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Anal Fisting... strictly a BDSM activity? - 3/6/2007 1:09:53 AM

azzmaster

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i have never run n2 a vanilla person that has indulged in anal fisting, and perhaps only one or 2 that had been involved in vaginal fisting. i m curious as 2 the others posters opinions as 2 whether they see at as specifically a lifestyle activity

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RE: Anal Fisting... strictly a BDSM activity? - 3/6/2007 6:20:44 AM

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He dips His lid,

Vag fisting is just wicked for wo-ever wants to try or continue with it- exploration is certainly not restricted to The Lifestyle.

Anal fisting- well not my gig to give nor (ever) recieve and something that I consider more being a homosexual domain than other domains.

regards to all Driver.

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RE: Anal Fisting... strictly a BDSM activity? - 3/6/2007 6:45:08 AM

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My best mate swears by anal fisting but he is gay , thats the only person i know who isnt into bdsm that does it. Vaginal fisting i know loads of vanilla friends who love it. I partake in V fisting but not as a bondage thing i just love feeling that full and the wicked orgasms it brings. Anal fisting im not sure about at all.

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RE: Anal Fisting... strictly a BDSM activity? - 3/7/2007 2:41:24 AM

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love to v fist willing partners

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RE: Anal Fisting... strictly a BDSM activity? - 3/7/2007 3:22:11 AM

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naww will pass on anal fisting--exit-not an entrance-vag. would love to try that-cherry here on that act-any teaches out there??

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RE: Anal Fisting... strictly a BDSM activity? - 3/7/2007 5:40:07 AM

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Anal fisting is just anal fingering taken a little further, so I imagine a number of people do it without whips and chains. I don't spend a lot of time discussing sexual proclivities with people who don't do BDSM, so I don't have a personal story about thus and such otherwise-vanilla person who likes getting hands put in his or her ass. But there are handballing enthusiasts (often men who like to play with men) and guides written about it (Trust, by Bert Herman) that don't treat it as merely a subset of BDSM. It's a possible adjunct to BDSM, like penis-vagina intercourse, oral sex, and vaginal fisting, but like all those activities, you can do anal fisting without pain, negotiated inequal-power, or bondage.

Edit: Vaginal fisting is definitely independent of BDSM! I've done vaginal fisting without any pain, bondage, or proper d/s, and I fisted a woman before I knew that there were four letters to describe my "rough sex" proclivities. I also have known women who enjoy receiving or giving vaginal fisting and don't identify with BDSM at all.

Monica

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RE: Anal Fisting... strictly a BDSM activity? - 3/7/2007 7:54:26 AM

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interewsting post , monica, a pleasure to hear from such a knowlegable individual

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RE: Anal Fisting... strictly a BDSM activity? - 3/8/2007 7:27:39 PM

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love to be fisted anally by my mistress ...great way to submit to a lady i do believe ...first i give myself a enema or 2 to make sure im nice and clean for her to play with ...then she takes my ass and opens me up with het 10 in strapon ..once im nice and loose and relaxed out goes the strapon and in goes her fist ...usually get it done on a weekly basis ...she really loves to do this to me also ...when her fist is buried inside of me i surrender to her and the power she has over me ..love a lady in control and not afraid to try new things with her as she expands my limits and yes i do trust her completely ....great way to submit to a lady ...smile

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