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RE: Why do Mistresses attack other Mistresses? - 2/26/2007 6:16:10 AM

Vendaval

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RE: Why do Mistresses attack other Mistresses? - 2/26/2007 6:30:50 AM

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RE: Why do Mistresses attack other Mistresses? - 2/26/2007 6:46:28 AM

Lashra

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People are people and sometimes they can be very catty regardless if they are male or female. I do my own thing and could careless what others do as long as it doesn't have an effect on me and mine.

There seems to be a stigma regarding sissies and crossdressers. I frankly don't care as my sub is a TV. Your message could of very well been from a man pretending to be a Mistress. There seems to be a lot of men pretending to be women on this forum. Makes you wonder, doesn't it?

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RE: Why do Mistresses attack other Mistresses? - 2/26/2007 7:09:15 AM

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Dom's are just like anyone else- so there's going to be meaningless attacks and annoyances no matter what.

But, more specifically, I DO think there is something to getting a bunch of fem doms together and having an issue of too many queen bee's in the hive. When that happens, friction will naturally arise.

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RE: Why do Mistresses attack other Mistresses? - 2/26/2007 7:55:29 AM

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I just ignore the negative BS and read what I find of value. For the most part, the women on this site are fabulous and I have gained alot from reading what they write.

Don't let an insecure bad apple spoil your experience. There are so many fabulous, knowledgable women on this site that you can gain from to let the occasional twatwaffle ruin it for you.

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RE: Why do Mistresses attack other Mistresses? - 2/26/2007 8:03:47 AM

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Oh Hooney Child, screw that. That kind of hating is straight from the hood. Beneath a true beauty such as your self. She just player hatin'.

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As for sisterhood, it is just that, sisterhood. There are women out there , such as myself, wh enjoys the idea of females living and loving there female dominance together. But just like the "civilzed world" that rejects our life style, there are "civilized people" in this world who do not have any home training either. They would rather assist hate instead of impeding the hate.
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RE: Why do Mistresses attack other Mistresses? - 2/26/2007 12:07:47 PM

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Well crap. I thought this was like a Jerry Springer thang.

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RE: Why do Mistresses attack other Mistresses? - 2/26/2007 12:16:45 PM

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"Hold your friends close... and your enemies closer" is my advice.

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RE: Why do Mistresses attack other Mistresses? - 2/26/2007 1:40:30 PM

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Personally, I think it's quite fun.

Quite.

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RE: Why do Mistresses attack other Mistresses? - 2/26/2007 5:27:00 PM

moki1984

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in honesty if you take a step back and even look at vanilla society....women tend to hate on other women...

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RE: Why do Mistresses attack other Mistresses? - 2/26/2007 9:10:20 PM

kc692

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire

Anyone who attacks me for something I say I am looking for, no matter who they are, get the same treatment. Block, delete, move on. Some people are just not happy unless they think they are getting under someone elses skin. You dont do it their way, so you must be doing it wrong.
Personally, I do not often get along with other mistresses becasue I get tired of their gentle suggestions for how I should handle Angel. I have problems in our relationship, and I make the mistake of mentioning that to some of my Domme friends. Without fail they take that as a cue to try and solve my problems.
Some of the dominant members of this site have a bit of an ego becasue they have been in the lifestyle longer, they have had more slaves than you have... they al have their own self-serving reasons for wanting to put you down. In the end, does their opinion really matter? Unless you know them and value their opinion, anything they say can be brushed off and ignored.

DV

Which is terrible, DV< I have to say from talking with you privately, you are one of the most sensible cool headed and knowledgable ones here!

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RE: Why do Mistresses attack other Mistresses? - 2/26/2007 9:16:26 PM

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Good to see you, it's been a while hasn't it?

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RE: Why do Mistresses attack other Mistresses? - 2/26/2007 9:19:23 PM

DiurnalVampire

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Wow, KC, Im flattered.
The worst part is when people attack for NO reason, looking for something to find wrong. If I remember correctly, My mother taught me if I didnt have something nice to say, not to say anything at all. I try, I dont get snarky unless someone else starts.

