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FukinTroll -> RE: Hey Doms! have u ever Domed a Domme? (2/26/2007 12:05:02 PM)
Crouching, were you Dom'd or top'd?

WayHome -> RE: Hey Doms! have u ever Domed a Domme? (2/26/2007 2:10:14 PM)
(I hate to reply to Azz's but....) A Dominant is something you are or are not and has little to do with the activity at hand and so bottoming once or twice or even subbing once or twice does not make one a switch. One is a switch when they say they are a switch and when they feel and act like one. I'm a dominant but have gone under the flogger a few times and doing so in public had lead some to call me a switch which is a bit odd. Firstly because it's just sensual play, not subbing but even if it was, it would still not necessarily make me a switch. Most gay men 9and women) have had sex with people of the opposite sex at some point in their lives. Some of them even enjoyed it. Yet that doesn't mean they have to call themselves "bi" or that they are anything but what they identify with. And as for the original topic, I was at a party once hanging out with a Lesbian Domme and another girl (a bi-curious bottom). I was very new to the scene. This Domme was way domme and way lesbian and I'd already been informed no one should imply otherwise. We were both kinda teasing the other girl who was one of those who really wants to be a submissive but has a hard time submitting and we knew what we were doing which was not trying to have her and thus not allowing her natural tendancy to top from the bottom. Kinda subtle and very fun. The domme and I kinda winked at each other a few times at the situation. Then while I was barely paying attention she was suddenly unzipping my pants and sucking on my cock. Huh??? I had no idea how to react. She had declared a "purely scienctific" interest in men so I was hesitant to be where I wasn't wanted. But there she was. And the whole time we were still talking and joking and the other girl wanted to be told to join and waited in vain (og which she has reminded me many times in the years since). I basically ignored it for a while not knowing what was happenning and she continued for quite some time. I did not get an erection and was unsure if I should have or not. Eventually other people came over and there was other excitement at the party and she put my cock away and went into another room. Later when I got to know the domme better I came to feel that it might be fun to top her and she was open to it but the right time and mood never struck again before i moved to a new town. However she was the one that flogged me a few times. you'd think people would have understood the dynamic since I would ocassionally give her critique and even handed stopped her a few times to hand her a different flogger or to present a different patch of skin whcih is behavior she would never allow in her sub. Labels can be useful tools but they shouldn't restrict your perceptions. Leto

Arastella -> RE: Hey Doms! have u ever Domed a Domme? (2/26/2007 6:18:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WayHome (I hate to reply to Azz's but....) A Dominant is something you are or are not and has little to do with the activity at hand and so bottoming once or twice or even subbing once or twice does not make one a switch. One is a switch when they say they are a switch and when they feel and act like one. I'm a dominant but have gone under the flogger a few times and doing so in public had lead some to call me a switch which is a bit odd. Firstly because it's just sensual play, not subbing but even if it was, it would still not necessarily make me a switch. Most gay men 9and women) have had sex with people of the opposite sex at some point in their lives. Some of them even enjoyed it. Yet that doesn't mean they have to call themselves "bi" or that they are anything but what they identify with. And as for the original topic, I was at a party once hanging out with a Lesbian Domme and another girl (a bi-curious bottom). I was very new to the scene. This Domme was way domme and way lesbian and I'd already been informed no one should imply otherwise. We were both kinda teasing the other girl who was one of those who really wants to be a submissive but has a hard time submitting and we knew what we were doing which was not trying to have her and thus not allowing her natural tendancy to top from the bottom. Kinda subtle and very fun. The domme and I kinda winked at each other a few times at the situation. Then while I was barely paying attention she was suddenly unzipping my pants and sucking on my cock. Huh??? I had no idea how to react. She had declared a "purely scienctific" interest in men so I was hesitant to be where I wasn't wanted. But there she was. And the whole time we were still talking and joking and the other girl wanted to be told to join and waited in vain (og which she has reminded me many times in the years since). I basically ignored it for a while not knowing what was happenning and she continued for quite some time. I did not get an erection and was unsure if I should have or not. Eventually other people came over and there was other excitement at the party and she put my cock away and went into another room. Later when I got to know the domme better I came to feel that it might be fun to top her and she was open to it but the right time and mood never struck again before i moved to a new town. However she was the one that flogged me a few times. you'd think people would have understood the dynamic since I would ocassionally give her critique and even handed stopped her a few times to hand her a different flogger or to present a different patch of skin whcih is behavior she would never allow in her sub. Labels can be useful tools but they shouldn't restrict your perceptions. Leto I really enjoyed reading that, thank you.

azzmaster -> RE: Hey Doms! have u ever Domed a Domme? (2/26/2007 6:57:42 PM)
thanks to those of u that posted some very interesting personal experiences. human sexuality is so fascinating in the twists and turns it takes.

