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is masturbation ok ?


yes
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no
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depends
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is masturbation ok ? - 3/24/2005 12:00:59 AM   
onewelshman


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some tell us that we shouldn't masturbate, for whatever reasons.
what do you think. is it healthy to masturbate or unhealthy to masturbate ?
do you do it, how often ?, when did you begin, were you alone ?
if not who was with you ? were you ever caught masturbating, and if so by whom. what happened ?
do you have fantasies whilst masturbating, tell us about these fantasies.
do you freel, or have you ever felt guilty about masturbating ?
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RE: is masturbation ok ? - 3/24/2005 2:09:34 AM   
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*grin* now that I'm off the hook with my Master I'm back to my usual once if not twice daily routine
Been doing it as far back as I can remember, and had orgasms before I even knew what sex was.


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RE: is masturbation ok ? - 3/24/2005 3:07:26 AM   
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*grabs a chair to watch*

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RE: is masturbation ok ? - 3/24/2005 4:51:15 AM   
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Yes, I think it is very healthy. I do it whenever the mood strikes me, which is usually at least once during the day....sometimes several times more. The earliest I can remember doing it was about the age of 3 or 4. My mother used to "catch" me all the time when I was little (Will you stop diddling!). The only time I have been caught as an adult, by anyone other than my partner I mean, was the time I was watched by a guy who was putting siding on the apartment complex that I lived in at the time. He just stood on his ladder and watched and I just pretended I didn't know he was there. Later I went and offered him and his coworkers some cold lemonade and you should have seen him blush! I have many different and vivid fantasies that I think about when I masturbate...but sorry folks...those are mine, not necessarily for sharing.

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RE: is masturbation ok ? - 3/24/2005 6:18:29 AM   
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YES.........masturbation is a good....at least that is what I tell myself....If you ask any man if he has and he say's no...he is a lier.....I do not know about most men but myself I have a very high sexual drive....If I do not I will go insane....LOL......And the best time is during mutual masterbation..Me and a partner(yes female)....If you all think about your first time you ever met the right person.(you thought) ..masterbation had a large part in the play time you had together.....It is a good start and alot of times a good finish....As far as what I think about .....well that is for my partners to know and me......If you would like more info.......JUST ASK ME..............

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RE: is masturbation ok ? - 3/24/2005 7:41:28 AM   
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I would say yes, it can use some Energies you might want to have, but usualy ok.

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RE: is masturbation ok ? - 3/24/2005 8:05:27 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: fencerpet19
"Don't knock masturbation, it's sex with someone I love" - Woody Allen

Thank goodness for masturbation. I much prefer a partner, but alas sometime my only bed partners are my trusty pillow and hands.

I'm finding I'm waking up these days with my arms wrapped lovingly around my pillow. Darn!

Oh well, I'm working on it. Volunteers welcome!

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RE: is masturbation ok ? - 3/24/2005 8:54:54 AM   
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I love to masturbate. I do it almost always after i shower unless i'm short on time or there are a lot of people around. I always fantacize that my Master is telling me to do things or that i am in some kind of hogtied type position. I often go to the hogtied site before my shower to get me in the mood. Somertimes i go the edge a few times and stop before i allow myself to cum. It's during masturbation that i try new things like figging, stripping, ben gay, electric toothbrush, different types of clamps on my nipples (tried the skirt hanger yesterday--ouchie) etc. I started as a teenager with the faucet in the tub. No i've never been caught that i know of, but one time i was using the hose in the hot tub and daughter came out, but i don't think she knew what i was doing.

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RE: is masturbation ok ? - 3/24/2005 10:36:39 AM   
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Do you believe in the bible? What does the bible tell you to do? Follow it for your answer.

I think it is a personal preference on masturbation. If you are a sub and your dom does not allow you to masturbate. Which most do not. Especially when they are first learning they have this power over another. Then no it is not proper.

However, if you have a man who is like most of the men in the world. They get excited by watching a female masturbate then yes it is proper.

Of course being female this is coming from my female point of view.
As far as men go, what do I care as long as I get the snack at the end?

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RE: is masturbation ok ? - 3/24/2005 5:45:02 PM   
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In general yes I think masturbation is ok.

If you are not restricted by another go for it.

