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Strapon size - what would One consider big? - 3/15/2007 8:11:09 AM   
solvr70


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Status: offline 		i know this is one of those it all depends on the person and can vary from just a slim 6" long strapon to One's whole arm in some extreme cases. But, what size strapon would You make You think "wow, that is big and thick and he'e being a good bitch for me" should one be able to take.

it's taken me a while to work up to being able to take a good 9"long by a little over 2 1/4" thick strapon, and found out along the way that flexibility makes a big difference (pardon the pun there ...). i also obviously can't see what it looks like when i'm open to the max and taking it all, but would think it would be stimulating for Those that also enjoy that type of play...

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RE: Strapon size - what would One consider big? - 3/15/2007 9:59:50 AM   
Unrepentant1


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Status: offline 		Try a butt Navigator, I have one its about 18 inches long and goes from thick butt plug size at the top to thicker than the wrist at the bottom. I have taken two thirds so far and waiting for a Mistress to take me the rest, lol. A Domme's face would light up if she saw it, lol.

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RE: Strapon size - what would One consider big? - 3/15/2007 1:43:17 PM   
malloves69


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Status: offline 		hey un where did you get that if i can ask ? sounds like something i would be interested in getting ..smile ...i can take a 12 in strapon so far plus my mistresses fist just past her wrist ...call me crazy but i think it does feel good having her inside of me that way ..great way to submit to a lady and her desires ..smile ..i trust her completely

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RE: Strapon size - what would One consider big? - 3/15/2007 9:06:43 PM   
MzMia


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Status: offline 		18 inches is big

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RE: Strapon size - what would One consider big? - 3/15/2007 9:14:03 PM   
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Status: offline 		iv taken 9 inches and i thout that was big seing everyone talk about 12 inches and 18 omg

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RE: Strapon size - what would One consider big? - 3/16/2007 2:49:35 AM   
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hey un where did you get that if i can ask ? sounds like something i would be interested in getting ..smile ...i can take a 12 in strapon so far plus my mistresses fist just past her wrist ...call me crazy but i think it does feel good having her inside of me that way ..great way to submit to a lady and her desires ..smile ..i trust her completely


I bought it from the local Nice 'n' Naughty shop, could not believe my eyes when I saw it, I just had to have it! That said, only took about 12 inches of it so far, sure a Domme could get it all in mind you.

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RE: Strapon size - what would One consider big? - 3/16/2007 10:04:12 AM   
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RE: Strapon size - what would One consider big? - 3/16/2007 12:58:48 PM   
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Status: offline 		http://www.feeldoe.com/  try it my friend swears by it.

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RE: Strapon size - what would One consider big? - 3/16/2007 1:00:24 PM   
bigbonedbeauty


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Status: offline 		OMG I LOVE those!! they are amazing. *shiver* Happy Thoughts Happy Thoughts! :-)

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RE: Strapon size - what would One consider big? - 3/16/2007 1:02:22 PM   
farglebargle


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Status: offline 		I'm not an official pervert or anything, but as I understand it, these guys have stretching toys.

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RE: Strapon size - what would One consider big? - 3/16/2007 1:08:47 PM   
malloves69


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Status: offline 		thanks beach mistress ...i have got to get me one of those ..smile ...wonder how much of that i could take ? talk about kodak moments with my mistress slowly feeding my ass with that ..i would definitely would like pics smile ...after she uses that on me bet i could take more of her fist and arm ...open me up lady my ass surrenders to you as you cum inside of me ..smile ...also would have to take at least a couple of enemas to make sure you are nice and clean ...sounds like a colonics session to me ..love a lady in control ..mal ..wonder if that would be painfull also after a certian point ? better buy alot of lube too ..when she fists me she uses crisco ...talk about baking cookies ehh ? smile

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RE: Strapon size - what would One consider big? - 3/17/2007 7:41:00 AM   
TexasMaam


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Status: offline 		Well, leave it to Me to point out the obvious.

Forcing 18 inch dongs three inches or more in diameter up a fellow's bum does 3 things to a man:
  • Either renders him speechless for a bit, or cause him to howl out loud. Not a bad thing.
  • Risks tearing the epithelial lining of his colon causing septicemia or risks injury to the prostate.
  • Leaves his sphincter so stretched that he will habitually leave skidmarks on his underwear, since he'll be too stretched to hold his own feces effectively.


My response to which is generally 'ewwwwwwwwwwwwww!'.

Ergo,  9 inches, 2 1/4 in diameter should really be enough, 10 inches same diameter is getting rather large, and 11 inches 2 1/2 in diameter is the most I'll ever use.

If that's not enough, a fellow will have to find a much nastier SomeOne than I am to play with: I refuse toilet duty and skidmark laundry duty.

I prefer finesse and a squeaky clean bottom at all times.  And when I rip off or cut off a man's boxers, briefs, thong or jock cup, the damn thing had better be clean.  Wet with precum, yes, but otherwise, squeaky clean.

