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Lack of Uncollared Subs - 3/1/2007 9:08:35 AM

roland23

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I've been meeting LOTS of collared female subs online. Shouldn't they have their own site? I'm an older guy. We used to call this COCKTEASING!

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RE: Lack of Uncollared Subs - 3/1/2007 9:12:10 AM

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Stop whining this is a COMMUNITY SITE why don't you put up a site where only single people may apply. This isn't only a dating site.

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RE: Lack of Uncollared Subs - 3/1/2007 9:13:01 AM

StellaByStarlite

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Um...

I hate to burst your bubble, but some of us wicked subbie harlots are actually just looking for discussion and meeting friends.

Are you referring to ones who say they're available in their profiles, but you find out later they're not? Or what?

Oh, sorry... maybe I shouldn't have replied, as you might feel your cock is being teased, lol.

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RE: Lack of Uncollared Subs - 3/1/2007 9:13:12 AM

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I'd say since this is a lifestyle site and collared subs are indeed part of the community you being offended they are not here just to satisfy your cock is irrelavant to their right to be here too.

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RE: Lack of Uncollared Subs - 3/1/2007 9:15:21 AM

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Roland,

Oddly enough, I've found no lack of uncollared women. Perhaps the fault doesn't lie in the prey, but the predator's lack of skill....

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RE: Lack of Uncollared Subs - 3/1/2007 9:17:25 AM

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If they say in their profile that they aren't, then change that to collared when they are talking to you....um maybe they are looking for a polite way to say thanks but no thanks....how many in the vanilla world say they are married as a get out clause?

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RE: Lack of Uncollared Subs - 3/1/2007 9:18:17 AM

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Unless the are Poly, and seeking another partner, they should be making it clear in their profile, IMO, that they are "taken", or making that clear otherwise (on the phone, etc.) they are already collared. Unless they are cheating on their Dominants. Kidding around and flirting is one thing, (between friends or acquaintances) and it could be innocent, I see people joke around all the time, online, and have done it myself. But if I do, it's usually clear it is kidding, etc. - (but I still don't think they should take it very far, if collared, IMO) but leading someone to believe they are serious is quite another.

Make sure you are not mis-interpreting them, (and check their profile! to make sure they are single before you give even a piece of your heart away) but otherwise, it's certainly not your fault, IMO, and yes, it stinks. Doms have been known to do this as well, btw., so this phenomena is certainly not limited to females.

Yes, it can be annoying and even heart-breaking. It isn't fair, etc. However, this is also an educational site, not just a site for singles. Lots of folks looking for friends, or just information, and I don't see that as any less a legitimate purpose than "match-making." The coupled up and otherwise attached are not leaving anytime soon. It might help if people were more honest, I agree w/you. Keep looking, and good luck.

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RE: Lack of Uncollared Subs - 3/1/2007 9:20:26 AM

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I'm not looking...only until the right one comes along.

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RE: Lack of Uncollared Subs - 3/1/2007 9:24:30 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: roland23

I've been meeting LOTS of collared female subs online. Shouldn't they have their own site? I'm an older guy. We used to call this COCKTEASING!

What an egocentric thing to say - get over yourself

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RE: Lack of Uncollared Subs - 3/1/2007 9:25:31 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: roland23

I've been meeting LOTS of collared female subs online. Shouldn't they have their own site? I'm an older guy. We used to call this COCKTEASING!

Oh NO! I'm so SORRY that my wanting to actually connect with others as FRIENDS and met other people in this lifestyle has caused you to get blue balls. Maybe you should join a site that is entirely for dating! In my day, we call this being a whiny troll who is mad cause he can't get a date.

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RE: Lack of Uncollared Subs - 3/1/2007 9:26:47 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Stephann

Roland,

Oddly enough, I've found no lack of uncollared women. Perhaps the fault doesn't lie in the prey, but the predator's lack of skill....

Stephan

Thank you. That made me giggle and I needed that before heading off to my mid-term. Thank god I wasn't still eating breakfest.

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RE: Lack of Uncollared Subs - 3/1/2007 9:28:20 AM

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Personally I'd describe cock teasing as taking a whip to it like a lion trainer in the zoo and making the cock do tricks on demand,

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RE: Lack of Uncollared Subs - 3/1/2007 9:31:24 AM

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I am no longer looking. This site is for everyone, not just those looking.

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RE: Lack of Uncollared Subs - 3/1/2007 9:34:33 AM

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im not collared, but i am gonna hook up later- neener neener neener!

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RE: Lack of Uncollared Subs - 3/1/2007 9:43:47 AM

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What Aileen said!

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RE: Lack of Uncollared Subs - 3/1/2007 9:44:56 AM

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Oh roland, you certainly did set yourself up for it with this one! hehe....

Having taken a cursory glance through your previous 4 posts... I do note a recurring and somewhat less than flattering pattern in their tone.

Firstly, everyone who signs up for an account has the right to participate here. If you want something more specific... set up your own site with whatever parameters you need to feel comfortable and unthreatened.

Secondly, perhaps you are not 'meeting' the number of submissive women which you find appropriate because they do not find you appropriate, and are not making themselves available to you to do so.

Thirdly, how can someone who has had no interaction with you be a cocktease? Is it not, rather, just a lack of control on your part that you get too easily excited by women's profiles to such a degree that it is discomforting to you?

The sense of entitlement which has been on parade lately is absolutely stunning...hilarious, but stunning.

Good luck to you, roland... I doubt if your posts to the message boards are going to aid in your mission to find an unowned submissive of your very own.

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RE: Lack of Uncollared Subs - 3/1/2007 10:39:56 AM

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Roland,

I notice I could not find your profile, wise move.

I am also an older man. And I went to an auto
parts store the other day and there unexpectedly
was a spectacular young blond. I don't know
who painted her jeans on but they did a nice job!

Guess what, I couldn't have her either. But she was
still entitled to get parts for her car.

There are some very bright, attractive woman on
this site. Including two, that I have exchanged
pleasent emails with, who have already responded
to you.

Maybe you should start thinking that woman exist
so you can relate to them with other parts besides
your cock? If your other parts are up to it.

Outlier

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RE: Lack of Uncollared Subs - 3/1/2007 10:49:32 AM

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Roland,you may have just jumped out of the pan into the fire ...THIS is a community for 'ALL".I agree maybe most should have a line or two at the TOP of their profile stating they are in a relationship and just looking for friends or chat.... DEAL with it smiles...bounty

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RE: Lack of Uncollared Subs - 3/1/2007 11:02:49 AM

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Just to play devils advocate a little when i go out for a girlie night on the town i do not wear a label, badge, tattoo on my forehead that says i am taken so why should i put something on my profile here that says i am unless i want to?
I don't see why i 'should' at all!!

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RE: Lack of Uncollared Subs - 3/1/2007 11:34:37 AM

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Perhaps I have simply found a glorious little well full of intelligent, beautiful UN-collared submissives... But, in playing Devil's advocate to my own statement, I find I am one of the few (Male or Female) Dominants here who seeks friends, good conversations and use this chatline as an opportunity to compare my views against what others think. So maybe it is not so much where you are looking, but rather the approach... Appeal to the mind and I find that the body will follow.

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