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Now I'm a fake cuz, - 2/25/2007 7:21:08 AM   
DianeB269


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Status: offline 		I have been called a fake many times cuz, I don't live the 24/7 or D/s lifestyle.
I am a Dominant woman but, I just don't wanna live it 24/7 and DO NOT want a
live in sub or slave.
So, that makes me a fake!!!!


Diane

PS; I don't care what people say/think of  me but, I get tired of reading it.

< Message edited by DianeB269 -- 2/25/2007 7:26:28 AM >
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RE: Now I'm a fake cuz, - 2/25/2007 7:25:48 AM   
KatyLied


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Status: offline 		If you are going to be a dominant woman (or any woman of strength) you need to get beyond worrying about what people with closed-minds think about you.

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RE: Now I'm a fake cuz, - 2/25/2007 7:31:39 AM   
LadyMyles


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Status: offline 		Life is far too short to let anyone else dictate what you do or what you enjoy. If the way you've chosen to live your life works for you, then the hell with whether or not others think you're "true" or "real" or any of that crap.

Besides, I never got a copy of the Real Domme handbook, and am not good at following the rules of others anyway.

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RE: Now I'm a fake cuz, - 2/25/2007 7:35:10 AM   
MstrssPassion


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DianeB269

I have been called a fake many times cuz, I don't live the 24/7 or D/s lifestyle.
I am a Dominant woman but, I just don't wanna live it 24/7 and DO NOT want a
live in sub or slave.
So, that makes me a fake!!!!


Diane

PS; I don't care what people say/think of  me but, I get tired of reading it.


First time I've seen it mentioned but by broadcasting this here it will definitely allow many others will read it-- thus promoting your own frustration... (I don't get it)

At any rate... Katy nailed it... you really have to get past fretting over another person's opinion of your declared status. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion & no matter how dominant you or anyone else may be... you can't control the world's perception.

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RE: Now I'm a fake cuz, - 2/25/2007 7:37:34 AM   
Searchingmyself


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From: Virginia
Status: offline 		I have been called the same thing many times. Not on here but in other places. I don't mind living the 24/7 if the right person comes along. But I don't go by the same set of rules as others. I can't believe how people online that don't even know you face to face has the audacity to call someone else a fake. In the beginning it would bother me to no end. I would cry in my private times where no one knew it bothered me. Today I say the heck with it. I learn and grow everyday, and what I learn is for me and no one else. One day I will figure out what I am in this lifestyle, and until then all I ask is for understanding, but on the same note I don't let it bother me anymore. The only way someone can call me fake or whatever is if they REALLY know me. You know what I mean?

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RE: Now I'm a fake cuz, - 2/25/2007 7:41:22 AM   
DianeB269


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Status: offline 		I don't follow rules very well.. I like to make up my own. I live my life the way I see fit. Do what I want not what others want.

Thanks for the great replies!!!!!


Diane

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RE: Now I'm a fake cuz, - 2/25/2007 7:53:27 AM   
kc692


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Status: offline 		Isn't that what being a dominant is all about, is doing it your way?  Who gives a shit what they think?

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This is only MY opinion. If it's not yours, let's agree in advance to agree to disagree, OR, you can just get the fuck over what I had to say:)

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RE: Now I'm a fake cuz, - 2/25/2007 7:57:31 AM   
DianeB269


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quote:

ORIGINAL: kc692

Isn't that what being a dominant is all about, is doing it your way?  Who gives a shit what they think?



I don't give a shit about what they think. I was just venting..

Thanks kc


Diane

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RE: Now I'm a fake cuz, - 2/25/2007 7:59:37 AM   
kc692


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Status: offline 		Vent away girl, smiles, it's nice to see another of the same mindset......

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This is only MY opinion. If it's not yours, let's agree in advance to agree to disagree, OR, you can just get the fuck over what I had to say:)

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RE: Now I'm a fake cuz, - 2/25/2007 8:01:02 AM   
DianeB269


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Status: offline 		Thanks again.................

Diane



quote:

ORIGINAL: kc692

Vent away girl, smiles, it's nice to see another of the same mindset......

