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Warm Welcome?? - 3/3/2007 8:09:37 AM

LadyLucifer

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Im really confused as to why some Domme felt the need to send me a nasty e-mail out of no where. She told me I was confuseing Domination with beeing spoiled and i dont know where she even got that from. Is the entire community like this?

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RE: Warm Welcome?? - 3/3/2007 8:13:24 AM

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No.

Just ignore the yucky emails, or block and delete.

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RE: Warm Welcome?? - 3/3/2007 8:13:51 AM

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Please don't feel disheartened because of one individual. The entire community isn't like that.

You will find people who judge you all the time. Block them and delete their e-mails. Better yet, delete their e-mails without reading them, that will really drive them nuts .

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RE: Warm Welcome?? - 3/3/2007 8:16:24 AM

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Welcome to the boards. As you know however, from your sister being here, and her being an avid poster, there are all kinds on CM. She would also probably tell you to ignore the other person emailing you. I think she will also tell you that the entire community is not like this, and to give the site and the boards a chance before you decide and post on the basis of one that all of us are like the one that emailed you.

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RE: Warm Welcome?? - 3/3/2007 8:17:33 AM

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Just ignore it. It really isn't any special community, just a few people like most people you know with one lil ole difference. A common interest in a kinky twist to life. Other than that we are none of us more special than the people you meet every day.

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RE: Warm Welcome?? - 3/3/2007 8:23:23 AM

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The only things I see wrong with your profile is that it doesn't speak a whole lot about you as a person and your spelling needs to be corrected.

Some people are jealous, some people are petty and some simply exist to try and hurt others. This happens in all walks of life.

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RE: Warm Welcome?? - 3/3/2007 8:35:08 AM

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Fast reply~ I can totally see where see got this impression from your profile, but that doesn't give anyone the right to just throw their opinion of you in your mail box. Some people are rude no matter what environment their in...... if it don't apply, let it fly.........

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RE: Warm Welcome?? - 3/3/2007 8:38:46 AM

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No, everybody is not like this here. At least on the message boards! Responses to your profile can be brutal. Some of those people trolling the profiles are perhaps too scared to come in here! lol...

Welcome... you'll find many with their arms wide open.... willing to hear what you have to say. Be it your thoughts, feelings, Kinks, kinky ideas.. and you'll probally meet and make a good friend to two along the way.

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RE: Warm Welcome?? - 3/3/2007 9:24:36 AM

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I don't get spoiled from her profile though I do get incredibly picky. Which can be a good thing or it can be a bad thing, depending on how you look at it.

To the OP: Because your profile is so picky/demanding about ages you really should include more information about yourself. You aren't giving the 18-23 age range a lot to be interested in when it comes to you.

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RE: Warm Welcome?? - 3/3/2007 10:09:29 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyLucifer

Im really confused as to why some Domme felt the need to send me a nasty e-mail out of no where. She told me I was confuseing Domination with beeing spoiled and i dont know where she even got that from. Is the entire community like this?

I'll freely admit I have my own predjudices about young dom/mes, particularly *teenagers*, who are supposedly ready to take charge and responsibility of another, even though they have practically ZERO life skills and experience themselves. So when they come to the Boards looking for ideas etc, I tend to push a few of their buttons to see how they respond - mostly looking to see if they can at least control themselves under pressure. Most can't and let me have "both barrels" amidst a spectacular spoilt brat attack but a few have impressed over the years....

And what does this have to do with your dilemma?

Maybe I'm not the only one dubious about teen dom/mes, only they're using your personal mail rather than my preferred public msg board to "see what you've got".... A rhetorical question (for you to ask and answer of/to yourself), but how did you respond to this person's intrusion?

You've seen prison shows/movies etc, yes? What happens to the young and fresh faced re the "pecking order"? They get pushed to see what they've got in response! The young have no proven track record and nor do you (presumably) re being a Domme ready to bark commands and assume control etc. Putting up a profile is your right and you can describe yourself any way you like. But the act of doing so invites public scrutiny, esp for one apparently too young to be "commanding respect" without showing us why.

Personally, assuming you did nothing to this person first, I think it's way too rude and presumptuous to confront you via private email. Certainly I'd probably have a dig if you wanted to know ways to control someone in particular circumstances etc, because I acknowledge I do have predjudices born of *experience*. You're young, EXPECT ro be tested, even by strangers with no business.... And when they do, you can stamp your feet and hurl insults, as many have back at me (thus proving my point) - ORRRR, you can confront them in a controlled and thoughtful manner.

Hmmmm, I wonder what you did....!?! (No answer required)

Welcome to the Forums, btw... And life in the real World....

Focus.

Edited because I loathe typo's - and too proud to use a spell-check.... lol

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RE: Warm Welcome?? - 3/3/2007 10:12:17 AM

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She told me I was confuseing

She said that, really? Well, she don't know how to spell, tell her that.

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RE: Warm Welcome?? - 3/3/2007 10:45:43 AM

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Ok, that got splutter over my keyboard. Ron, you are so bad!!!!!!

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RE: Warm Welcome?? - 3/3/2007 11:20:03 AM

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At least you are thick skinned enough to keep your profile up and not let her or these other people bother you....Ah Crap!...Never mind....

And don't pay any attention to that Mnottertail fellow,,,,He's just mean.

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RE: Warm Welcome?? - 3/4/2007 9:38:22 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy

At least you are thick skinned enough to keep your profile up and not let her or these other people bother you....Ah Crap!...Never mind....

And don't pay any attention to that Mnottertail fellow,,,,He's just mean.

Very funny!! Im the one that took the original profile down. I was the one that wrote it for her thats why the spelling in it was so bad. But today we sat together and came up with a new one. She is very new to all of this and young.. And for the record No one calls my sister spoiled but me!!!!

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RE: Warm Welcome?? - 3/4/2007 10:02:27 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyLucifer

Im really confused as to why some Domme felt the need to send me a nasty e-mail out of no where. She told me I was confuseing Domination with beeing spoiled and i dont know where she even got that from. Is the entire community like this?

Yes, the ENTIRE community is like this. We all attack everyone and pay no mind to feelings or sensitivities. We are a bunch of drooling snot-nosed punks looking for a fight.

Welcome to the boards!

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RE: Warm Welcome?? - 3/4/2007 10:46:12 PM

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ORIGINAL: MagiksSlave

quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy

At least you are thick skinned enough to keep your profile up and not let her or these other people bother you....Ah Crap!...Never mind....

And don't pay any attention to that Mnottertail fellow,,,,He's just mean.

Very funny!! Im the one that took the original profile down. I was the one that wrote it for her thats why the spelling in it was so bad. But today we sat together and came up with a new one. She is very new to all of this and young.. And for the record No one calls my sister spoiled but me!!!!

Magik's slave

Spoiled.

I'm sorry but I had to do it. Now what ya gonna do to me.... huh? type me to death?
Hopefully you both take that with the grain of salt that was intented to go with it. AND Ron, you really need to stop making me laugh at the keys cause Daddy is starting to catch on when I am slacking off homework and reading these threads.

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