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MzMia -> RE: What "type" of submissive's approach you on here, that turn you OFF? (3/21/2007 10:02:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MistressDolly quote: ORIGINAL: MzMia quote: ORIGINAL: MissLadyKier I've been contacted by primarily (mostly, but not all)... People looking for FWB aka Five Minute Friends, the Hi Im Married But Please Dont Tell My Wife and Hello Im the King of One Liners. Truly wish those types wouldn't waste O/our time :P None of us is a perfect being.. yes.. some look like Barbie and Ken and some of us look more like Homer Simpson.. But just because the outside of the eggshell is pretty doesn't mean that the bird inside of it is alive, if that makes any sense. Those who think they are THE best.. just disgusts Me. Okay.. Feel free to insert some good and nasty comments below :) I love reading all the responses here, {{{Group Hugs}}} Things can only get better!!![sm=mrpuffy.gif] What a cute woman you are :) Aww you are just as sweet as you are lovely!

BossyShoeBitch -> RE: What "type" of submissive's approach you on here, that turn you OFF? (3/21/2007 10:18:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact First and foremost, those that imply any type of disrespect. This includes, but is not limited to, not knowing their place. Those who do not do any research (such as reading My profile, or at least a few posts of Mine on the board) to know what type of Mistress I am. Those who expect Me to just run out and provide My personal IM information. Oh, and let's not forget those who send cock pics. Ugh! I got a cock pic tonight. What the heck? Do they think a(n) (unsolicited) picture of their boner is going to moisten our g-strings?

MsRose -> RE: What "type" of submissive's approach you on here, that turn you OFF? (3/22/2007 12:10:33 AM)
Only if you share it with the class. kidding.

GoddessKai -> RE: What "type" of submissive's approach you on here, that turn you OFF? (3/22/2007 4:08:11 AM)
I've been asked if I wanted cock pictures on a semi-regular basis. My response to that is this: You don't have anything I haven't seen before.. and if you do, I'll shoot it. ;)

MzMia -> RE: What "type" of submissive's approach you on here, that turn you OFF? (3/22/2007 9:18:39 PM)
Not sure if this has been mentioned yet, but how about the MANY and I do mean MANY subs on here, that are begging for forced bisexual activity or to be crossdressed? I run from this. Please, please force me! Ma'am force me I beg you!

LadyIce -> RE: What "type" of submissive's approach you on here, that turn you OFF? (3/23/2007 4:43:47 AM)
I think I have encountered about 90% of all the responses posted here.

TigressFL -> RE: What "type" of submissive's approach you on here, that turn you OFF? (3/23/2007 8:32:21 AM)
[:@] The ones that email me and say they are.... [:@][:@]"On their knees before me" [:@][:@]"Write to me in third person (This one... this boy... etc.) or use U/us, Y/you typing" [:@][:@] "Think they are a "GIFT" that I should "Cherish" instead of part of a symbiotic relationship and chosen way of life" [:@][:@]"The ones that are really looking for a "Service Top" but confuse it with submission" [:@][:@]"The ones that say they want to be mine before they have even spoken to me - What idiots!!!" [:@][:@]"Ones that do not read my profile" Those are a few of my top ones but others here have said many that are also on my list lolol Tigress~FL

xLadyScarlettx -> RE: What "type" of submissive's approach you on here, that turn you OFF? (3/23/2007 8:40:15 AM)
Subs who ask me if I will help them finish off...with my mouth, or on my tits.

MzMia -> RE: What "type" of submissive's approach you on here, that turn you OFF? (3/23/2007 6:50:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TigressFL [:@] The ones that email me and say they are.... [:@][:@]"On their knees before me" [:@][:@]"Write to me in third person (This one... this boy... etc.) or use U/us, Y/you typing" [:@][:@] "Think they are a "GIFT" that I should "Cherish" instead of part of a symbiotic relationship and chosen way of life" [:@][:@]"The ones that are really looking for a "Service Top" but confuse it with submission" [:@][:@]"The ones that say they want to be mine before they have even spoken to me - What idiots!!!" [:@][:@]"Ones that do not read my profile" Those are a few of my top ones but others here have said many that are also on my list lolol Tigress~FL LOL! Thanks we missed a few of these!

MzMia -> RE: What "type" of submissive's approach you on here, that turn you OFF? (3/23/2007 6:51:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: xLadyScarlettx Subs who ask me if I will help them finish off...with my mouth, or on my tits. Oh the humanity!

