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RE: Little dick, Big dick - 3/2/2007 4:01:00 PM   
subboi3382


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Status: offline 		I dont think there is a direct correlation (certainly a guy who is smaller can be more confident or more dom, in fact I have been wiht guys that really compensate for it) but certainly bigger is more attractive and I think it makes guys a lot more confident. I wouldnt exlcude a guy just because he is smaller but all things being equal bigger alwys gets thenod. My master is real big and i am prety small so he and his friends bring a lot of attention to it but they have never mentioned the size of a couplpe smaller doms i know and I dont think anyone cares about their size.

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RE: Little dick, Big dick - 3/2/2007 4:01:05 PM   
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RE: Little dick, Big dick - 3/2/2007 4:04:25 PM   
onestandingstill


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Status: offline 		Cock size alone does not depict weather I'd monogamously commit to someone or not.
What would indeed matter was our sexual connection as a whole.
There are so many other components to affection and intimacy that matter.
Even ED would not exclude someone from my consideration depending on how much that affected him and his self esteem and sexual openness. 
How open he was about his frustration, how willing to be intimate anyway, how creative and attentive he was to my needs would matter way more than his dick period in my mind.
I can get a dick of any size shape and color I want, what's in someone's pants is the last thing that would make me or preclude me from committing.
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RE: Little dick, Big dick - 3/2/2007 4:05:42 PM   
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ORIGINAL: myobedience

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well Ma'am ... i'm not big or tiny .. just average.  But i don't believe that the size of a guys dick is a good measure of how good of a lover he is, what's more important is his mind set and how much does he want to please you.  Guys with big dicks rely too much on their size and don't make as much of an effort to please their partner as a guy with a smaller dick would have made.

Just my .02


be careful you might be spanked by the "generalization" clean up crew  lol


lol i have thought about that after i have posted it ... but ohh well we'll see what happens ... i know that not every single guy with a big dick would be like that but it's already posted so hopefully nobody gets offended.

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RE: Little dick, Big dick - 3/2/2007 4:07:33 PM   
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ORIGINAL: chastiseme

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ORIGINAL: myobedience

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ORIGINAL: chastiseme

well Ma'am ... i'm not big or tiny .. just average.  But i don't believe that the size of a guys dick is a good measure of how good of a lover he is, what's more important is his mind set and how much does he want to please you.  Guys with big dicks rely too much on their size and don't make as much of an effort to please their partner as a guy with a smaller dick would have made.

Just my .02


be careful you might be spanked by the "generalization" clean up crew  lol


lol i have thought about that after i have posted it ... but ohh well we'll see what happens ... i know that not every single guy with a big dick would be like that but it's already posted so hopefully nobody gets offended.


LMAO !!

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RE: Little dick, Big dick - 3/2/2007 4:11:27 PM   
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Are guys with big cocks more desireable,& more confident? Are they better lovers? Are guys with small ones less confident? Are they worse lovers?  Does cock size affect the mindset and determine a man's decision to be submissive?   

Is bigger REALLY better?   

I think a lot of men choose to allow their penis size to affect their personality.

I have not noticed penis siize having any correllation to ones personality- I have noticed people who make an issue of their penis size having a correllation to their personality.

Which is so silly because my dildo collection beats anything a single cock can do.

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RE: Little dick, Big dick - 3/2/2007 4:13:38 PM   
onestandingstill


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Status: offline 		lol and to out myself it's only fair in pornography where it's purely visual pleasure only, yes the big ones look incredible.
The thing is I can't take all of a big one, nor can I take it full runt thrusting hard too many nights in a row.
I also prefer average guys as opposed to big guys when trying to deep throat someone who just could not go down without splitting my throat in two.
I don't prefer mind monster cocks.
In my own defense though, if the man I ever had fell in love with had a monster I'd buck up and soldier through, but it wouldn't be half as much about my pleasure as say a short thick guy.
Each cock is like a precious flower.
As a seed you never can tell how much punch is in it's grow power, and sometimes the little ones are phenomenal sometimes the beauty in the common average can take your breath away, and the mind ones make you stand there with eyes wide open with an Uh Ohhhh running like a freight train in my brain by the massiveness of it alone.
suzanne

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RE: Little dick, Big dick - 3/2/2007 4:26:00 PM   
taintedgypsy


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Status: offline 		I had a guy who was so big it was just wrong lol ... it took a lot of work and I seriously doubt he could ever just let go and give in to carnal lust without causing a trip to emergency lol

I have been with a guy so small that penitration was not possible but oh my god the best set of hands I have ever come accross in my life

I have come accross guys who over compensate for lack of size with attitude that is down right frightening and ones with huge members that they think can replace personality.

I do not think that size determines mind set but rather that the mind set determines how the guy adjusts to what he was dealt.

If a woman rolls off the bed laughing, shaking her head saying "no way" does it really matter whether the comment is because he is to large or too small ... either way he is going to be hurt. (By the way this actually happened to the guy who was just massive and led in part to me sleeping with this good friend ... reassurance that normal sex was possible and that she was truely a bitch ... he was much younger than me and very insecure ... I like to think he had good memories and less insecurity afterwards ... that and kept to women and not girls lol)

Back in my youth I had a rather nasty chip on my shoulder and never dated short blokes ... a 5'1" irish boy asked to buy me a drink and in true bitch mode I told him he "would need a step ladder" ... 5 mins later he came up to the bar with a step ladder, climbed up it and said "now can I buy you that drink or are you still going to be a bitch" lol ... he turned out to be one of my fondest memories and a few very happy months of good loving durring a period where it was desparately needed. 25yrs later when I am down I still think of him and smile, wishing him well.

