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RE: Do you judge - 3/1/2007 7:51:57 AM

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North C is kinda the wrong way, but I may make it that way soon.

Let us know if you do. We'll catch dinner before the duel.

If Troll makes it here to NC for a duel and bbq - could i invite myself to the affair? i promise to behave

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RE: Do you judge - 3/1/2007 7:55:24 AM

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I thought I had to fart earlier today and pooped a small amount in my pants (Thank god wasn't going commando) does this reflect poorly on my Dominant stature that I failed to control my bowels?

Thank god is right!! maybe diapers would work...would that make you a DiaperDomiguy? LOL

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RE: Do you judge - 3/1/2007 8:01:44 AM

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I have judged others on how their subs/slaves act.
I know I shouldn't simply because what's in My "Master's Handbook" isn't in everyone's.
I tend to think that I am judged by the way maye acts.
she knows she's a direct reflection of Me.
Now weather or not people think I'm a good Master or not is of course up to them.
I hold Myself and maye, up to my standards, no one else's.
I've seen so many posts that say "you're not submissive enough" or a "True Master would..." to know that One's perfect slave, is Another's spoiled brat.

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RE: Do you judge - 3/1/2007 8:14:36 AM

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ORIGINAL: dawntreader

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North C is kinda the wrong way, but I may make it that way soon.

Let us know if you do. We'll catch dinner before the duel.

If Troll makes it here to NC for a duel and bbq - could i invite myself to the affair? i promise to behave

Sure. It'll be fun for everyone.

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RE: Do you judge - 3/1/2007 9:08:37 AM

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Hello. =)

Okay, being a total scenevirgin, I'm wondering what DOES constitute "bratty-sub" behavior? I mean, I whine sometimes, lol. Not really to manipulate, but more as a vent type deal.

Good Lord, all this judgement discussion is making me a little paranoid. Who wants to attend events and munches if you feel there's always somebody observing you like that?

OhmyGosh! I'm probably being judged right now! <whines>

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RE: Do you judge - 3/1/2007 9:29:13 AM

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I'm wondering what DOES constitute "bratty-sub" behavior?

In our case it would be maye acting out to get a spanking.
she likes being spanked, and if she thought I'd spank her as punishment, she might act out.
I no longer spank for punishment.
I now punish her by ignoring her, or make her copy the dictionary, or something else I know she hates.

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RE: Do you judge - 3/1/2007 9:30:38 AM

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OhmyGosh! I'm probably being judged right now!

Yep that's probably the case.
Sad but true...

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RE: Do you judge - 3/1/2007 10:51:14 AM

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Often I can't tell which one is the submissive and which one is the Dominant.
The submissive often appears to be in charge.

Most interesting ............

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RE: Do you judge - 3/1/2007 10:51:19 AM

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That is so true, like what if someone knew James and I were dominant, sub, or in this case Dominant, little girl dynamic, but they saw me pulling at his arm and asking to go home in this what they thought really whiney voice, looking quite grumpy because I was tired my head hurt my feet hurt, and I was wore out, They'd most certaintly think that I was topping from the bottom, or at the least being rude. or at the worst they might assume thisis how all adult little girls act, However what they wouldn't know was that I was actually trying to be very well behaved by letting him know I was having issues and wouldn't be able to hold out much longer, and would indeed then be fussing and unagreeable because I had reached saturation point.

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[Observing a few hours in someone's 24/7 life and thinking you know what's going on is also useless IMO.

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RE: Do you judge - 3/1/2007 3:58:26 PM

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To me that is just as ridiculous as say holding the African Pygmy culture up to East German cultural standards.

Sincerely,
minxy

It got ridiculous for me too. Those little fuk'rs just wouldn’t keep the jump boots on.

RFLMAO !!!!!! OMG my sides hurt!!!

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RE: Do you judge - 3/1/2007 4:07:33 PM

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judge not or thee be judged thyself!!!

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RE: Do you judge - 3/1/2007 4:07:38 PM

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I really like to believe that I am open minded and realize that all relationships are different.

But there have been times that I have seen a submissive be totally rude or out of line to other people while their Dom/Master are there, and the Dom/Master doesn't say a word. That for me, makes it hard to not judge. ( I do realize that what I consider rude or out of line may not be the same as all)

So yes, I will admit that there are times I do believe that the behavior of a sub can show badly or very well on their Dom/Master.

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RE: Do you judge - 3/1/2007 4:12:03 PM

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judge not or thee be judged thyself!!!

I sit in judgment a great deal. All by you, but still I am judged.

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RE: Do you judge - 3/1/2007 4:50:40 PM

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I tend to not judge, not knowing someone's story. If a sub decides to misbehave, I may choose to not associate with that person, but why should others, such as their Dom, have to decide as I do?

If they are together, there is a reason. I may not see it, nor understand it, but somehow, they got together.

Now, if the Dom seems visually pained by his sub's behaviour, I may pity him, but if he's happy, I'm happy (just maybe happy in another room).

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RE: Do you judge - 3/1/2007 5:22:26 PM

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ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji

I tend to not judge, not knowing someone's story. If a sub decides to misbehave, I may choose to not associate with that person, but why should others, such as their Dom, have to decide as I do?

If they are together, there is a reason. I may not see it, nor understand it, but somehow, they got together.

Now, if the Dom seems visually pained by his sub's behaviour, I may pity him, but if he's happy, I'm happy (just maybe happy in another room).

Yours,

benji

Yes, you can decide not to like someone based on their actions, but can still respect their differences. This is much different than being judgemental.

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RE: Do you judge - 3/1/2007 5:28:42 PM

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judge not or thee be judged thyself!!!

I sit in judgment a great deal. All by you, but still I am judged.

HERE YE! HERE YE! ALL RISE FOR THE JUDGMENT OF FukinTroll!

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RE: Do you judge - 3/1/2007 5:32:18 PM

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HERE YE! HERE YE! ALL RISE FOR THE JUDGMENT OF FukinTroll!

Sincerely,
minxy

*crosses fingers and chants*

Sick and pervers, sick and pervers.... pleas please please.

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RE: Do you judge - 3/1/2007 5:35:00 PM

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Yes, you can decide not to like someone based on their actions, but can still respect their differences. This is much different than being judgemental.

Cordially,
minxy

Not sure if you were agreeing or disagreeing with me.

Yours,

benji

Edited. I never thought I would forget myself in a sentence, but an "I" was missing.

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RE: Do you judge - 3/1/2007 10:04:28 PM

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HERE YE! HERE YE! ALL RISE FOR THE JUDGMENT OF FukinTroll!

Sincerely,
minxy

*crosses fingers and chants*

Sick and pervers, sick and pervers.... pleas please please.

Is FukinTroll on trial at the Spanish Inquisition here? When do we get to see the racks and nasty dungeon play...Mmmmm.. say nice torches on the wall...
Oh Jesus, protect us all from your followers! (saw that one somewhere on here)...

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RE: Do you judge - 3/2/2007 12:11:18 AM

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ahh, but you don't know if he took her home and beat her severly for her behavior or dealt with her later in some way.

James would take me home then deal with me if I'd displeased him, he wouldn't say or do anything right at the moment.Well if I was bad enough he might Or he'd take me out side or have a private chat. I don't worry though because I don't do things that cause him issue with me very much:D

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But there have been times that I have seen a submissive be totally rude or out of line to other people while their Dom/Master are there, and the Dom/Master doesn't say a word.

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