Jeniluscious -> RE: What "type" of submissive's approach you on here, that turn you OFF? (3/23/2007 7:48:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RWAble Sometimes they hide in that forest. They never write a Lady. They sit quietly, waiting. wondering. Never knowing for sure if what they feel is real. They don't come out of the forest often. Sometimes you have to come after them. Good Luck. Good god, why would you WANT to? Sounds like a bloody f'ing bore to me. If YOU don't know if what you feel is real, I'm damned if I'm going to waste my time on you. That thought is simply ridiculous. Or were you being flowery and ... cough something? Forest? Surely this is a joke?

LadyZee -> RE: What "type" of submissive's approach you on here, that turn you OFF? (3/23/2007 10:48:01 PM)
My new favorite is along the lines of "I've had some experience with Pro Dommes, but I can't really afford that on an ongoing basis", with the expectation that I'll respond "welcome to McMistress". That said, I've met some interesting submissives via CM and believe that, just as in vanilla relationships, when the connection is right it is worth the wait (and weeding).

Tantriqu -> RE: What "type" of submissive's approach you on here, that turn you OFF? (3/24/2007 7:54:52 PM)
My [least] favourites, which I choose to be amused by: [and I can see I'm not the only One to get a LOT of these]: 1. 'i am intelligint and well-red, just like u like' 2. I don't reply instantly, then they flame Me with cuss words: buh-bye! 3. 'i was a Dom but i need to be Your sub' [then they proceed to tell Me what I will wear to fulfill their fantasies] 4. cock shots/pics of their vehicles [what the...???] but the one that makes Me lMAo just before I hit the 'block sender' button: 5. 'i'm not TV or bi- . . . I just like to dress like a female hooker and suck cock'

MzMia -> RE: What "type" of submissive's approach you on here, that turn you OFF? (3/25/2007 6:41:40 PM)
5. 'i'm not TV or bi- . . . I just like to dress like a female hooker and suck cock' You forgot to add, that they want to also be "forced bi"!

MistressMoirae -> RE: What "type" of submissive's approach you on here, that turn you OFF? (3/25/2007 7:00:55 PM)
The biggest issue is those that clearly did not read your profile, because you make it known on your profile the information you would like to know about them. I expect if I have a detailed profile, that they will be courteous and give a detailed introduction. If they do not, it is their loss. Still, some of them you just want to beat senseless.[sm=crop.gif]

MysticFireTopaz -> RE: What "type" of submissive's approach you on here, that turn you OFF? (3/25/2007 7:24:47 PM)
Got one this weekend from a sub who both lives outside the United States and is married. I clearly state in my profile that I'm not interested in either, but that didn't deter him, since he feels we're so perfect for each other and after all, he is "discussing" divorce with his wife. He gave me a full 15 minutes to reply to his message, then sent another very indignant message chastising me for not getting back to him--at which point the block button was invoked. Noticed today that the profile had been deleted. What a pity--NOT. Lady Topaz

MySweetSubmssive -> RE: What "type" of submissive's approach you on here, that turn you OFF? (3/25/2007 7:34:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MistressMoirae Still, some of them you just want to beat senseless.[sm=crop.gif] laughing I was getting to know a submissive, and after a few conversations (and a meeting), found out that not only did he have a girlfriend, but that he lived with her (something I clearly say I'm not interested in). I was torqued, and proceeded to say a number of angry things and called him a few choice names. At the end of it, he thanked me. Right, of course, he was a masochist! Now when I get unhappy about someone's behavior and am not interested, I get very friendly, polite and 'non-Domme.' MSS

MzMia -> RE: What "type" of submissive's approach you on here, that turn you OFF? (3/25/2007 8:13:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MySweetSubmssive quote: ORIGINAL: MistressMoirae Still, some of them you just want to beat senseless.[sm=crop.gif] laughing I was getting to know a submissive, and after a few conversations (and a meeting), found out that not only did he have a girlfriend, but that he lived with her (something I clearly say I'm not interested in). I was torqued, and proceeded to say a number of angry things and called him a few choice names. At the end of it, he thanked me. Right, of course, he was a masochist! Now when I get unhappy about someone's behavior and am not interested, I get very friendly, polite and 'non-Domme.' MSS I have noticed a lot of men seem to feel that it is "okay" to have a wife or girlfriend AND a Mistress. It is as if, most of us don't want or need a committed relationship. Don't we just live to dominate men? Why would we care if they are single or not? LOL

