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RE: How to Keep Buttplug In - 3/31/2005 9:23:18 AM

MizSuz

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The problem with duct tape is that not all is created the same. Some of it is very strong. It will remove patches of skin with the hair sometimes. It also can leave a very nasty sticky residue. I don't have it as part of my bastion of toys due to that. I prefer things that do not stick to skin when I want to rip out hair.

Yup, some of them will take a bit of skin and yup they do have a really serious adhesive. If I've a mind to use duct tape then I'm thinking both of those things are appropriate for the situation.

Of course, I don't use the tape on the tender tissues, but I've found that body sweat has a pretty good loosening effect with duct tape across the ass. I've seen some start to fall off with extended wear, of course this assumes that you haven't wrapped it around anything.

I don't use duct tape all the time for the very reasons you state, but I'll use it if I'm feeling pissy and believe the situation warrants it.

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RE: How to Keep Buttplug In - 3/31/2005 9:48:37 AM

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i went through the small & medium without being able to hold it in...had to use the larger one. Here's a dumb question...how do you know it's silicone...i mean, after you throw out the package...i have one which i use...but i have no idea if it's jelly, or silicone or whatever...i do know it's not metal tho lol...that much i know.

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RE: How to Keep Buttplug In - 3/31/2005 12:11:42 PM

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ORIGINAL: BeachMystress
The problem with duct tape is that not all is created the same. Some of it is very strong. It will remove patches of skin with the hair sometimes. I don't have it as part of my bastion of toys due to that. I prefer things that do not stick to skin when I want to rip out hair.

Thanks BeachMystress,
so I wondering what do you use to rip out hair?

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http://www.womynsware.com/abtbuyerbewware.htm#Crystal%20Jelly%20G-Spot
or find the original article in the magazine Stern (issue 31, 7/01)
silicone or metal for anal toys. Yes.. I said metal. The best butt plugs I've ever used are http://www.mr-s-leather.com/cgi-bin/mr-s/D259.html Yeah, it is expensive, but they stay IN! Make him buy it for himself as a gift to you. *smiles* Do not let his eyes be bigger than his asshole.
The mini or small is a good starting point. These are metal toys and do not give.

Thanks for all the info and sites, I'll look it up.
Thanks Very much for the Ideas about work and making him re-lube and re-insert as well. M

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RE: How to Keep Buttplug In - 3/31/2005 12:17:32 PM

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ORIGINAL: MizSuz
Yup, some of them will take a bit of skin and yup they do have a really serious adhesive. If I've a mind to use duct tape then I'm thinking both of those things are appropriate for the situation.

Of course, I don't use the tape on the tender tissues, but I've found that body sweat has a pretty good loosening effect with duct tape across

Thanks again Suz... I also heard that Post offce tape holds pretty well, so wanting to try it and without all the residue.
The other thing I suppose I should discuss with partner is if skin rips it's an acceptable part of accidental fun; I imagine sooner or later something will go less than perfect. M

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RE: How to Keep Buttplug In - 3/31/2005 12:29:21 PM

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skin rips

ouch!

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RE: How to Keep Buttplug In - 3/31/2005 1:49:16 PM

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ORIGINAL: ruffnecksbabygir

i went through the small & medium without being able to hold it in...had to use the larger one. Here's a dumb question...how do you know it's silicone...i mean, after you throw out the package...i have one which i use...but i have no idea if it's jelly, or silicone or whatever...i do know it's not metal tho lol...that much i know.

While I can't tell you how to tell with every toy you own, if the toy is translucent (you can see light through it) it is jelly. Not all jelly toys are translucent however, so you can't use it as a total test. Jelly is also slippery when wet, slightly tacky to the touch after a few uses and soft/flexible. Many toys people own are jelly, because they are cheap. Not all cheap toys are jelly however. Plastic ones are also cheap, but are often harder.They may not have the toxic problem that the jelly ones do, but they are very porous, hard to clean and deteriorate quickly

You can see examples of jelly toys here.

You can see silicone dildos here.

You can see silicone butt plugs here.

Yes, the silicone are more expensive. But the thought of having something up your butt that is giving off toxic gasses and that those toxins are building up in your body should be enough to make the difference in price worth it.

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RE: How to Keep Buttplug In - 3/31/2005 1:55:34 PM

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ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig

quote:

ORIGINAL: BeachMystress
I prefer things that do not stick to skin when I want to rip out hair.

Thanks BeachMystress,
so I wondering what do you use to rip out hair?

*sweet smile* I use an epilady. Pull those puppies OUT. MWAHAHAHAHA. Any time my sub is slow in doing something I've ordered, I go for the epilady. It gets his butt in gear like nothing else.

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RE: How to Keep Buttplug In - 3/31/2005 4:36:08 PM

MizSuz

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ORIGINAL: BeachMystress

*sweet smile* I use an epilady. Pull those puppies OUT. MWAHAHAHAHA. Any time my sub is slow in doing something I've ordered, I go for the epilady. It gets his butt in gear like nothing else.

hahahahaha ya know, I've got one of the original ones, with the coil on it. It's WORTHLESS as a hair remover, but it sure does pull those suckers well.

