curiouspet55 -> RE: height differences (3/6/2007 8:57:07 PM)
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For me, this is similar to the "younger man" issue. If I had an intense, immediate connection to someone, I wouldn't let height get in the way. However, that said - I very much dislike my man being shorter than me. I want to feel protected, safe, smaller, and "weaker" than my Dominant. I want to be the feminine little girl to his masculine manly man. I like the immediate dynamic created in knowing he is stronger than me, and having to look up a bit to him. Honestly, height is one of the first things I notice about a man, and a really tall guy just calls my attention. I pretty much like all aspects of it... A guy who is smaller than me makes me feel a bit less feminine, less protected, less "tiny woman, weak under the power of her man." Don't get me wrong, I am strong, and not weak at all, and I don't believe women are inherently less strong than men...but I like that image as it is represented in physical traits.
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