HatesParisHilton -> RE: Hey Doms! have u ever Dom'd a Domme? (2/26/2007 10:27:39 PM)
*"Who said anything about bartering ... I'm talking about hard dick's and how submissive the owners of said dicks become when their dicks are hard ... "* so was I. and despite the fact you have a website and probably have a lot of dim suckers willing to be doormats because THEIR dicks get hard for women (men in general or not, dom or not), your statement is still full of shit, because many men are very aware of women that either emotionally or fiscally engage in gold-dfigging these days, and for many of us, once we encounter such women (such as ones that use message boards to garner traffic to theitr sites), the woman's behaviour makes us TURNED OFF, not on, so we IGNORE THEM, not become slaves to them defacto due to a hard on, since slag gold diggers make dicks SOFT, honey. And there are more and more men whom realize that EVERY DAY. So IF (and I stress IF) you are using this site to cultivate "suckers"? milk it while you can, since there is a growing private movement making sure such women (not sayig you are) get NOTHING. Since women like that DESERVE nothing.

azzmaster -> RE: Hey Doms! have u ever Dom'd a Domme? (2/26/2007 10:46:16 PM)
ur right hatesparis. a man does not lose his will just cause his dick gets hard and feelin played or manipulated can soften even a dick of steel

Lordandmaster -> RE: Hey Doms! have u ever Dom'd a Domme? (2/26/2007 10:54:01 PM)
I've dommed a couple of dommes, but after everything other people have written, it seems a little silly to say it on Page 4. Anyway, it was good.

Jasmyn -> RE: Hey Doms! have u ever Dom'd a Domme? (2/27/2007 8:11:57 AM)
quote: growing private movement lmao ...

leatherorlace -> RE: Hey Doms! have u ever Dom'd a Domme? (2/27/2007 3:05:07 PM)
Is there some undiscovered reasonings for your view,; a view that seems to speak to the denialof our manhood; to deny our manhood to suit an angry female outlook makes no sense to Me at all.; what is i that you're priv to? I had a gentle upbringing and I won't apologize for My ocassional conversion of opinionated dommes. There are a couple-three that, I respect, but even the Lesbian one doesn't hate men or our love of females that meet our standards for behaviour and embrace our manhood wth their legs spread or on their hands and knees. heheheheeee. Why are you so angry and dismissiveof mens sexualty? Gentry quote: ORIGINAL: SCDommie This is why male Doms should be subbies. Always thinking about their manhood! Such an idiot. SCD

aSlavesLife -> RE: Hey Doms! have u ever Dom'd a Domme? (2/27/2007 4:16:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: leatherorlace Is there some undiscovered reasonings for your view,; a view that seems to speak to the denialof our manhood; to deny our manhood to suit an angry female outlook makes no sense to Me at all.; what is i that you're priv to? I had a gentle upbringing and I won't apologize for My ocassional conversion of opinionated dommes. There are a couple-three that, I respect, but even the Lesbian one doesn't hate men or our love of females that meet our standards for behaviour and embrace our manhood wth their legs spread or on their hands and knees. heheheheeee. Why are you so angry and dismissiveof mens sexualty? Gentry I've ran into the same thing a few times. Had one sub write my pet asking for advice, only to have the conversation turn into " men are stupid pigs that only think with their dicks " a few e-mails in. The sub became indignant and even more offensive when asked what prompted her to begin attacking men in general and me in specific after she had been the one to initiate the mail. I have worked side by side with people of all presuasions and leanings, and have found most of them to be good natured and not threatened by the sexuality of those not of their leanings. When I encounter the random misandrist or misogynist I just write them off as being ignorant and immature, and toss them in the same mental garbage bin with racists.

azzmaster -> RE: Hey Doms! have u ever Dom'd a Domme? (2/27/2007 6:34:37 PM)
ur so on point aslaveslife. so on point

WhiplashSmile -> RE: Hey Doms! have u ever Dom'd a Domme? (2/27/2007 9:05:49 PM)
Here's some threads and posts I've already made regarding my experience on this... http://www.collarchat.com/m_826999/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm http://www.collarchat.com/m_828881/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm http://www.collarchat.com/m_859720/mpage_10/key_/tm.htm#861051 http://www.collarchat.com/m_857918/mpage_2/key_/tm.htm#860416 http://www.collarchat.com/m_857927/mpage_2/key_/tm.htm#860202 http://www.collarchat.com/m_825859/mpage_2/key_/tm.htm#830063