< Message edited by MizSuz -- 3/31/2005 4:37:11 PM >

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RE: How to Keep Buttplug In - 3/31/2005 7:55:06 PM

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ORIGINAL: MizSuz

quote:

ORIGINAL: BeachMystress

*sweet smile* I use an epilady. Pull those puppies OUT. MWAHAHAHAHA. Any time my sub is slow in doing something I've ordered, I go for the epilady. It gets his butt in gear like nothing else.

hahahahaha ya know, I've got one of the original ones, with the coil on it. It's WORTHLESS as a hair remover, but it sure does pull those suckers well.

Oh my God You ladies are awesomely crazy, I will definitely buy an epilady in the future... I've always heard it was a wonderful torture device just never thought of a good use for it before.

Thanks, M

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RE: How to Keep Buttplug In - 3/31/2005 11:09:34 PM

FLButtSlut

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I believe that the metal ones you sent the link to (btw, thanks so much) will stay in better because the stem is very small (compared of course to the "bulk" of the plug). This way, the stem allows your anus to close more, thereby keeping the plug in much more securely (ain't life grand!)

Being the anal fan that I am, I still have trouble keeping them in without something assisting.

I have noticed one thing though. When it is first inserted, it can come out quite easily (if there is other play involved, forget it!), but if I keep in in for a while, whether I use duct tape or just a snug pair of shorts, after a while, it is pretty much secure, it seems.

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RE: How to Keep Buttplug In - 4/1/2005 10:42:36 AM

MadameDahlia

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quote:

ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig

quote:

ORIGINAL: BeachMystress
The problem with duct tape is that not all is created the same. Some of it is very strong. It will remove patches of skin with the hair sometimes. I don't have it as part of my bastion of toys due to that. I prefer things that do not stick to skin when I want to rip out hair.

Thanks BeachMystress,
so I wondering what do you use to rip out hair?

I'm not BeachMystress but I spotted this question and it looked too fun to pass up. I use typical tweezers so that I can prolong the fun... one hair at a time.

Typically I only use that when someone's failed to shave properly though. I've yet to use them just for the fun of it.

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RE: How to Keep Buttplug In - 4/1/2005 10:16:51 PM

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ORIGINAL: MadameDahlia
Typically I only use that when someone's failed to shave properly though. I've yet to use them just for the fun of it.

Thanks Madame
I enjoy learning new and improved ways to torture boys, so I apreciate the info...
I guess I'll soon have to remove that non-sadist/loving dominant description of myself as I learn to enjoy these things more.

M

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RE: How to Keep Buttplug In - 4/2/2005 1:04:52 AM

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I guess I'll soon have to remove that non-sadist/loving dominant description of myself as I learn to enjoy these things more.

Did everyone read that??

You all are corrupting this innocent woman! She came on this board to converse politely and make a few friends... and you are turning her into a sadist!

For shame.

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RE: How to Keep Buttplug In - 4/2/2005 6:06:16 AM

sting516

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ORIGINAL: MizSuz

What's wrong with duct tape?!? I've used it when I was feeling especially pissy (especially on hairy asses).

Well, OWWWWWWWW...guess i'd better go find my razor!

sting

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RE: How to Keep Buttplug In - 4/2/2005 6:09:06 AM

sting516

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ORIGINAL: ModeratorThree

Try making them wear a womans panty girdle. It will slide in and out a bit, while walking for example. Many get the thrill of wearing the womens underware, in a "granny" fashion under an everyday suit ..;-) And everytime they sit they get a full on back in. It will only slip in and out a little while walking, if the girdle is tight.

Just a thought..

Mod3

and a very cool thought...i'm not one for crossdressing...but if one is going to go for the full feeling of a butt plug, they might as well go for the full experience...well, i guess that's not the full experience...but not everyone can go out 'dressed'

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RE: How to Keep Buttplug In - 4/2/2005 10:52:39 AM

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ORIGINAL: onceburned
You all are corrupting this innocent woman! She came on this board to converse politely and make a few friends... and you are turning her into a sadist!
For shame.

Isn't it awesome how far I've come already?
This is a great place for learning fun things to do with boys. M

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RE: How to Keep Buttplug In - 4/2/2005 1:36:24 PM

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See what I mean?? She even *likes* it now!

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RE: How to Keep Buttplug In - 4/2/2005 1:38:22 PM

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Dear god not another one LOL!

I saw corrupt all the women, us men need to be put in our place.

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RE: How to Keep Buttplug In - 4/8/2005 2:24:53 PM

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yes, the best way "i" found to keep a buttplug,..is...a girdle type clothing. the tighter the better if it wears okay without circulation problems...

i personally enjoy my buttplug,..when i think of it. which has not been for a long time,...the thing about it "i" like,..is it makes me never forget Whom is Boss. the dogchoker chain collar is ok,..but you tend to forget it is there,...but a buttplug?...no!
my buttplug reminds every precise secong of the clock exactly i am to answer to a One...and it forces me into total submissive thought constantly...
maybe i should go find it and start using it again...hmmmmm.
too bad i am as yet unowned....sigh.

have a wonderful day......

houseboy

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RE: How to Keep Buttplug In - 4/8/2005 2:55:51 PM

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ORIGINAL: unbrokenhouseboy
i personally enjoy my buttplug,..when i think of it. which has not been for a long time,...the thing about it "i" like,..is it makes me never forget Whom is Boss.
my buttplug reminds every precise secong of the clock exactly i am to answer to a One...and it forces me into total submissive thought constantly...
houseboy

So, how many hours at a time do you wear it and do you take it out and relube every hour? and do you use a girdle/harness to keep it in or just do it? What size usu? M

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