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BitaTruble -> RE: sincere or not (3/1/2007 12:56:24 PM)
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ORIGINAL: TantricOne
Have been on this site for some few years, was wondering why so many subs that are supposedly seeking a dom can't even reply to something as simple as a "hello", yes I have had some reply, from those who are sincere, but in the bigger view, do a lot of the "subs seeking dominant males" even really belong here? I think not, because they are claiming to be something they're not, as are the so-called dominants that use the lifestyle as an excuse to be cruel or players.............
If you're passing someone in the street and tip your hat and say hello, you'll probably get a nod or a smile in response, then you go about your business and keep walking. You don't stop that person and engage them in conversation.
On the net though, giving that nod or smile in response seems to be an invitation to start a conversation, so a lot of us learn (quickly) it's better not to appear to open a door to a conversation you don't want to have with someone. Honestly, if you wrote 'hello' in an email and someone responds back with 'hi', do you leave it at that and move on? If you do, what was the point in writing an email just to say 'hi' in the first place? If not, then do you feel justified in taking their time because they were polite in responding and you got your foot in the door?
Multiply that by 50.
Now double that.
Can you keep up with 100 different people emailing you every day.. 99% of whom won't be compatible or would you rather be more selective in whom you choose to engage in conversation? (One wonders how many submissives you're writing to and how special you think each one is if all they get from you is a simple 'hello'.)
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Dom person: "Hello"
Sub person: "Hi"
Dom person: "How are you?"
Sub person: "Fine, thanks. Yourself?"
Dom person: "I'm good. Got a pic?"
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Dom person: "Hello."
Sub person: "Hi."
Dom person: "So, what are you looking for?"
Sub person: "Nothing. I have a Master already just like it states in my profile."
Dom person: "What the fuck are you doing here then?!"
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Dom person: "Hello"
Sub person: "Hi."
Dom person: "Thanks for responding, do you have MSN?"
Sub person: "Yes, but I don't give the address out to strangers."
Dom person: "You're a cunt."
Those are fairly typical and I would bet dollars to donuts that some of the submissives on this site will be able to confirm they have gotten emails just like or very similar to the examples I've listed above.
Of course, there could be other reasons as well, but basically, if someone doesn't respond to your 'hello' chalk it up to all the people who came before you with the same line.
It didn't work for them, it doesn't work for you and it's not going to work for the people who come after you.
Such is life on the net.
Celeste
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