The moral for me ... is that sometimes we can get too tied up over issues of size, hieght, weight and overlook something that could be wonderful, even life changing.

warm smiles to all






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RE: Little dick, Big dick - 3/2/2007 4:30:44 PM   
DianeB269


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ORIGINAL: WhiteRadiance

I have been receiving an excessive amount of mail from guys who seem to think that penis size denotes manhood.  
I know one reason I have been getting such mail is because I mention in my journal useless cocks and men who are NOT good lovers...   
 
Are guys with big cocks more desireable,& more confident? Are they better lovers? Are guys with small ones less confident? Are they worse lovers?  Does cock size affect the mindset and determine a man's decision to be submissive?   
 
Is bigger REALLY better?  
 
 
 
 


A big penis means nothing to me..I like them short and thick.


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RE: Little dick, Big dick - 3/2/2007 4:31:03 PM   
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ORIGINAL: WhiteRadiance

I have been receiving an excessive amount of mail from guys who seem to think that penis size denotes manhood.  
I know one reason I have been getting such mail is because I mention in my journal useless cocks and men who are NOT good lovers...   
 
Are guys with big cocks more desireable,& more confident?

 
In my experience it's both yes and no. The most insecure partner I had ranged on the smaller size, but it certainly wasn't anything to laugh at. The most overconfident partners I've had (both of them the "I'm always right" style dominant, even in social situations) were quite large.
 
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 Are they better lovers? Are guys with small ones less confident? Are they worse lovers?  Does cock size affect the mindset and determine a man's decision to be submissive?   
 
Is bigger REALLY better?   
 
 


Frankly, I've found that men with bigger packages have to be better lovers because if they aren't good at foreplay, there is no way they can fit that thing in the girlie bits without a lot of undue discomfort and pain on her part. Lube, lube, lube and natural is better. Larger ones tend to hit areas that I don't like having hit and there is such a thing as too much girth. I don't think size has anything to do with a man's submission, but I could be wrong.

As to if it's better, no way. I've had big, I've had small and I've had average. I like average bordering on slightly wider. It's a nice, happy fit and it makes my lady parts all happy.

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RE: Little dick, Big dick - 3/2/2007 4:34:12 PM   
SmokingGun82


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Status: offline 		I don't have a huge dick- pretty much average, or what average has been defined as here (between five and seven inches), and I used to be a little insecure about it. Until I started dating my most recent ex, who had previously only been with one guy, who was considerably larger than average- as she put it, she couldn't wrap a hand around it.

After the first time we had sex, she said "Holy shit- I didn't realize sex could actually feel GOOD!" I've been a lot less worried about it ever since.

Are there size queens? Sure there are. But hey, most likely, if you've gotten to the point where you're taking your dick out in front of someone, she probably digs you.


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RE: Little dick, Big dick - 3/2/2007 4:35:46 PM   
Mysti


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quote:

ORIGINAL: taintedgypsy

Back in my youth I had a rather nasty chip on my shoulder and never dated short blokes ... a 5'1" irish boy asked to buy me a drink and in true bitch mode I told him he "would need a step ladder" ... 5 mins later he came up to the bar with a step ladder, climbed up it and said "now can I buy you that drink or are you still going to be a bitch" lol ... he turned out to be one of my fondest memories and a few very happy months of good loving durring a period where it was desparately needed. 25yrs later when I am down I still think of him and smile, wishing him well.

The moral for me ... is that sometimes we can get too tied up over issues of size, hieght, weight and overlook something that could be wonderful, even life changing.

warm smiles to all



Perfection. That made me reflect on a few misfires I myself had. Thank you for sharing


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RE: Little dick, Big dick - 3/2/2007 4:37:03 PM   
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RE: Little dick, Big dick - 3/2/2007 4:45:42 PM   
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Status: offline 		its tru that its harder 2 fit a really huge dick in the mouth but i do love seein it when they open really wide and get Thor in there. i have pix of that also. and painsluts really love an ass splittin log rammed up the hershey highway.

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RE: Little dick, Big dick - 3/2/2007 4:47:42 PM   
brightblueyes


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Status: offline 		I've been with men of various sizes.  To me it doesn't matter how big or small they are. I enjoy sex immensely, wish I could get some actually, lol but in the grand scheme of things how I am treated is more important to me. 

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RE: Little dick, Big dick - 3/2/2007 4:50:32 PM   
taintedgypsy


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It is nice durring this period of reflection in my life ... to have somewhere to share these things.

warm smiles

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RE: Little dick, Big dick - 3/2/2007 5:09:46 PM   
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Status: offline 		it's not the size of the ship it is the motion of the ocean..... but it takes a very long time to get to england in a row boat

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RE: Little dick, Big dick - 3/2/2007 5:16:05 PM   
chastiseme


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ORIGINAL: kate

it's not the size of the ship it is the motion of the ocean..... but it takes a very long time to get to england in a row boat


even longer if you hit an iceberg lol

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RE: Little dick, Big dick - 3/2/2007 5:16:51 PM   
boltaction


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ORIGINAL: azzmaster

its tru that its harder 2 fit a really huge dick in the mouth but i do love seein it when they open really wide and get Thor in there. i have pix of that also. and painsluts really love an ass splittin log rammed up the hershey highway.


Would you stop? At least try to spell. Jeesh.


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ORIGINAL: kate

it's not the size of the ship it is the motion of the ocean..... but it takes a very long time to get to england in a row boat


Does that mean a wider boat can't break the waves?

< Message edited by boltaction -- 3/2/2007 5:19:37 PM >

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RE: Little dick, Big dick - 3/2/2007 5:24:53 PM   
azzmaster


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