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RE: Now I'm a fake cuz, - 2/25/2007 8:10:12 AM   
KaramelGoddess


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Status: offline 		Yeah we all get called that at some point...and sometimes it's just because we disagree with someone else or their cup of tea is not ours.
 
My new saying is get it, or get over it (to the people who call us fakes ).
 
With kind regard,
~Kara

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RE: Now I'm a fake cuz, - 2/25/2007 10:40:51 AM   
MistressDoMe


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Status: offline 		You are not a fake, you live the lifestyle the way you want to live it.
Who is anyone to tell anyone how to life their life?
That is why I created this screen name.

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RE: Now I'm a fake cuz, - 2/25/2007 11:05:08 AM   
porthuronsub


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Status: offline 		I bet you get called a fake if someone just doesn't interest you too, right.  The subbies use retaliation as a self preservation thingy for their ego's.  You don't want me = you are a fake.

Ignore it, small minds = stupid comments.

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RE: Now I'm a fake cuz, - 2/25/2007 11:23:51 AM   
cloudboy


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When you believe in yourself, as you do, its easy to shake off the finger waggers.

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RE: Now I'm a fake cuz, - 2/25/2007 12:46:36 PM   
DianeB269


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Status: offline 		I get that crap all the time.


Diane


quote:

ORIGINAL: porthuronsub

I bet you get called a fake if someone just doesn't interest you too, right.  The subbies use retaliation as a self preservation thingy for their ego's.  You don't want me = you are a fake.

Ignore it, small minds = stupid comments.

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RE: Now I'm a fake cuz, - 2/25/2007 12:50:04 PM   
FukinTroll


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DianeB269

I have been called a fake many times cuz, I don't live the 24/7 or D/s lifestyle.
I am a Dominant woman but, I just don't wanna live it 24/7 and DO NOT want a
live in sub or slave.
So, that makes me a fake!!!!


Diane

PS; I don't care what people say/think of  me but, I get tired of reading it.


Diane, have you thought about those little igloo dog houses? You could pop a couple of those in the backyard with a nice log chain and pad locks on the collars for a "real" & "true" 24/7 experiance!

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RE: Now I'm a fake cuz, - 2/25/2007 12:54:23 PM   
porthuronsub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DianeB269

I get that crap all the time.


Diane


quote:

ORIGINAL: porthuronsub

I bet you get called a fake if someone just doesn't interest you too, right.  The subbies use retaliation as a self preservation thingy for their ego's.  You don't want me = you are a fake.

Ignore it, small minds = stupid comments.



It amazes me how often people here who claim to be lifestylers mirror the vanilla world so much.  Unfortunately they are still at the high school level.....

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RE: Now I'm a fake cuz, - 2/25/2007 1:03:06 PM   
DianeB269


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Status: offline 		Yeah, Like the guys that went to collage and still do not know what "I'm not looking"
means.



Diane

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RE: Now I'm a fake cuz, - 2/25/2007 1:10:47 PM   
porthuronsub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DianeB269

Yeah, Like the guys that went to collage and still do not know what "I'm not looking"
means.



Diane


Or "just here for the forums".  You know, if you weren't so attractive and enjoy a fetish that is so universally loved, I bet you wouldn't have half the problem. 
There are some people that just don't understand the english language, or they are in the mindset that they are SO good that you couldn't possibly mean that comment applies to them. 

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RE: Now I'm a fake cuz, - 2/25/2007 1:14:27 PM   
DianeB269


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Status: offline 		I love it when they ask "WTF are you doing here if you are not looking for anyone?"


Diane



quote:

ORIGINAL: porthuronsub

quote:

ORIGINAL: DianeB269

Yeah, Like the guys that went to collage and still do not know what "I'm not looking"
means.



Diane


Or "just here for the forums".  You know, if you weren't so attractive and enjoy a fetish that is so universally loved, I bet you wouldn't have half the problem. 
There are some people that just don't understand the english language, or they are in the mindset that they are SO good that you couldn't possibly mean that comment applies to them. 

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