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RE: Cumming on command techniques - 3/13/2007 7:27:13 PM

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"BRNaughtyAngel: I know a lot of women who have never heard of it, or who are actually afraid of it because they fear their partners thinking they've peed on them. "

"servicewithsmile: WHY the heck wasn't I taught about this in health class in grade school?!! "

It's my understanding that this is a new discovery, as far as medically accepted is concerned, something like in the 70s? it's still not widely known, and I have heard horror stories about women who've had surgery to "FIX" their "urinating-while-having-sex problems"... *gasp* !

I've also dated two vanilla girls, one in highschool, one in college, who would NOT believe me when I'd tell them that it's impossible to pee during sex: you're going to cum, just let it out, I'll change the sheets, it's ok -- etc, etc -- no matter what I tried or had them read.

"Griswold: That is such horrendous, incredible, unbelievable horseshit. " in reference to "Elorin: Men are ~able~ to orgasm without any penile contact. " -- I've had one wet dream, in highschool, that means I woke up in the middle of the night during a climax, spraying sperm all up in my shorts -- this orgasm was created completely by my mind as I was making love to non-existant dream women -- there was no contact with my penis of ANY kind, not my hands, not my cat (wtf?) or any other damn thing... it's possible -- on a side note, the rest of your post made no sense.

"mnottertail: when I get my dick sucked, almost no human contact" -- though you're playing for the right team, your argument also made no sense; Hello! your dick was sucked? having your dick inside of a mouth is human contact, duh! Seriously, why do I bother pointing this out? hell, it's easier for most men to cum when their dick is being sucked than when it's in a cunt! rubbing it against your hand is human contact, rubbing it on tits, or against your pillow, or inside your butlers ass are all examples of contact also; It is possible to orgasm/cum without anything touching your penis.

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RE: Cumming on command techniques - 3/13/2007 7:33:38 PM

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I've also dated two vanilla girls, one in highschool, one in college, who would NOT believe me when I'd tell them that it's impossible to pee during sex: you're going to cum, just let it out, I'll change the sheets, it's ok -- etc, etc -- no matter what I tried or had them read.

FYI, It is very possible to pee during an orgasm. One can do both.

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RE: Cumming on command techniques - 3/13/2007 7:50:32 PM

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I, too, had the same thing happen to me. I had seen it happen with a sub friend of mine and thought I was too stubborn, hard headed and strong willed for it but it happened. The Dom and I are still good friends. All he has to do is call. When he says "cum" in that tone of voice, omg. I think I leave my body. Its the most intense one I have.

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Squirting..... RE: Cumming on command techniques - 3/13/2007 8:09:38 PM

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ORIGINAL: BrainSlugs83

"BRNaughtyAngel: I know a lot of women who have never heard of it, or who are actually afraid of it because they fear their partners thinking they've peed on them. "

"servicewithsmile: WHY the heck wasn't I taught about this in health class in grade school?!! "

It's my understanding that this is a new discovery, as far as medically accepted is concerned, something like in the 70s? it's still not widely known, and I have heard horror stories about women who've had surgery to "FIX" their "urinating-while-having-sex problems"... *gasp* !

I've also dated two vanilla girls, one in highschool, one in college, who would NOT believe me when I'd tell them that it's impossible to pee during sex: you're going to cum, just let it out, I'll change the sheets, it's ok -- etc, etc -- no matter what I tried or had them read.

It is possible to pee during sex, which is a darn good reason not to drink too much beforehand and go potty before gettin' naughty. And in some cases, women with bladder control issues or who may be having a bladder/kidney infection, this could be problem. Although if I'm having a bladder infection, don't come near me for sex!

Anyway, I can only offer this up from personal experience, the feeling I have when I gush does not feel like peeing even though it comes out of the urethra. Now the feeling just before that feels just like it does when I need to pee and you push into it like you are trying to pee, so there are similarities.

I know some women have had bad experiences because their partner got mad/upset thinking she peed on him. But ya know, even if a girl ends up peeing instead of ejaculating, the world isn't gonna come to an end. We're washable.

For the most part, and yes this can vary from woman to woman, you must have continuous stroking/pressure on the Gspot in order for the woman to ejaculate. This can be done with fingers, cocks or toys. For me, the best position for Gspot stimulation during sex is missionary with my legs over his shoulders.

