vield -> RE: Hey Doms! have u ever Dom'd a Domme? (2/26/2007 8:03:42 AM)
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LOL, it is another word game making no point, but a commonly asked question. Whether you are dom sub switch or whatever you decide to be, your definition of what your label means may differ from those others commonly use. It is very possible for a very dominant person to feel a submissive energy flow towards another person, even if that person is usually seen by most others as a submissive. It is also perfectly possible for a very submissive person to feel an energy flow with someone most see as dominant such that they dominate the other. I define the energy exchange as my personal charisma, and the charisma of the potential partner. There have been times when the power exchange just felt right going in an unexpected direction. Some of these occasions have been gloriously beautiful. One event I attended with poly partners. I was with my Mistress, her Master, and our slave girl. Each of us knew well how we fit together, all of us were happy in these relationships, and we had no confusion. Others attending the weekend event may have been confused, especially when I paddled my Mistress (her Master did not like giving pain and I can do that well) but that was not our problem. Just remember, that which is safe, honestly negotiated, consensual and mutually desired can be right for me and my partners, whether or not anyone else would like those actions. Often dominant women and men agree to try new things from a submissive perspective so they know how something feels.
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