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RE: Do you judge - 2/27/2007 9:25:06 PM   
FukinTroll


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RE: Do you judge - 2/27/2007 9:34:02 PM   
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ORIGINAL: BitaTruble
edited to add: This isn't necessarily bad either. I've judged ownedgirlies Master based on meeting her and seeing her consistant behavior and, though I don't know him, I think she's a hell of a woman, so have judged him to be a hell of a Master to her. ::grins::




Too sweet, Celeste, simply too sweet.  :)

(unless you're just trying to make up for that "gift" - ahem!)

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RE: Do you judge - 2/27/2007 9:34:38 PM   
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ORIGINAL: KurtKaboom

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ORIGINAL: valeca

What does masochist have to do with anything?



     If they are still lipping off then they aren't getting what they need.  Master must not be very good at what he dishes out.


That seems pretty harsh without knowing what the conditions/agreements are between Master and submissive nor are you defining the circumstances of this "smartass" behavior. 
For example, I am often a smartass to "Doms" who think that simpley because they call themselves a Dom that I should submit to them.  The only person I submit to is my Master. 
Cordially,
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RE: Do you judge - 2/27/2007 9:38:42 PM   
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Too sweet, Celeste, simply too sweet.  :)

(unless you're just trying to make up for that "gift" - ahem!)


If I was trying to make up for it, I wouldn't be sending you an Ugly Sister! ::laughs::

Celeste

::scampers out before the highjack becomes too obvious!::

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RE: Do you judge - 2/27/2007 9:43:13 PM   
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If I was trying to make up for it, I wouldn't be sending you an Ugly Sister! ::laughs::


Hey now, I thought you were!  Well, actually we want the cute sister, remember?

~scampers out with you~ lol

(carry on, folks, move along, nothing to see here)

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RE: Do you judge - 2/28/2007 12:55:11 AM   
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If the sub is whiny and annoying and the Master does nothing, there's one of two things- either he doesn't care, or maybe he just doesn't take as much control as I would personally prefer.

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RE: Do you judge - 2/28/2007 1:53:04 AM   
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For example, I am often a smartass to "Doms" who think that simpley because they call themselves a Dom that I should submit to them.  The only person I submit to is my Master. 
Cordially,
minxy


Exactly my train of thought..  in my previous post! 

Don't fuck with my Dog and don't fuck with my SAM sub, they both will bite your ass! lol.... If you don't like it,  keep away from the property!  If somebody does not understand this, they should be more concerned over their own sense and use proper judgement.    

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RE: Do you judge - 2/28/2007 2:24:00 AM   
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i do not judge for this one reason this may be a very new submissive or slave. i have not seen on here too many acting up when they do the dominant is right on top and making sure they act right

warm wishes
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RE: Do you judge - 2/28/2007 4:24:54 AM   
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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

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ORIGINAL: KurtKaboom

     Words lie.  Results do not.  Conversation is useless without observation.


If you were to observe Valyraen and I in any situation for only a few hours, then you would get a very distorted picture. I am not constantly asking him what I'm allowed to do because for the most part I already know. He doesn't want me to cower and he doesn't want me to "yes sir" him all the time. He wants me to disagree with him, sometimes flippantly and he wants me to keep engaging him in little "spats". It engages his mind and makes him laugh.



And no, you aren't allowed to observe us for days at a time. We aren't into that kinda thing...



Hi, AquaticSub. =)

You took the proverbial words right out of my mouth. There is a lot of teasing and snappy patter between my owner and I. I'm allowed to be playful, and generally speak my mind. He wants my personality pretty much intact, and isn't likely to get in a tizzle if I'm not all demure all the time.

