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Texy -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/19/2007 2:58:20 PM)
Darn, now I'm sitting here wishing I were as cute and current as curiouslyseeking! [:)] I'm just here, I swear I got an invite somewhere.......

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/19/2007 3:09:07 PM)
quote: Why are you here? to meet people within this alternative lifestyle and learn, share opinions and experiences ...possibly find someone in lifestyle for a ltr with similar interests and tastes. quote: How many of you are just here to find someone to fuck. not looking for a fuck buddy ...been there and done that quote: Or, think that if you take it from behind and let someone slap your ass every now and then, that makes you a slave? submissive here and i know there's more to being a submissive than having anal sex and/or slapping my arse. not every relationship is about sex. quote: Do any of you have even the slitest of clues as to what this lifestyle is really about? i'm not Ms. Know-It-All and still consider myself a newbie in this life after 4 yrs discovering my submissive side. i have some experience but i'm not an expert. quote: I ask this because so far in all my time on this site all I've come across are smartassed little shits that are just looking for that 25 year old Dom thats hot looking and knows it all. i'll be 38yrs old next month, a bit smartassed, opinionated and radical but i'm definitely not looking for some hot young guy for a ltr. my goals are slightly different from the younger crowd ...besides i prefer older men. quote: When did the BDSM kindergarden start? ask Mod XI quote: Do you really think that some 23 year old is going to know what it takes and means to be a Dom or Master? never met a 23yr old Dom/Master

raevnn -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/19/2007 3:09:45 PM)
It's very difficult to find exactly what we're all looking for. It can cause mass amounts of frustration and frustration usually makes it much, much harder to see whatever it is we're looking for. We focus on the 'negative' and all we notice is the negative and, often, we attract more of what we don't want... as you've done with this post. I completely understand your frustration, but it wont get you anywhere. The right person for you is out there somewhere, but she might have trouble seeing you through your frustration. Take care and good luck to you!

curiouslyseeking -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/19/2007 3:10:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Texy Darn, now I'm sitting here wishing I were as cute and current as curiouslyseeking! [:)] I'm just here, I swear I got an invite somewhere....... *(Big smile)...it's in the mail....* *Remember to RSVP...*

Squeakers -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/19/2007 3:29:43 PM)
I am submissive and state it so in my profile. I am not here seeking anything other than the forums. Since I have a partner, I am not looking to get laid, but if I were, it may be preferable for me to have a 23 year old, than an older 'experienced' Dom who drips arrogance.

happypervert -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/19/2007 3:35:05 PM)
I would like to thank whipofdoom for his thought provoking post; it did a great job of provoking thoughts of a zillion ways to have some fun with it. Things had seemed a bit slow around here lately, so it was great to see an intellectual masochist step up for a beating.

curiouslyseeking -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/19/2007 3:52:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: happypervert I would like to thank whipofdoom for his thought provoking post; it did a great job of provoking thoughts of a zillion ways to have some fun with it. Things had seemed a bit slow around here lately, so it was great to see an intellectual masochist step up for a beating. *FUN?!?!?!?!!?...... You cant have fun and be a slave!* *And you can't be in control unless you are an "Archie Bunker" Dom...* *Crack a smile....crack a whip, I always heard!....Let's be serious you all! [>:]* *smiling at happypervert [;)]...how's that?*

AquaticSub -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/19/2007 4:01:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: whipofdoom OK, this is just a simple question to all of the people who say that they are "slaves or submissives". Why are you here? How many of you are just here to find someone to fuck. Or, think that if you take it from behind and let someone slap your ass every now and then, that makes you a slave? Do any of you have even the slitest of clues as to what this lifestyle is really about? I ask this because so far in all my time on this site all I've come across are smartassed little shits that are just looking for that 25 year old Dom thats hot looking and knows it all. When did the BDSM kindergarden start? Do you really think that some 23 year old is going to know what it takes and means to be a Dom or Master? So be honest, if all you are looking for is a hot quick fuck just say so. I'm a completely fake vanilla girl trying to fool poor defenseless masters into my web of eternal PTA meetings, soccer meets, wedding bells and days at the country club. I'm going to accomplish this by telling him I'm on birth control when I'm really not. Shotgun wedding for the win! PS. I don't care how old you are. Age does not equal experience and in your case it certainly doesn't equal politeness. Frankly, I'd rather have an inexperienced dominant who treats other people respectfully than the most experienced one in the world who acts like you just did. At the least the lack of experience can be fixed.

