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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 3/29/2007 12:41:19 PM

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people that resurrect threads....The limit should be three days just like our Lord and Saviour.

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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 3/29/2007 12:43:24 PM

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to me it's frustrating to meet so many great folks online, but i cant meet them all. darn the geography.

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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 3/29/2007 12:50:20 PM

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To me, the most irritating things I see in the so called "Online BDSM Community" are what I call, "One True Wayism" and "It's all about MEism."

What are your pet peeves?

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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 3/29/2007 12:53:18 PM

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Most irritating for me is the dearth of true blowjobs.

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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 3/29/2007 1:02:34 PM

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people that resurrect threads....The limit should be three days just like our Lord and Saviour.

Bequietyou. ;)

ROFL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i just did this myself! LOL

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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 3/29/2007 1:11:46 PM

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Greetings...

the people who would play others for some twisted sense of self pleasure or self worth....
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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 3/29/2007 2:03:00 PM

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Most irritating for me is the dearth of true blowjobs.

Ron

Hello..... Ron. =)

Don't you mean TWUE blowjobs?

;)
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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 3/29/2007 2:08:39 PM

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I definitely have to agree with this. I've never understood the need for this phrase. After all, who else's opinion would anybody be stating?

The reality is that plenty of people have no problems speaking FOR others and suggesting that they can do so with no problem.

I just consider it a simple way to clairfy and own my own feelings

I have to admit I do this and the reason being similar to LA's reason. Also, so many people seem to get their boxers/panties in a bunch when you make a statement. They ASSume that if you are saying that you think/feel a particular way that you expect everyone to agree with you. I don't. I don't feel the need to try and sway others into believing as I believe or living as I do. I know what works for me but don't expect it to work for everyone. I also do not mind a discussion with opposing views.

It seems that by adding "in my opinion" it helps people understand that your not necessarily expecting them to agree, just stating how you think/feel.

As far as what I find most irritating........That people allow themselves to get so upset about pixels on a computer screen. Sometimes they really need to push away from the computer a little sooner and put it all in perspective.

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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 3/29/2007 2:31:56 PM

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What pisses me off the most, is those that continue to ask the same questions you have answered repeatedly on past conversations with them,I am a nice guy" smirks" I love to teach and help out those that are seeking advice..Just don't beat me to death with the same questions hundreds of times.. Are they slow? have learning disability's? or just plain dammmm irritating or a combination of all if the above? ?...bounty

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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 3/29/2007 2:34:20 PM

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bugger all I just realized this was an old thread given new life............I am even irritating to myself

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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 3/29/2007 2:44:09 PM

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Well just blame it all on the whoremoans smile..bounty

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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 3/29/2007 4:27:32 PM

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hmm, pet peeves...

-people judging me on only one thing, and not as a whole (age, weight, height, major, etc.)
-not being able to know if people are lying or not
-people wanting all my personal information before I even know them at all (phone number, photo, to meet, etc.)

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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 3/29/2007 4:58:17 PM

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bugger all I just realized this was an old thread given new life............I am even irritating to myself

Don't feel bad, I was under the impression anything resurrected should live on forever.

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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 3/29/2007 5:07:14 PM

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What I find irritating is people that stop responding to you.

I'm not talking about sending a message to someone you've never talked to before, and not getting a reply. That's fine. I'm talking about having back and forth messages on almost a daily basis... and then the other person stops replying, with no explanation.

This happens to me often. It's very rude. Just tell me what the hell I did wrong. Or tell me you don't want to chat. Just... don't ignore me. I can't stand being ignored.

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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 3/29/2007 5:12:49 PM

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To me, the most irritating things I see in the so called "Online BDSM Community" are what I call, "One True Wayism" and "It's all about MEism."

What are your pet peeves?

i don't have any pet peeves regarding 'online' because it doesn't effect my 'real life' world; plus, i'd rather find things amusing than to let them get under my skin enough to irritate me, evidentally, unlike a number of people. i guess if i had to find something that could be considered irritating though, it would be those who use the 'pack mentality' to try to hoard certain boards or forums as if they own them.

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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 3/29/2007 5:44:19 PM

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The one thing that gets me about onlining is that everytime you go someplace and post you get treated like yet another newbie to the scene. (There, and I didn't say life-style 'cause I hate that phrase even worse than "scene").

The other thing that gets me is when one set of true-wayers act disrespectfully of other dynamics. Your true-way may not be my true-way, but that doesn't make it better or worse...

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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 4/6/2007 7:49:20 PM

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Being a M2F pre-op transsexual all the following...

1. People who don't know me assuming they know more about my true gender than I do or my doctor who is a top UK gender specialist

2. People being interested and then once they realise I'm transgendered saying 'ugh! no' and dropping me like a piece of garbage.

3. People asking me what body parts and genitals I have on first contact.

4. People who go out of their way to offer their unsolicited opinion over how unfeminine, ugly or masculine I look.

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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 4/6/2007 7:55:34 PM

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I really hate getting mail from someone saying how much they enjoyed my profile. My profile is blank. My sub and I both enjoy the forums here so we just blacked out our profiles.
I really hate opening my mail to see someones genitals.

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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 4/6/2007 7:57:59 PM

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It has to be Doms who expect you to obey Their every wish on Their first sentance. A close second is a Dom who is not honest and merely trying to find a female for sex.

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RE: What do you find most irritating in the "Onlin... - 4/6/2007 8:13:21 PM

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Dom/mes who demand that I address them in a particular way, and/or demand my respect, which is something to be earned, not given...when I have only just met them. If I am not their sub, who are they to demand anything of me? And I am not speaking of the modicum of respect that every human being deserves, regardless of their orientation...such as simple politeness, friendliness, etc. I'm speaking of the "It's Goddess So-and-so the Almighty to you and every sub/slave" types. That irritates the hell out of me.

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P.S. Thanks for starting this thread! It gives me an excuse to complain without looking like a whiner...I hope... :)

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