yugla -> RE: Hey Doms! have u ever Dom'd a Domme? (2/28/2007 5:27:57 AM)
Azzmaster, In regards to your question – ‘ . . . and perhaps turned out a domme n made her ur sub’ which now I am unsure if I understand it correctly given the number of replies from Female Dommes who ‘ converted’ males Doms . One nightstand of sexual dominance and attitude on my part with a female who lists herself as a slave owner, domme top etc . yes I have. Long term life style submission and a complete conversion of an alpha female to my sub/ slave no. Me attempting to be of a submissive mindset for a Domme in what I suppose would be viewed as more than a one night stand – failed miserably, and I don’t mean just me but the whole non one night stand failed miserably. Why do you ask this question? Be Well

xBullx -> RE: Hey Doms! have u ever Dom'd a Domme? (2/28/2007 5:46:16 AM)
Greetings, I would have to say, that if it really happend all that often the swich forum would have more participants...Wouldn't it? But yes, I have conquered a Woman before, it had more to do with lust then a need to dominate though.I tend to avoid those that think master is gender neutral, that gives me an uneasy feeling. Fear of surprises I reckon. Live well, Bull

SoftTop -> RE: Hey Doms! have u ever Dom'd a Domme? (3/1/2007 6:54:39 PM)
"No knight who wished to live would seek out a steed that were meek in manner or docile to his presence. Not if he wished to be victorious. He would select the most aggressive, spirited, damn near rebelious steed that he could only barely control. And that, only when applying the full force of his presence and command could he solicit its respect and then obedience. " WOW. that analogy is really beautiful.

xBullx -> RE: Hey Doms! have u ever Dom'd a Domme? (3/2/2007 4:47:29 PM)
Greetings Soft Top, Are we discussing, women, sluts, or man's most noble of companions? Giddy up! Live, uhmm serve, uhmm shit, switches confuse me, Bull

Stephann -> RE: Hey Doms! have u ever Dom'd a Domme? (3/2/2007 5:01:22 PM)
My Friend, I figure 'Live Well' is the best thing you could say to anyone, whether they own, are owned, or just live. Oh...um, yes, I've topped a few female dominants in my day. Different people react differently. I don't think that made them 'switches' ; more than a few people are dominant to most, but submissive to just one. Bull, can't you picture one or two kajira who, left alone with the average Dom, would probably have him on the ground licking her pretty slave feet? I dont' think that'd make her less slave, it just means she's a naturally dominant person, who finds herself happiest when she is owned and controlled by a very powerful man. That's not a switch, it's just a tough-as-nails slave. I'd buy two if I can find the factory (I do hate to pay retail.) Stephan Sporting a "I broke my domme" T-Shirt

xBullx -> RE: Hey Doms! have u ever Dom'd a Domme? (3/2/2007 5:10:30 PM)
Tal Bandito, I must say that is a point well excercised. I can actually see that as a case in point. I have a feisty little slut in the wings that might manage many quite well. Live well, Bull Sporting his " I'm with the sax player, their chick magnets" t-shirt

Skier -> RE: Hey Doms! have u ever Dom'd a Domme? (3/3/2007 9:48:34 AM)
This isn't a reply to anyone in particular. Let's remember that we all have feelings and are precious human beings. There's a small percentage of female dommes who are obnoxious and a good caning would be good for them. In my somewhat informed opinion, the majority just want a guy to treat them with decency and respect. The overt acts of male submission are reassurance and a way for both to clearly state his observance of their chosen way of life. Besides for the right couple it seems to aid and lubricate (no pun) this sometimes difficult arrangement. In my experience often (NOT always) when a domme sends out signals that she wants to submit, it seems to stem from failure to find a satisfactory relationship in her former role, attraction to a particular man no matter what or stress in her life. It can be very difficult for a woman to be dominant in this society. We should ALWAYS put the others' needs and vulnerabilities foremost in ANY human interaction, but especially in these cases of role reversal. They shouldn't be perceived as notches on a bedpost or conquests. Another thing, if you have the reputation for always trying to angle to get dommes onto the spanking bench, then you're going to miss out on some very good friendships and comraderie with some magnificent (dominant) women - some of whom are represented on these threads. I'm not saying don't top , just be careful about it and be sensitive to any vulnerabilities. Generally and historically, females have not been treated particularly well on this planet.

ArgoGeorgia -> RE: Hey Doms! have u ever Dom'd a Domme? (3/3/2007 10:02:05 AM)
I have topped a Domme, and been topped by the same. Neither one of us has truly submitted to the other. It allows us to practice technique, work out frustration, and have a LOT of fun. I guess in a way it would almost be role playing where one of us plays the submissive (sometimes not very convincingly though). And typically it involves a lot of fighting, struggling, biting, spitting, name calling.... Damn, gonna give her a call I think.

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