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RE: is masturbation ok ? - 3/24/2005 5:51:45 PM   
fencerpet19


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quote:

ORIGINAL: GreyStorm
*grabs a chair to watch*

Haha, well then I guess I'l have to put on a show.... now where'd that electric toothbrush go?

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ORIGINAL: proudsub
I do it almost always after i shower unless i'm short on time or there are a lot of people around....It's during masturbation that i try new things like figging, stripping, ben gay, electric toothbrush, different types of clamps on my nipples...

Same here! Always after I shower! hmm... tried using ice when I was really young, like 7 or 8... and rubbing alcohol for the first time when I was 10 I think. By now I have probably gone through every reasonable household appliance out there hahaha

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A Flaky Post about Post Flakes - 3/24/2005 10:03:11 PM   
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quote:

is it healthy to masturbate or unhealthy to masturbate ?

It is NOT healthy to masturbate according to Dr. J.H. Kellogg, the Seventh Day Adventist (SDA) inventor of that popular bland breakfast cereal known as Corn Flakes. According to Dr. Kellogg, it is committing the sin of Onan ... unashamedly wasting fertile human seed that could be put to more "productive" use, and at the same time being the cause of much of the worthlessness, lassitude, and physical and mental feebleness attributable to modern men and women.

It was Dr. John Harvey's brother, Will Keith, that founded both the W.K. Kellogg Foundation and the Battle Creek Toasted Corn Flake Company in 1906 in order to begin manufacturing and selling his brother's newly developed corn flakes. As the principal stockholder of the later renamed Kellogg Company, Will Keith ultimately became a multimillionaire. The product initially marketed by the Kellogg Company was a modified (less bland) version of the diet that the strictly vegetarian SDA Dr. Kellogg had originally created with the intent of feeding to his patients in order to stifle their desire to masturbate. At his institute, the Battle Creek Sanitarium, in Battle Creek, MI, Dr. Kellogg also promoted enemas (up to five times a day) as a substitute for sex. For more on Dr. Kellogg and his significant contributions to the development of the the four quart enema see this site.

Back when Will was getting started, a semi-charity patient at the Sanitarium dropped into the experimental food kitchen. That was where J.H. Kellogg spent all his spare time, inventing new foods. Someone told Kellogg that the idler, C.W. Post, was hanging around, watching how everything was done — so that he could copy it and set himself up in business. Kellogg replied, “Let him do it; people need good, healthful food.” Until his hospitalization at Kellogg's Sanitarium, Post had sold his wife’s homemade suspenders from door to door. But, somehow, he managed to scrape $69 together, and started making corn flakes in his kitchen. The result was Post Toasties. Like W.K. Kellogg, Post too became a multimillionaire.

Masturbation was formerly labeled "self-abuse" after the 18th century Swiss physician Tissot transformed it from a moral to a medical problem. From the mid-1700s until the early 1900s, the medical profession was dominated by physicians who believed that masturbation caused a host of maladies ranging from acne to death. So destructive was masturbation seen to be in America in the 1800s that inventors created cages with locks and keys to keep children’s hands away from their genitals, boys underwent circumcision on a wide scale so that they would not have to wash under their foreskin and thereby potentially "abuse" themselves (this is why most American males are still circumcised at birth even today), and physicians like Dr. Kellogg created dietary formulas - such as Corn Flakes - in order to discourage boys from engaging in "self-abuse" (although how it actually achieved such prevention is not exactly clear to this sissy! ).

A half a century ago, sex researcher Alfred Kinsey complained that the scientific classifications of sexual behavior were, in his day, based on theology rather than biology. In 1952, in the first edition of the American Psychiatric Association's Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders - a.k.a. the DSM - sexual behaviors such as masturbation, homosexuality, fellatio, cunnilingus, and sexual promiscuity were all codified as pathological; that is, as forms of mental illness. Countless homosexuals suffered because their desires were labeled by the medical profession, and by the general public as well, as perversions. Transvestites still suffer from a similar DSM stigma even today. The history of sexual attitudes shows that the labeling of sexual behaviors has generally been based more on morality than science - even when it is scientists, rather than lay persons, who are using these labels - and that such labeling can have negative consequences.

