MzMia
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ORIGINAL: mstrjx I think many of you have danced around the key reason why there will ALWAYS be more people interested in submission (or bottoming) than domination (or topping). There's so much more responsibility in being a dominant. A lot of people are 'tired' of being dominant in real life, and need to find an outlet to take a break from that. Hence, taking a beating (just a phrase, people) is therapeutic. The 'work' involved in watching the mind and emotions of a sub/slave is rewarding indeed, but if part of your modus is to put things on roller coaster tracks (which I do enjoy, myself), then you do have to pay quite a bit of attention and ensure that you are getting the desired results. I don't put nearly the amount of effort and brainpower into a day job as I do in 'what I do'. But, I take 'what I do' far more seriously than real life. I have it easy. Jeff ****Agreeing with jeff!! That is why many men in high powered positions NEED to be in a subservient role in the home----being in charge all the time has to be draining*** Being the Dominant is really not easier, it is a matter of what you DESIRE. Since I was born a Dominant spirit and will die a Dominant spirit---it is easier for me to be what I am. It must be hard to attempt to be in a role that does not come naturally to you!!!!! I LOVE to be in charge!! oh hell yes! also the title of this thread has me humming--bad boys, bad boys, what ya gonna do--what ya gonna do when they come for you? Many around here are desperate and will beg or do anything to get their desires met. That is why the professionals are needed! I enjoy seeing the professional submissive profiles, there is certainly a market for Professional Dominants and Professional submissives.
< Message edited by MzMia -- 3/10/2007 7:14:58 AM >
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