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RE: Squirting..... RE: Cumming on command techniques - 3/13/2007 8:50:25 PM

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It is possible to pee during sex, which is a darn good reason not to drink too much beforehand and go potty before gettin' naughty. And in some cases, women with bladder control issues or who may be having a bladder/kidney infection, this could be problem. Although if I'm having a bladder infection, don't come near me for sex!

I am really enjoying your articulate posts, BRN. And I think you've just come up with a new slogan: "Don't go potty while gettin' naughty."

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Anyway, I can only offer this up from personal experience, the feeling I have when I gush does not feel like peeing even though it comes out of the urethra. Now the feeling just before that feels just like it does when I need to pee and you push into it like you are trying to pee, so there are similarities.

I will support this as well. The bladder emptying is a different feeling than "gushing." However, I do not need to push, it just....well....it just happens. It is often overwhelming.

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I know some women have had bad experiences because their partner got mad/upset thinking she peed on him. But ya know, even if a girl ends up peeing instead of ejaculating, the world isn't gonna come to an end. We're washable.

Loved the "We're washable" comment. The thing is, when the body is completely overtaken by orgasm, all sorts of areas start contracting. We're outta control, I tell ya! There are worst things that can happen than peeing, lol.

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For the most part, and yes this can vary from woman to woman, you must have continuous stroking/pressure on the Gspot in order for the woman to ejaculate. This can be done with fingers, cocks or toys. For me, the best position for Gspot stimulation during sex is missionary with my legs over his shoulders.

The power of the mind / imagery can be rather profound. On extremely rare occasions direct stimulation is not required. But that's rare. We're working on it, lol.

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RE: Squirting..... RE: Cumming on command techniques - 3/13/2007 8:58:50 PM

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If you fuckin' guys are gonna talk about this all night, bring your own towels, it aint like we have to feel for you nasty squirting bitches, but we could be enticed to bring the beer.

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RE: Squirting..... RE: Cumming on command techniques - 3/13/2007 11:25:42 PM

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"FYI, It is very possible to pee during an orgasm. One can do both. " and "It is possible to pee during sex" -- strange, I've read that it's not -- can you confirm this with your own experience?

" the feeling I have when I gush does not feel like peeing even though it comes out of the urethra." -- ummm, duh? otherwise, yeah, you would REALLY enjoy using the bathroom; most of the time anyway... wouldn't you darling?

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RE: Squirting..... RE: Cumming on command techniques - 3/14/2007 12:06:00 AM

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"FYI, It is very possible to pee during an orgasm. One can do both. " and "It is possible to pee during sex" -- strange, I've read that it's not -- can you confirm this with your own experience?

Yes.

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RE: Squirting..... RE: Cumming on command techniques - 3/14/2007 12:16:51 AM

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Thank you for setting me straight -- I appreciate it very much.

Anyway, to clarify my original statement, the vanilla girls I was with did not even believe that female ejaculation was possible. In my experience, this is common.

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RE: Cumming on command techniques - 5/25/2007 8:08:18 AM

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I have had a sub say to Me that she felt like she needed to pee, so we stopped; the next time it happened, I had thought and read about it beforehand, and was prepared... I told her, "It's OK... I know you feel that right now... I WANT you to feel that... and I WANT you to let yourself go... don't just stop resisting... START getting on top of the feeling... squeeze it for all its worth... ride it... let go and RUN with it..." and during this coaching she came in buckets. Keys for Me were/are eye contact, strong, low & deep voice, and staying away from the realm of possibility; I let her understand that I KNOW how she felt, that I WANTED her to feel like that, that I knew she COULD squirt, and that I WANTED her to do it FOR ME, right then. And she did. Do not EVER say, "Can you?" or "Do you think...?" That weak approach guarantees failure and destroys your dominant dynamic.

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RE: Cumming on command techniques - 5/25/2007 9:22:31 AM

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"Penal stimulation"? WTF? Sounds like fun, actually.

Anyway...there's no way in hell I'm telling everyone my technique. Nor do I feel compelled to prove to the OP that the women I've trained to come on command were really coming on command. The only people who matter know that it was true.

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It appears to be more of a mental exercise than a physical one. If you can picture yourself being told to cum without any penal stimulation, you'll get my gist.

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