement than it would have for me to type it out correctly.  Funny.
 
Yeah, I'm with kyra on this one, all I read was the Topic Title and jumped right to the comments.  Much more fun that way, but once I'm not pissed about having just reformatted twice, I might come back and actually read  the post and perhaps have something constructive to add.




AquaticSub -> RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! (2/23/2007 9:00:44 PM)

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ORIGINAL: fusion

To all my critics thank you for your imput.  I will read and consider each and everyone of them.  Yes,I am writing it to one person,  I have moved beyond hogties and dom struting.  I have moved beyond  just knowlege want to discover the metaphysical of this world.
As to sexual roles even the most gay or lesbian of relationships are shaped on the man/woman dynamic the the D/s power relationship.   I don't have to be politically correct nor will I be.  I am not interested in presenting my thoughts run through grammar and spell check.
I am a man with flaws one who is trying to rise above his fixed existing believes and feelings seeking higher levels, all this life can be.  I am seeking the woman who feels the same as I do.  I am certainly no "Atlas Shrugged"  yet I know that and "unexamined life is not worth living",  that we only pass this way once and with the magic that TPE can produce I want to go as far as I can take it.  Fusion



I believe this translates into: "The natural order is man is superior/above/whatever woman". I advise checking out Gor.

I also advise using a spell checker. When one posts in a public forum, the logical assumption is that one wishes one thoughts or question to be read and understand. When we can not understand your post because of faulty grammar or spelling, we can not help or respond to it. So unless you are wasting bandwidth and only posting for yourself, with no intent or concern about others being able to read it, use the damn spell checker. I don't do it all the time, but I do it most of the time. And I always do it when I'm posting a starter thread.




hisannabelle -> RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! (2/23/2007 9:47:33 PM)

my biggest issue wasn't even necessarily the gender one (although that does irk me) but the idea that master/slave is the highest of relationships. i AM a slave in a tpe, and i still think that's fairly indicative of a superiority complex at best, and incredibly disrespectful of all other bdsm relationships at worst.




Lashra -> RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! (2/23/2007 9:50:54 PM)

My "natural order" is anyone can be dominant or submissive, gender has nothing to do with it but personality traits does. I am a naturally dominant female and I have a submissive male. We are both very happy this way and wouldn't change for anyone.

Good luck and you should really check out the gor forums it sounds like its right up your alley.

~Lashra




AquaticSub -> RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! (2/23/2007 9:55:10 PM)

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ORIGINAL: hisannabelle

my biggest issue wasn't even necessarily the gender one (although that does irk me) but the idea that master/slave is the highest of relationships. i AM a slave in a tpe, and i still think that's fairly indicative of a superiority complex at best, and incredibly disrespectful of all other bdsm relationships at worst.


Eh... I don't care so much about the gender thing. There are tons of male subs who think women are superior and I don't agree with them either. I just get very irked by the whole "master/slave" is the best thing. From what I've read I could be a slave to the correct man. After all, hopefully none of us would submit to the wrong man. But that isn't the relationship my dominant wants. He wants a playful little kitten, and that's something I'm very happy to give him.

Edited to Add: And for that matter, when did BDSM become a competition with a "best" and "worst"?




susie -> RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! (2/23/2007 11:51:52 PM)

I haven't read his profile. Does he live in Kansas and watch Jerry Springer by any chance?

[sm=crop.gif]




Lordandmaster -> RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! (2/23/2007 11:53:52 PM)

Have I ever mentioned that my dick is curved like a banana?




Driver1961 -> RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! (2/24/2007 12:29:34 AM)

He dips His lid,

May I suggest to the OP and all else to read http://www.collarchat.com/m_774591/tm.htm Madrabbit's post.  I'm envious of His ability with words.

To the OP.  Being the BEST you are helps to CUT N PASTE.

Warm regards to all.  Driver




Zensee -> RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! (2/24/2007 12:35:42 AM)

Why yes you have, you hunka hunka hunka elephatine lurve you! Often.

When it comes to slavery it seems to me that there is someone attached to both ends of the chain.


Z.




WingedSnake -> RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! (2/24/2007 12:48:58 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

Have I ever mentioned that my dick is curved like a banana?


How comfortable and practical!




FukinTroll -> RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! (2/24/2007 12:51:05 AM)

LMAO!!!! susie!!!!! Your killing me!!!




WingedSnake -> RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! (2/24/2007 12:51:39 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Zensee

Why yes you have, you hunka hunka hunka elephatine lurve you! Often.

When it comes to slavery it seems to me that there is someone attached to both ends of the chain.


Z.


And what is the sound of one of the above mentioned somenones?




Zensee -> RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! (2/24/2007 12:59:46 AM)

ummmm... Rattle rattle?


I know the answer to the one hand clapping thingy though.

OTK
 

Z.




WingedSnake -> RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! (2/24/2007 1:02:17 AM)

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ORIGINAL: marieToo

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ORIGINAL: catize

quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

Many thanks. I needed a good laugh tonight.
I can't wait to murge.



I'm hoping to be re-eduacated soon!


Oh dear. You girls are ruthless.


Nobody should be ruthless!

Ruth




WingedSnake -> RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! (2/24/2007 1:07:33 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Zensee

ummmm... Rattle rattle?


I know the answer to the one hand clapping thingy though.

OTK


Z.


Rattle, Rattle is one possibility, i looked for something more ähm metaphysical, given the needs of the OP.
I would go for Röchel, röchel. Rooooooooooooon, what is röcheln in english?,,,,i am holding out two virgins..to get Rons attention.




susie -> RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! (2/24/2007 1:13:05 AM)

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ORIGINAL: FukinTroll

LMAO!!!! susie!!!!! Your killing me!!!


Oh NO NO NO I don't want that to happen. I loves you. hugs




FukinTroll -> RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! (2/24/2007 1:14:56 AM)

Thankies Doll!! 

But that was friggen funny!




Vendaval -> RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! (2/24/2007 1:26:50 AM)

I do not understand the point you are trying to make here.
Please clarify.

quote:

ORIGINAL: fusion
As to sexual roles even the most gay or lesbian of relationships are shaped on the man/woman dynamic the the D/s power relationship.  




scottjk -> RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! (2/24/2007 1:44:41 AM)

Hmm...

He's enthusiastic. Nothing wrong with that. Based on what I've seen of his profile, at least from the photos he's posted, I have an idea that he's socially successful, possibly financially, in good shape, definitely type A in personality. I'd also go as far to say he's not afraid to put it out there and accept a few good hits too.

I wouldn't be so quick to judge him either, based on his grammar and spelling. It would be bad form.

He's also excited about the lifestyle and shows that he's ready to jump in there and make his share of mistakes. What he does about his mistakes, only time will tell. I'll give him the benefit of the doubt and assume he'll do what he must. Granted, it appears that he didn't put his best foot forward in YOUR mind, but like anything else, you can't learn to walk until you actually take that first step. No risk? No gain.

As far as the Gor comment is concerned? [:'(]
Please.. most of the Goreans I've met don't know what Gorean is. So, let's not even go there.

The OP has a fledgling concept, try to be a little generous and offer comments to help him develop it, rather than dousing it in kerosene and setting fire to it. It would be more constructive.




tricia -> RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! (2/24/2007 3:00:12 AM)

I think the competition begins when people like yourself -  jump in the ring and begin to make it one.  Only you're boxing your own shadow.  The people who consider themselves slaves, for the most part, don't give much credence to posts like these -as is obvious by the responses here.  I simply don't need my relationship or the way i view myself in my relationship validated, justified or measured in comparison to someone elses.  I'm curious as to why you do.




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