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mnottertail -> RE: Do you judge (2/27/2007 4:57:35 PM)

Perhaps I  judge, I don't know, I have never contemplated it, I am far to shallow for that kind of introspection.


Siddhartha 




FukinTroll -> RE: Do you judge (2/27/2007 4:59:10 PM)

Who's going to argue with a dude who's face is covered in basic?




mnottertail -> RE: Do you judge (2/27/2007 5:02:42 PM)

He who calculates has no need to contemplate, and it is AS400 (PowerPC) intermediate representation of a program (IRP) which to some of you could be equated with advanced assembly language------------


We don't need no stinking objects!!!!  We got the Womens!!!!!


Pancho Villa




FukinTroll -> RE: Do you judge (2/27/2007 5:10:26 PM)

I sit corrected.

Now everyone feel free to argue with him!




scottjk -> RE: Do you judge (2/27/2007 5:13:50 PM)

I usually don't judge the dominant based on the sub's behavior, in fact I don't try to judge. I'll have an IMPRESSION though, and that's different entirely. The other thing is that unless you're in the loop about a particular couple, making a judgement about one, the other or both is likely to make you look like an ass. [:D]

Impressions are nice because, you tend to avoid speculation. [:)]




scottjk -> RE: Do you judge (2/27/2007 5:18:27 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

He who calculates has no need to contemplate, and it is AS400 (PowerPC) intermediate representation of a program (IRP) which to some of you could be equated with advanced assembly language------------


We don't need no stinking objects!!!!  We got the Womens!!!!!


Pancho Villa



Interesting, since I once worked on AS400s in the past. I wasn't aware they were PowerPC systems. Learn something new every day.
Hmmm, I'll agree that it is IRP, binary printouts are simply a respresentation. ;)

Bit for byte! :)




GeekyGirl -> RE: Do you judge (2/27/2007 5:21:00 PM)

I'm a smart ass with just about everyone except my dominant...He's the one who has earned my respect. Just because I am smart ass to you has NOTHING to do with my relationship with my dominant. I can treat him with the utmost respect while being a complete bitch to everyone else. I'm simply not a submissive person outside my relationship.

That said, I do try to be polite and respectful to those who are polite to me.




FukinTroll -> RE: Do you judge (2/27/2007 5:26:10 PM)

Geeky, leave our personal life out of this.




GeekyGirl -> RE: Do you judge (2/27/2007 5:27:18 PM)

Hehehe...sorry Troll! I'll keep our personal life secret!






AquaticSub -> RE: Do you judge (2/27/2007 5:27:20 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: KurtKaboom

  Do you judge the competence of a Master or Dominant by how they’re slave or submissive behaves?  When I encounter smart ass masochists, I often assume they’re Master is unworthy of the title.


No.

I wouldn't judge a vanilla man by his partner. Sometimes people have really bad taste in lovers. God knows I used to.

Now, do I try to behave to honor him? Yes. But I also try to make myself pretty and dress nicely when his friends and family will see me. I don't expect them to judge me, but I would like to them to look at me and think "He's done well for himself", or at least not go "Oh God, what does he see in her?". Call it vanity. If they have a problem with who I am however, my behavior and my smart-ass commentary, well... that's their problem. He loves it.




FukinTroll -> RE: Do you judge (2/27/2007 5:28:15 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: GeekyGirl

Hehehe...sorry Troll! I'll keep our personal life secret!



Good girl.

SLURP!!




AquaticSub -> RE: Do you judge (2/27/2007 5:29:37 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: charismagirrl

As far as things in my relationship go i asked my Daddy about that...assuming the same thing, that my behavior good or bad reflects on him as well as things around the house etc. i was curious how he felt about it and trying to find out what were priorities. He shocked me when he said that he doesn't think things reflect back on him. What he did say reflects back on him the most is having a happy slavegirl....So i took that thought alittle further and what i came up with logically is that if i am happy then i will be doing things even better than if i were unhappy....Ultimately the thing that matters the most to him is that people see a happy girl and the rest is between the two of us....Really not caring what other people think about us as long as he is personally happy with me and We/i am happy to the world.


I asked Valyraen this question and he agrees with your Daddy. His response to the OP's question was "Why would it? You are your own person. If you were a dog [actual canine] it would be different."




AquaticSub -> RE: Do you judge (2/27/2007 5:34:30 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: KurtKaboom

      Words lie.  Results do not.  Conversation is useless without observation.


If you were to observe Valyraen and I in any situation for only a few hours, then you would get a very distorted picture. I am not constantly asking him what I'm allowed to do because for the most part I already know. He doesn't want me to cower and he doesn't want me to "yes sir" him all the time. He wants me to disagree with him, sometimes flippantly and he wants me to keep engaging him in little "spats". It engages his mind and makes him laugh.



And no, you aren't allowed to observe us for days at a time. We aren't into that kinda thing... [:D]




AquaticSub -> RE: Do you judge (2/27/2007 5:35:56 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: KurtKaboom

    Reading what they may say in forums or more restricted groups and watching the reality at Munches or parties.  Private detectives are not normally needed.


You know... oddly enough I don't normally walk around in skimpy pirate girl gear, watch bad hentai and porn but I do at private play parties....


I must be weird.




FukinTroll -> RE: Do you judge (2/27/2007 5:37:01 PM)

I am sooo disapointed Aqua.




AquaticSub -> RE: Do you judge (2/27/2007 5:39:25 PM)

I'm sorry... but my friends said if I kept wearing corsets and wench tops every day I'd cause traffic accidents.... [:o]




FukinTroll -> RE: Do you judge (2/27/2007 5:42:14 PM)

Tell them to buy stock in Farmers. I wana see that stuff on every day!




AquaticSub -> RE: Do you judge (2/27/2007 5:45:34 PM)

I wonder what my professors would think...


My grades might start going up... *considers this seriously*




FukinTroll -> RE: Do you judge (2/27/2007 5:50:40 PM)

Muhahhhahhahahha that is thinking with your feminine whiles!

Very sluty and provocative... yep I am going to BBQ your Dom to free you up.




BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Do you judge (2/27/2007 5:52:49 PM)

Yes I judge, but only extreme behavior, and only if disrespectful and inconsiderate of the people around or myself...  Otherwise, I don't care how a sub/slave behaves towards his/her Dominant.    M




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