puella -> RE: anyone have any theories about y there is so many uptite people on these forums? (2/24/2007 11:22:29 AM)
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I think you are quite wrong azzmaster. I think that most here are not at all inhibited about speaking about matters that involve sexuality, even the most 'fringe' elements of sexuality. I believe people in general are more than a little repulsed by language which is demeaning, unintelligent, and base, and also get annoyed when lazy people decide to type in a defilement the language of the message board you are posting to. That being said, I think that many people have no aversion to hearing 'coarse' words in and of themself. I think rather that it is how they are employed by the user which will elicit either a positive or negative response... for example, if you were to tell me... "During the scene, you shall be bound and gagged, and I will spread your cunt and torment you for my pleasure.", I would not in the be in the least offended, taken aback or repulsed (though, I would not take you up on the offer, heh). However, if you stated something like.."U r a dumazz fukkin ugly mutherrrrr fukkkin stanky cunt an im gunna ram ur nasssty azz gash"... well, let's just say that you would be far less likely to receive anything close to a positive response from me (and I would wager, most other women). The surrounding lazy and low language and grammar in the sentence would also be up for criticism, in my book. No one wants to have to re-read a mishmash of random nonsensical patter to try to figure out what you were trying to say. The fact of the matter is, you choose the manner in which people will be able to perceive you when contributing to an online forum. Like it or not, your language, your skill with language and the attitudes you express via that language are all part of how you will be received. It has very little to do with anything at all resembling prudishness or being 'up tight'.
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