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RE: Why do Mistresses attack other Mistresses? - 2/27/2007 1:27:37 PM   
RumpusParable


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ORIGINAL: LadyVenom

I've always thought that being a Mistress is like a sisterhood where we accept and support each other. Exspecially in the bdsm lifestyle where being different is suppose to be accepted.
I posted a ad today for a sissy maid and right away I was insulted and called down by another Mistress. What gives? Why do others still have to try and make themselfs better by dissing other people?



On the rudenss topic:

I'm assuming the person was rude out of nowhere to you, if so it's a shame that occured.  I'd urge you to just shake it off, it happens to us all now and again.  Hope things go better in the future! 

I see you've only posted  a couple times here, so read around first.  It's the norm here.

On the "sisterhood" topic:

I always find the idea that all women/mistresses belong to some "sisterhood" or should "look out for each other" or "stick together" (or other phrasings I've seen it in) to be just as revolting as someone saying "all whites should be a brotherhood/support eachother/stick together/etc".  I no more blindly or automatically accept and support a "mistress/woman"  than a vanilla male.  Having a few biological traits of any type or a couple of interests in common doesn't a bond make.  Such things are on an individual basis, my support and acceptance given based on that individual's situation and personality.

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RE: Why do Mistresses attack other Mistresses? - 2/27/2007 1:34:49 PM   
Arastella


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RE: Why do Mistresses attack other Mistresses? - 2/27/2007 5:51:23 PM   
elderrook


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ORIGINAL: feralcat

you said it DV! If you don't have something nice to say,don't say anything at all. I mean if the woman is a psycho nut and dangerous hey, a warning may be in order but otherwise why treat each other like that? I don't understand people sometimes.

Funny enough,tonight a friend told me that a Domme he met said that she knew me and that she "didn't feel I was a Dominant woman" whatever the heck THAT means.We may have different styles,but why bash someone...once again we go back to "there is only ONE style of Dominance " bs. ugh...so yes there are narrow minded people on and OFF the net.

damn shame.......


Mistress, I can personally assure anyone that you are indeed, a Dominant woman. I believe I even have a few marks to prove it :)

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RE: Why do Mistresses attack other Mistresses? - 2/28/2007 3:36:24 AM   
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RE: Why do Mistresses attack other Mistresses? - 2/28/2007 5:59:54 AM   
mp072004


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Status: offline 		Because people disagree with others and harbor personal dislikes for others. Some people can't express disagreement and distaste politely and reasonably.

I think it's quite appropriate for me to dislike something another dominant woman is doing, and appropriate for me to express criticism--to her, and to others. It's not appropriate for me to throw a tantrum, complete with petty insults.

The notion of universal sisterhood doesn't work for me with respect to women, and it's not surprising that it won't work with dominant women. I like some of the dominant women I'm acquainted with, and I've learned from some and taught others, but I haven't liked some others, and not usually because they're bad people, but rather because our personalities and values didn't match up. This seems reasonable--in a group, you like some people, you don't like others. It's simply important to behave politely to people you dislike. I think, LadyVenom, that your complaint would have better legs to stand on if you discussed social skills and rudeness, rather than sisterhood and support. I'm not obliged to like you or help you or regard myself as your sibling, (though you may be a perfectly good person and someone I would come to like, the jury will remain out on that until I determine whether I like you). However, I am obliged to be polite to you.

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RE: Why do Mistresses attack other Mistresses? - 2/28/2007 9:14:03 AM   
ServenteMail


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Because of the inverted lack of physical closeness that web to web chat yields. Put a group of girls in the same room / house - think college dorm and they all end up on the same period cycle so THEY DON'T FUCKING KILL EACH OTHER.

Now take those same bleeders and give them only web IM and there you are!

Like my GP said never trust anythign that bleeds for 3 days and lives

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RE: Why do Mistresses attack other Mistresses? - 2/28/2007 1:18:25 PM   
SCDommie


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Status: offline 		Good point.  There are a lot of Dommes who will not post on this forum because they are attacked by others who really should be helping them rather than insulting them.
We are definitely not in the sister type category on this thread.  Try the chat rooms.  It is much nicer in there.
If you want to see the mentality of some of the people on this group, check my off post thread on flags.  I started to see if you can make a simple statement on Collarme without being judged somewhere.  The answer is no in my opinion.