I just took a sub shopping for anal toys this week and found the Aneros ?? sp??, an intriguigingly tortuous device, less than five inches long and a half an inch in diameter.  Even the whore butt puppies at the fetish store cringed as I picked it out.  We certianly saw a great many fire hydrant sized anal dongs but I believe I'll pass in favor of the Aneros.  Finesse.  All about finesse.

Thanks ever so for the post.

TexasMaam

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RE: Strapon size - what would One consider big? - 3/17/2007 4:19:34 PM   
BeachMystress


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ORIGINAL: Phoenix2raven

http://www.feeldoe.com/  try it my friend swears by it.

I have friends who like the Nexus also. Please note that both the Feeldoe and the Nexus both work best with a harness, no matter what they claim.

I've not tried it yet, but this looks like more fun than even the feeldoe!
Triple Play Dildo
 


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RE: Strapon size - what would One consider big? - 3/17/2007 4:42:35 PM   
Unrepentant1


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ORIGINAL: TexasMaam

Well, leave it to Me to point out the obvious.

Forcing 18 inch dongs three inches or more in diameter up a fellow's bum does 3 things to a man:
  • Either renders him speechless for a bit, or cause him to howl out loud. Not a bad thing.
  • Risks tearing the epithelial lining of his colon causing septicemia or risks injury to the prostate.
  • Leaves his sphincter so stretched that he will habitually leave skidmarks on his underwear, since he'll be too stretched to hold his own feces effectively.



My response to which is generally 'ewwwwwwwwwwwwww!'.

Ergo,  9 inches, 2 1/4 in diameter should really be enough, 10 inches same diameter is getting rather large, and 11 inches 2 1/2 in diameter is the most I'll ever use.

If that's not enough, a fellow will have to find a much nastier SomeOne than I am to play with: I refuse toilet duty and skidmark laundry duty.

I prefer finesse and a squeaky clean bottom at all times.  And when I rip off or cut off a man's boxers, briefs, thong or jock cup, the damn thing had better be clean.  Wet with precum, yes, but otherwise, squeaky clean.

I just took a sub shopping for anal toys this week and found the Aneros ?? sp??, an intriguigingly tortuous device, less than five inches long and a half an inch in diameter.  Even the whore butt puppies at the fetish store cringed as I picked it out.  We certianly saw a great many fire hydrant sized anal dongs but I believe I'll pass in favor of the Aneros.  Finesse.  All about finesse.

Thanks ever so for the post.

TexasMaam


Sounds good to me!

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RE: Strapon size - what would One consider big? - 3/18/2007 1:45:00 AM   
cloudboy


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finesse


and subtlety are the ultimate arts.

The flip side is the well hung male who doesn't know how to fuck, thinking that banging away is all there is to it.

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RE: Strapon size - what would One consider big? - 3/18/2007 1:48:13 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MzMia

18 inches is big

That would pierce someone's heart.


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RE: Strapon size - what would One consider big? - 3/18/2007 1:49:32 AM   
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ORIGINAL: BeachMystress

Take anything on thie page and I'll be impressed. Well, other than the baby boa... http://www.mr-s-leather.com/cgi-bin/mr-s/D516.html

That reminds Me I need to have the basement drain snaked out.

Do they have these attach to hoses?


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RE: Strapon size - what would One consider big? - 3/18/2007 1:53:59 AM   
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RE: Strapon size - what would One consider big? - 3/18/2007 5:03:34 AM   
Elorin


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ORIGINAL: BeachMystress
I've not tried it yet, but this looks like more fun than even the feeldoe!
Triple Play Dildo

I have that toy. ~grins~ Though I've never gotten to use it with another lovely lady, I look forward to my chance.

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RE: Strapon size - what would One consider big? - 3/18/2007 5:12:11 AM   
Elorin


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Status: offline 		I have a variety of dildos and honestly, what a guy takes depends on his experience.

I'm very happy with the Tantus Silk series...I have them in small, medium, and large. They are smooth and a good way to introduce someone to anal play.
I have a couple of dildos that I like to play with (on my self) that if someone went from anal virgin to taking those toys, I'd be impressed.

Of course, the ones that would really impress are these:
Great American Challenge - http://www.sediva.com/10007.html (It also comes in a vibrator)
The Fist - http://www.extremerestraints.com/the-fist_12.html
Really any of these: http://www.extremerestraints.com/dildos-and-insertables_180/huge-dildos_186/

And despite the risks that were previously posted, while you certainly take those risks in taking larger and larger toys, if you go slow and let your body acclimate, you will find that the sphincter has amazing elasticity. My collared boy worked his way up, one toy at a time. He would purchase a new toy when he was visiting in person, and we would name it. Then I would tell him - 10 minutes with X dildo, 10 minutes with Y dildo, etc. And as he got each new toy he would simply try it and when it got painful, pull back just a bit then sit and let his body relax around hit. He was eventually able to take my fist, and he has no problems with his anal health. Patience is the key.

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