Even today, most of the activities practiced (or fantasized about) by those on this site interested in BDSM are considered by the DSM-IV - the latest revision of the DSM - and the tenth revision of the International Statistical Classification of Diseases (ICD-10) to be pathological perversions called paraphilia. A paraphilia is defined as any of a group of psychosexual disorders characterized by sexual fantasies, feelings, or activities involving a non-human object, a non-consenting partner such as a child, or pain or humiliation of oneself or one's partner. Also called a sexual deviation. Almost all paraphilia involve masturbation.

So there you have it. If you don't eat your Wheaties, the Breakfast of Champions, you too can end up with a major paraphilia such as chronic masturbation. OTOH, sissy would argue that anyone that actually enjoys eating Corn Flakes more than once a month is a major masochist ... so you're damned if you do and you're damned if you don't, aren't you ? The last time sissy checked, people that regularly enjoy four quart enemas are also considered sexually deviant, so thank you Dr. Kellogg for helping to promote that perversion, too. As a masochist addicted to soggy Weetabix, a transvestic fetishist that is fanatically fixated on flouncing in frilly frou-frou frocks, and a compulsive Onanist obsessed with chronic solitary manustupration, it would appear that sissy already has a whole plethora of paraphilia (try saying that quickly when you're not sober!) so thank God he isn't hooked on soapy enemas yet!

But sissy suspects that it's just a matter of time before he comes psychologically obsessed and dependent on those too. HALT! ... who goes there ? Freud or Enema ?

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< Message edited by sissymaidlola -- 5/1/2005 6:40:03 PM >


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RE: is masturbation ok ? - 3/25/2005 9:18:05 AM   
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I wonder who voted "no", would like to hear their reasons.

Ok I admit i posted this to get to 3000 posts, wanted to see if there was anything after the paddles, but guess not, or maybe it takes 5000, hmmm.

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RE: is masturbation ok ? - 3/27/2005 2:32:23 PM   
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quote:

some tell us that we shouldn't masturbate, for whatever reasons.
what do you think. is it healthy to masturbate or unhealthy to masturbate ?
do you do it, how often ?, when did you begin, were you alone ?
if not who was with you ? were you ever caught masturbating, and if so by whom. what happened ?
do you have fantasies whilst masturbating, tell us about these fantasies.
do you freel, or have you ever felt guilty about masturbating ?


Sounds like wank fodder to me ~grin~ Not that I frown upon that but this is public after all ;)

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RE: is masturbation ok ? - 3/27/2005 5:57:49 PM   
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I always wondered how on earth someone could tell a partner how to please them without ever having pleased themselves.

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RE: is masturbation ok ? - 3/28/2005 3:09:11 PM   
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Yes I masturbate. A bit of menage a moi makes me all sorts of happy and tingly in the right places. I think it's perfectly healthy. In fact it's very healthy for men. A bit of spring cleaning for the prostate.

I'm not going into how often, when I began or whether or not I was alone. (The masochist said, "Please?!" The sadist grinned and said, "No.")

I'm also not going to reveal to all and sundry whether or not I've ever been caught. Nor will I indulge anyone (aside from a very select few) what my fantasy fodder is (and oh yes I've got 'em. Very detailed... very intricate... very hot.) Mmm... that gives me ideas.

Do I feel guilty? Hahahahahahah... -coughs- Er... NO.

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RE: is masturbation ok ? - 3/29/2005 5:57:51 AM   
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Hehehe, I have to agree here. I've been masturbating as long as I can remember... since I was like 9, that's about the first time I remember... My favorite was the squiggle wiggle writer, then I graduated to massaging shower heads... Hmm... fantastic. :)

My average through my preteen years was like 6-8 times a day. Since I have a 2 year old that demands sooooo much of my time, it's like twice a day, if I'm lucky...

I answered the poll with "depends." Do I think it's healthy, yes. If I tell my boy not to masturbate, he'd better not, or I'll lock him in chastity. That's when I think it's not ok to masturbate. :)

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RE: is masturbation ok ? - 4/3/2005 6:46:38 AM   
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and now for something completely different
question.......................?
men find watching a woman masturbate, to be a wild turn on.
do women feel the same about men masturbating ?.

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RE: is masturbation ok ? - 4/3/2005 8:49:38 AM   
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quote:

men find watching a woman masturbate, to be a wild turn on.
do women feel the same about men masturbating ?


Definitely a favorite activity of mine :)


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RE: is masturbation ok ? - 4/3/2005 12:22:31 PM   
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YES YES YES its the best.

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