DV

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RE: Why do Mistresses attack other Mistresses? - 2/26/2007 9:22:21 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: kc692

Good to see you, it's been a while hasn't it?

Nice (as always) to see You too!

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RE: Why do Mistresses attack other Mistresses? - 2/26/2007 9:52:54 PM

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you said it DV! If you don't have something nice to say,don't say anything at all. I mean if the woman is a psycho nut and dangerous hey, a warning may be in order but otherwise why treat each other like that? I don't understand people sometimes.

Funny enough,tonight a friend told me that a Domme he met said that she knew me and that she "didn't feel I was a Dominant woman" whatever the heck THAT means.We may have different styles,but why bash someone...once again we go back to "there is only ONE style of Dominance " bs. ugh...so yes there are narrow minded people on and OFF the net.

damn shame.......

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RE: Why do Mistresses attack other Mistresses? - 2/26/2007 10:43:13 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: feralcat
Funny enough,tonight a friend told me that a Domme he met said that she knew me and that she "didn't feel I was a Dominant woman" whatever the heck THAT means.We may have different styles,but why bash someone...once again we go back to "there is only ONE style of Dominance " bs. ugh...so yes there are narrow minded people on and OFF the net.

damn shame.......

It is a damn shame that women are so competitive towards one another instead of confident enough to at least not backstab one another... I have to say that in my opinion, part of what perpetuates he says/she says in this lifestyle is the need to check references rather than get to know the person directly. Frankly I don't get it. M

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RE: Why do Mistresses attack other Mistresses? - 2/27/2007 12:44:25 AM

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Hi Lady V,

Id like to offer my side and being a sub i get to be a little more objective, you are very right about the Mistress on Mistress thing, i am from the UK and the scene over here tends to have the element of Mistress Jealousey. Perhaps it's no different from any type of lifestyle, certain subs can suffer from this towards subs aswell, it's not a side effect of the lifestyle but possibly a symptom of a 'type' of mentality when they feel 'threatened' or insecure. I agree with the other posters here and would just say to forget it and you will find alot more support than you will attacks. You are right in the way of a sisterhood, again much the same with subs we all like to be part of something for a cause so dont let that particular person spoil it for you and the very best of luck (not that you will need it).

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RE: Why do Mistresses attack other Mistresses? - 2/27/2007 12:53:44 AM

mons

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greetings to all

many years ago i would go to the dominant women's room to chat and i can say they not all but some were so mean to everyone. new males would come in for advice and one woman i such not name would curse the men out call them bitches and just was so disrectufl to all. then the were the man who wanted to be in favortied with this and other dommes who were like her, and they would act like cats to make sure they jump on these poor men and it was such a mess i left and never came back it was like a girlroom high school with the poular ( i said that so loosely ) dommes and wow it was so sicken to see just to follow a mean spirited person who they would most likey never meet but they were so proud of themselve these dommes it was so shame to see them acting this way so i seen this so much but here i am so glad not to see the dommes being mean it show respect for oneself and always strenght comes with a quiet power no one needs to brow beat another to prove they are strong as a domme leave that for you submissive or slave in private

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RE: Why do Mistresses attack other Mistresses? - 2/27/2007 1:20:02 AM

MsCfromMelbourne

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There's only one thing worse .....being completely ignored!

Welcome to the sandpit. Try to ignore the kids who don't know how to play nice....no-one likes them, anyway :)

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RE: Why do Mistresses attack other Mistresses? - 2/27/2007 6:59:35 AM

kc692

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I'm not sure anyone has welcomed you yet, as you have been on the boards 2 weeks, but there may be those that don't play nice, but believe it or not, some of them are still liked, some are not, tis the nature of the net and life. I'm not sure who you were responding to, but mons is a veteran on these boards. Again, welcome to collar me.

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