He's not too concerned about the opinions of others, either, lol. That's one of the things I adore the most about him. <g>

Cheers,
Stella

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RE: Do you judge - 2/28/2007 5:00:06 AM   
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RE: Do you judge - 2/28/2007 10:54:04 AM   
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ORIGINAL: StellaByStarlite

Hi, AquaticSub. =)

You took the proverbial words right out of my mouth. There is a lot of teasing and snappy patter between my owner and I. I'm allowed to be playful, and generally speak my mind. He wants my personality pretty much intact, and isn't likely to get in a tizzle if I'm not all demure all the time.

He's not too concerned about the opinions of others, either, lol. That's one of the things I adore the most about him. <g>

Cheers,
Stella


*grins* Exactly! Valyraen fell for a strong (ok sometimes ), passionate, loud-mouthed smart-ass. If that's what attracted him to me, why would he want to change me?

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RE: Do you judge - 2/28/2007 11:36:39 AM   
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ORIGINAL: KurtKaboom

  Do you judge the competence of a Master or Dominant by how they’re slave or submissive behaves?  When I encounter smart ass masochists, I often assume they’re Master is unworthy of the title.

I do not judge them, no. It is not my place to make such judgments about the competency of a Master.

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RE: Do you judge - 2/28/2007 4:11:03 PM   
catize


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Status: offline 		In my admittedly limited experience, most dominants I have ever been acquainted with have been lone wolves.  They dominate with their own style and care very little whether other dominants agree with their methods. They also respect the owner’s privilege to decide what acceptable behavior is for the one they control.

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RE: Do you judge - 2/28/2007 5:46:46 PM   
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  Do you judge the competence of a Master or Dominant by how they’re slave or submissive behaves?  When I encounter smart ass masochists, I often assume they’re Master is unworthy of the title.

I most certainly do judge. It is my own opinion that a submissive/slave is a reflection of their Master/Dominant and that rude and obnoxious behavior is the fault of the one in charge.

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RE: Do you judge - 2/28/2007 6:06:10 PM   
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ORIGINAL: KurtKaboom

  Do you judge the competence of a Master or Dominant by how they’re slave or submissive behaves?  When I encounter smart ass masochists, I often assume they’re Master is unworthy of the title.

Yes, I judge. I believe that a slave is a direct reflection of their owner.
 
I would , however, have to echo a question that was asked earlier. What does Masochist's have to do with anything?

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RE: Do you judge - 2/28/2007 6:11:02 PM   
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Status: offline 		I certainly hope people do not judge my abilities as a Mistress by how Angel behaves on his own. When he and I are together, he behaves perfectly.  When we arent, he is under no restrictions about how to act around others. Aside from trusting him not to submit to someone else, he isnt expected to be 'nice' to everyone just becasue they are dominants. If they choose to judge me as unfit becasue he doesnt jump when they say to, then so be it.  It means that I am the only one who controls him, so I cant see the problem in that

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RE: Do you judge - 2/28/2007 8:22:20 PM   
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Status: offline 		Here is a thought.  E/everyone, as an adult is responsible for their own behavior unless the Master and sub have negotiated otherwise.  Without being privy to the details and conditions of O/others relationships, how could Y/you judge them? 
It sounds to me like T/those who are judging are trying to use T/their own relationship agreements/requirements as criteria.  To me that is just as ridiculous as say holding the African Pygmy culture up to East German cultural standards. 

Sincerely,
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RE: Do you judge - 2/28/2007 8:26:20 PM   
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To me that is just as ridiculous as say holding the African Pygmy culture up to East German cultural standards. 

Sincerely,
minxy


It got ridiculous for me too. Those little fuk'rs just wouldn’t keep the jump boots on.

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RE: Do you judge - 2/28/2007 9:32:40 PM   
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Some domanents like SAMs. They of course should show you due respect since you haven't agreed to their SAMing.


Agreed.  Unless the dominant is getting visibly upset by their submissive's behavior, I figure taking some lip gets them hot or something.

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RE: Do you judge - 3/1/2007 7:20:05 AM   
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ORIGINAL: FukinTroll

Is it just me or has D.G. been judged?


Just you.

Sorry.

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