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howdo i get a mistress to notice me - 3/31/2005 6:20:01 AM

NUDESEXSLAVE

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what are some good advice when your trying to get a mistress to notice
you?...i'm seeking a mistress that wants a slave 24/7 and i've sent several
emails with a reponse from only one...can any mistress give me some good advice?..........thank you and ya'll have a great day!

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RE: howdo i get a mistress to notice me - 3/31/2005 7:53:43 AM

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I would consider starting with adding a pic to your profile and expanding some on what it says. You have a very small paragraph it it now.

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RE: howdo i get a mistress to notice me - 3/31/2005 8:00:05 AM

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I am not a mistress but I think they would appreciate hearing how you plan on making their lives better. As ShiftedJewel mentioned, it would be a good idea to expand your profile. Talk more about yourself and your non-sexual skills.

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RE: howdo i get a mistress to notice me - 3/31/2005 8:03:35 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: NUDESEXSLAVE

what are some good advice when your trying to get a mistress to notice
you?...i'm seeking a mistress that wants a slave 24/7 and i've sent several
emails with a reponse from only one...can any mistress give me some good advice?..........thank you and ya'll have a great day!

Get a different nickname and improve your profile. I think your nick is an immediate yawn for a lot of femdoms because it's just another one that obviously describes *your* fantasy. So you want to be a naked sex slave? How...."exciting" (sarcasm). A woman wants a submissive who offers her more than just the opportunity to get his rocks off and fullfill his fantasy.

Be more well-rounded in your approach, and simply include your nudesexslave fantasy as a part of who you are, not the first thing she thinks about you.

Some might not even open your email with a name like that, thinking they'd see only another naked cock picture -- no thanks!

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RE: howdo i get a mistress to notice me - 3/31/2005 10:45:20 AM

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Read this Thread for starters: http://www.collarme.com/forum/10_Steps_For_Making_A_Good_First_Impression/m_30125/tm.htm

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RE: howdo i get a mistress to notice me - 4/2/2005 9:01:39 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: AAkasha

Get a different nickname and improve your profile. I think your nick is an immediate yawn for a lot of femdoms because it's just another one that obviously describes *your* fantasy. So you want to be a naked sex slave? How...."exciting" (sarcasm). A woman wants a submissive who offers her more than just the opportunity to get his rocks off and fullfill his fantasy.

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..... SubmisiveHockeyPlayer? Would that do it?

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RE: howdo i get a mistress to notice me - 4/2/2005 9:12:47 PM

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Dear NUDE SEX SLAVE good luck finding many mistresses who want a man for nothing else except having him nude and performance as a sex toy 24/7...
I would think a non-talking/non-feeling/non-attitude-having, good quality silicone toy might be more enjoyable and lower maintenance for most Dominas, but I could be wrong.
On the other hand, if you are a real person, with a personality, and ability to do other things besides hanging around home nude, than state that in your profile along with a photo, and you chances will increase a great deal.

...And don't discount Ms Akasha's advice of maybe losing that name, as it screams insincere to most Dommes from an online prospect.
Just my opinion... M

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RE: howdo i get a mistress to notice me - 4/2/2005 10:18:08 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: AAkasha

Get a different nickname and improve your profile. I think your nick is an immediate yawn for a lot of femdoms because it's just another one that obviously describes *your* fantasy. So you want to be a naked sex slave? How...."exciting" (sarcasm). A woman wants a submissive who offers her more than just the opportunity to get his rocks off and fullfill his fantasy.

I am laughing as I recently updated My profile and I included a whole list of words in user names that are not acceptable to Me. I didn't even bother to include naked or nude, as it just seems so obvious.
Honestly, this would just tell Me you are seeking to feed your own fantasies, and you are not really interested in Me at all.
In a nusthsell, you have already received the most excellent advice. Now the ball is in your court...I do hope you will run with it!
Good luck.

< Message edited by GoddessDustyGold -- 4/2/2005 10:19:16 PM >

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RE: howdo i get a mistress to notice me - 4/3/2005 7:39:24 AM

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A Mistress is still a woman, try adressing her with respect curteousy and kindness.

How would you meet a woman in real life? You dont walk up to her and say "Hey, I want to be your Naked Sex Slave". seriously.
You have to approach these things in a mature mannor, or no Mistress is going to give you the time of day. They dont want to waste their time with some horny kid that finds the idea of becoming some naked sex slave the cat's meow.

Your taking the absolute wrong approach to this.
Yes. Change your name, Change your profile, and re-evaluate what you want in this lifestyle and find out if you really belong with a Mistress or just want some girl who wants sex all the time.

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RE: howdo i get a mistress to notice me - 4/3/2005 8:38:00 AM

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Ok i am not a Mistress but i am a woman and whit that nick i would be sceptical, here is somthing i would like. If you said somthing like Hi, i liked your profile, and i think you are cute (A bit of flattery can never go wrong, just make sure it is tasteful.) I also see you like ........ i do to, perhaps you would like to have a chat? That is an easy intro letter that is rather cute, and it is not pushy.

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RE: howdo i get a mistress to notice me - 4/4/2005 11:31:36 PM

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Yeppers that nick is an instant "DO ME BOY" warning sign, in neon. It says, rather loudly to me, "DO NOT BOTHER WITH THIS ONE"... click away...

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RE: howdo i get a mistress to notice me - 4/5/2005 6:05:52 PM

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I myself, not a Mistress but I do have an inane inherit ability to draw attention to myself.
Some would call it "Attention Deficit Disorder" same would say, I am dramatically challenged, others may go as so far as to say I am perminently scarred from hallucinagenes and exastacy in the 80's.

All joking aside, I would say in my broad experience as an Australian Mardi Gras participant; if you want a Mistress to notice you, I really would look at my appearance firsty, (dress sluty or seductively, neat and tidy). I notice some Mistresses have mentioned including a photograph of yourself. Make sure it is well presented.
Be very submissive or demour in her presence, if at a play party and the Mistress you desire is there then watch her, let her know with subtilties, watch her once she see you looking look away as to not make it tooo obvious. Observe her playing, be seated alone allow her space to come and speak to you. Be honoured in her presences.

Do as you and I have done here and ask questions ans make statements on the message board *winks (an illusive form of gaining attention almost like advertising, I think the corperates call it some very kinky name such as "viral marketing")

If all the above fails then by all means get drunk, wear girls clothes, preferably Pink red and green nylon materials, be flamboyant, walk past a heater catch on fire if you can, and the run around the dungeon screaming in flames. I am sure she is bound to notice you *winks
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