MuscleyandCute -> RE: What "type" of submissive's approach you on here, that turn you OFF? (3/26/2007 10:19:52 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MysticFireTopaz quote: ORIGINAL: MzMia What type of submissive's approach you on CM, that turn you off? Make you want to run for the hills or get out of this lifestyle, ladies? I mean what are the behaviors that just irritate you? I had one demand in his initial e-mail that I get on cam to prove that I was real, because he had been "burned by so many phonies on Collarme." My reply? "Get lost!" I have read most of this thread and its interesting, I agree with the issues many of the Dommes have here with subs who really seem to be a waste of time. Ive just quoted the above comment as thats something I would like to put another perspective on then I will ad a few more comments. I have been on collarme for a good while now and experience has taught me where and how to focus my energy, I think that if someone demands in the initial email then they are probably better off being more polite about it in order to give the benefit of the doubt that you ARE genuine rather than using aggresive tone which will unfortunatly start off on a bad footing. After being here for a while now I have got to the point where I would not be interested in talking to someone unless they could instill my trust that they are who they say they are. So I would at some early stage need them to go either on cam or talk on the phone. This pre-requisite is common of all kinds of people here anyway not just male subs while of course there are sooooo very many Domme profiles that are not what they seem that it understandedly will make male subs more cautious. Earlier on MsRose commented on male subs who take rejection badly. I believe the reason for this is because those particular male subs have it rather hard off anyway thus get frustrated and feel this way. Having said that however, taking rejection badly will still not do them any favours probably the opposite. Personally I do not take rejection badly at all Im not too bothered, while I reject Dommes on occasion too as is anyones perogative no matter who they are. I have heard a lot from different Dommes about the kind of contact they get that they would rather wish they hadnt and I can naturally understand. I am now going to give a bit of advice to Dommes who are getting annoyed at the lack of good subs and crappy messages, this is a suggestion. I am aware that some may take this offensively as I am suggesting something that Dommes could do but in reality what I am about to say is an interesting point: From what I gather Dommes seldom send messages if at all. There is a direct correlation between how much an attractive prospect someone is and how much they are prepared to stick their neck out. Evidence of this would for instance be how Dommes are a more attractive prospect due to the extremely skewed numbers which is why they rarely send messages relatively. However this theory applies to anyone not just Dommes, so it applies to male subs too. Rather than get fed up with a deluge of crap in the inbox I would suggest that any Domme who believes that she has value and is genuine etc could substantially eradicate this problem by honing her inbox to have worthwhile messages by actively seeking the sub male personals and picking/choosing for themselves and sending messages. This way they can actually decide for themselves!. To some this suggestion may be seen as a threat to Dommes "Dominance", personally I think thats stupid but then again in a different perspective perhaps one could say its more a trait of dominance because the Domme is picking and choosing For herself!" who she communicates with! rather than making do with a deluge of crap messages and hoping some of them will be decent. For example when I on the odd occasion browse the male subs personals out of interest I can certainly distinguish for myself between the silly ones and the ones that I think would be a nice guy to know and are worthy.

MuscleyandCute -> RE: What "type" of submissive's approach you on here, that turn you OFF? (3/26/2007 10:36:13 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BossyShoeBitch quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact First and foremost, those that imply any type of disrespect. This includes, but is not limited to, not knowing their place. Those who do not do any research (such as reading My profile, or at least a few posts of Mine on the board) to know what type of Mistress I am. Those who expect Me to just run out and provide My personal IM information. Oh, and let's not forget those who send cock pics. Ugh! I got a cock pic tonight. What the heck? Do they think a(n) (unsolicited) picture of their boner is going to moisten our g-strings? That in my opinion is because the sub might be thinking more about himself in that he wants to get kicks like that. Personally I would never want to talk the the equivalent like a female who sent me a pic of her pussy, totally pointless lol. I would also just like to point out that your profile is more evidence as to what I said on another thread about the kinds of Dommes on collarme. I did mention that there seem to be a lot more seemingly good ones like yourself in the USA part of this site who seem to be looking for someone like me while in the UK it seems to be that there are hardly any decent ones! I think the American subs have it better lol! If only I lived over there I think I woud have had more success by now, oh well! lol

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