AquaticSub -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/19/2007 4:05:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: viperess Greetings, i will admit to being a little taken back by the original post but at the same time can understand His fustrations. The thing that really surprised me were many of the replies to His post. i must say if i replied to a Master as some have my Master would have me to the point of not being able to sit for a week more less be allowed to post comments on here as the words of a slave reflect the Master she is owned by. Respectfully, My owner feels that I should be polite to those who deserve it. If his post had been polite, then he would have probably have gotten very different answers. I will not feign politeness to those who made no attempt at it themselves.

SimplySubmissive -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/19/2007 4:14:07 PM)
I'm here to have have contact (message boards) and discussions with others in this lifestyle. I enjoy the opinions of others, whether I agree or not. I enjoy reading about others experiences, problems that come up, and how they solve them. It's just a connection to the lifestyle for me.

BRNaughtyAngel -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/19/2007 4:19:26 PM)
I'm just here working undercover for the Department of Homeland Security ferreting out kinky people.... or maybe it was peeping in on kinky ferrets? Oh hell, I'll hafta go check the memo again........... [8\|]

AquaticSub -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/19/2007 4:22:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BRNaughtyAngel I'm just here working undercover for the Department of Homeland Security ferreting out kinky people.... or maybe it was peeping in on kinky ferrets? Oh hell, I'll hafta go check the memo again........... [8\|] I just want to say that your post made me go "Squee!"

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/19/2007 4:27:23 PM)
shhhhhhhh - OP wasn't suppose to know that piece of classified info

Quivver -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/19/2007 4:30:20 PM)
Why are you here? Cause I can be. How many of you are just here to find someone to fuck. For the love of..... Hell no, the majority of us know a Fuck is easy enough found around the corner! Or, think that if you take it from behind and let someone slap your ass every now and then, that makes you a slave? I've never called myself a Slave. Guess I ought to stop getting my Ass Slapped or I might become one! Do any of you have even the slitest of clues as to what this lifestyle is really about? I know what it is for me.... When did the BDSM kindergarden start? Well it sure is clear your Pissed off you missed the first day. Do you really think that some 23 year old is going to know what it takes and means to be a Dom or Master? In all honesty, from your post I think the number that have you beat are quite great. So be honest, if all you are looking for is a hot quick fuck just say so. I assume those who answer that they are looking for a hot quick fuck will be getting a note from you? Sheesh, I feel alot better now! Thanks for playing Whipping boy!

boundkitty -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/19/2007 4:31:21 PM)
Everyone's replies just made my day. You have to have a sense of humor on here or you'd go nuts and get bitter (like a certain person). boundkitty

MistressDiane -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/19/2007 4:35:48 PM)
I'm here for the great wanking material..........

BRNaughtyAngel -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/19/2007 4:39:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub quote: ORIGINAL: BRNaughtyAngel I'm just here working undercover for the Department of Homeland Security ferreting out kinky people.... or maybe it was peeping in on kinky ferrets? Oh hell, I'll hafta go check the memo again........... [8\|] I just want to say that your post made me go "Squee!" [sm=lol.gif] You will need to send me your name, address, date of birth and all other pertinent information so I can add you to my database. [;)]

Rons007 -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/19/2007 4:39:59 PM)
I am here to expand my household, to two slaves. I have had the one for 7 years and live this lifestyle daily. It's time to expand, it has been along road and I hope to find a slave who is as dedicated and as serious as the first one. I have been blessed.

daddysliloneds -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/19/2007 4:43:18 PM)
i'm looking for a good fuck combined with caning/croppings/whippings/verbal humiliation/ bondage/etc., etc. i claim to be a bottom for fun; though i am submissive to the right person, and i've been in the lifestyle for longer than is legal to list on these boards. i am not looking for some kid, or a little hanky-spank-me, but i am looking for someone who takes good care of their physical appearance, has a high self-esteem(not a narcissist), has experience as a sadistic top; and if i had my way, i'd find a wonderful dominant man and/or couple to spend years to come with in a tpe relationship. one thing i know for sure is: i'm not looking for someone who whines about not being the one everyone is after, points accusatory fingers at those who aren't as experienced as them as being in bdsm kindergarden, who appears to be jealous of the young and good looking hunks, and then comes to the forums because he can't seem to get any, or only to complain!

lilsubl -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/19/2007 4:57:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: whipofdoom 25 year old Dom thats hot looking and knows it all. When did the BDSM kindergarden start? Do you really think that some 23 year old is going to know what it takes and means to be a Dom or Master? i would just like to take this opportunity to point out that your profile states you are 46 & have been doing this for 20 years, which would mean that you were MUCH older than that when you started.....

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