Wildfleurs
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Joined: 9/24/2004 From: Connecticut Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: DominaSmartass Again, inspired by other threads... Is this really that rare? To find a sub or slave who is still a virgin (assuming he or she is somewhat young) I personally know several (or knew, you might say...hehe) Assuming you could find one, would you want one? I know the idea of a virgin is great but in reality aren't they all awkward and fumbling? Would you consider it the ultimate act of ownership to take a slave's virginity? Which would you prefer: a slave who saves him/herself for the would-be owner or one who is experienced enough that the experience is a benefit? Or do you figure you'd rather start fresh rather than un-training someone else's style out of him/her? Are there any subs/slaves out there willing to admit to being virgins still? And if so, are you saving it for your future owner? When I first got involved in BDSM I was a virgin (I got involved initially when I was eighteen). To me it was just something I wanted to get over with, I didn't view it as something important to hold onto and such. I didn't find that I was anymore appealing to prospective dominants, and in fact with my owner the first time he did some fooling around with me and drew blood (and I wasn't a virgin anymore at that point, but had some residual hymen) his face pretty much went white and it wasn't exactly a positive for him. So to me it was, and still would be in my mind a detriment to be a virgin, not a plus. C~
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