SCD

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RE: Why do Mistresses attack other Mistresses? - 2/28/2007 1:32:29 PM   
LaTigresse


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ORIGINAL: LaraVictore

Jealousy.



Which I just do not understand at all. LadyLara like so many on here, I would just love to meet and spend time getting to know. I am sure there would be some delicious stories to be told and that it would be so much fun.


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RE: Why do Mistresses attack other Mistresses? - 2/28/2007 1:54:54 PM   
DianeB269


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So far, I think everyone here in the Ask a Mistress forum is very cool...............
No problems with anyone....


Diane

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RE: Why do Mistresses attack other Mistresses? - 2/28/2007 4:24:52 PM   
FiretheAngel


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Status: offline 		Anyone of you pookies ever seen Mean Girls?  Rachel McAdams is ten times hwtter than Lindsay Lohan.  Any1 agree?

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RE: Why do Mistresses attack other Mistresses? - 3/1/2007 6:53:17 AM   
LaTigresse


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ORIGINAL: FiretheAngel

Anyone of you pookies ever seen Mean Girls?  Rachel McAdams is ten times hwtter than Lindsay Lohan.  Any1 agree?


I wouldn't have a clue. It appeared to be a movie made for teen girls and I am more than a few years past that. I don't even know if I have seen a movie with either of those actresses in it......

Oh, and what the hell is a pookie?? I need to know if you need cyberbitchslapped or not......


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My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one!

Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: Why do Mistresses attack other Mistresses? - 3/1/2007 11:59:15 AM   
FiretheAngel


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Status: offline 		*blush opps, scuse' me *teehee ....Shame on me for forgetting there are older people on here.  *tsk .Don't be such a grumpy old lady. *Tsk

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RE: Why do Mistresses attack other Mistresses? - 3/3/2007 7:28:04 AM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		As an old lady of 44almost45, I reserve every menopausal hormonal right I can come up with to be grumpy!

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Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: Why do Mistresses attack other Mistresses? - 3/3/2007 7:38:20 AM   
MistressDiane


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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

As an old lady of 44almost45, I reserve every menopausal hormonal right I can come up with to be grumpy!


I'm with ya on that one. We have Earned that right!!!

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RE: Why do Mistresses attack other Mistresses? - 3/3/2007 11:32:00 AM   
mam


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Status: offline 		Okay, I'll bite. Whats a "pookie"?

47 and counting.

Mam

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RE: Why do Mistresses attack other Mistresses? - 3/3/2007 12:06:46 PM   
stef


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Status: offline 		I think this is all going to be used for material on the new Fox TV show "When Mistresses Attack!"

~stef

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RE: Why do Mistresses attack other Mistresses? - 3/3/2007 1:25:17 PM   
kc692


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Status: offline 		I want to watch....when is that show comin on? Finally, something good on tv!!!!

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RE: Why do Mistresses attack other Mistresses? - 3/4/2007 10:09:38 PM   
bignipples2share


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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

As an old lady of 44almost45, I reserve every menopausal hormonal right I can come up with to be grumpy!


I so agree, and when ya get to 55 with 6 straight years of that crap, people go into shock on the occasional off day you're not grumpy LOL

~Big

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RE: Why do Mistresses attack other Mistresses? - 3/5/2007 3:05:01 AM   
BeachMystress


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ORIGINAL: ServenteMail
Like my GP said never trust anythign that bleeds for 3 days and lives

Hmm, why do I not find this humorous?

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RE: Why do Mistresses attack other Mistresses? - 3/5/2007 3:11:14 AM   
BlkTallFullfig


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Status: offline 		Oh you're not the only one, but he's a feisty one, and I don't think anyone wants to argue hateful messages with him, as he thinks he's well within his rights to be as nasty as he wants to be due to ugly life circumstances mentioned on another thread.   M
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