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BRNaughtyAngel -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/21/2007 9:56:22 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub quote: ORIGINAL: BRNaughtyAngel NOW you went and did it!! It's against federal laws to make the fine print large enough to read! Aaaoooooooooooo you're gonna get in trouble, you're gonna get in trouble! [;)] Is that worse then ripping the tags off mattresses? Tag Ripping Violations are not my department ma'am. You'll need to contact them for further clarification. [8\|]

MasterNdorei -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/21/2007 2:20:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: whipofdoom quote: ORIGINAL: MasterNdorei WhipofDoom wrote:At this point I have six other girls that sub for me. They range in age from 21 to 44, and at no time have I ever tried to "get into their pants". And the one girl that I do have sex with, really isn't my sub. Really? You are pretty cranky for man with all that action. I'm not cranky...Well,OK sometimes I am. This was to see what kind of replies I'd get back. If you were getting all the action you are claiming, i doubt any wannebes online would be an issue for you. i also doubt you'd be fishing for replies, and certainly not with such lousy bait. Color me silly, but it smells like bullshit to me. Master's dorei

whipofdoom -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/21/2007 2:59:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub quote: ORIGINAL: whipofdoom Maybe, but I would not have gotten the emotional responses that I was looking for. Anyway just think of all the fun we would have missed. grins I wouldn't call snarky emotional. You mean snarky isn't an emotion.....Damn, then this was all for nothing.

whipofdoom -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/21/2007 3:09:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterNdorei quote: ORIGINAL: whipofdoom quote: ORIGINAL: MasterNdorei WhipofDoom wrote:At this point I have six other girls that sub for me. They range in age from 21 to 44, and at no time have I ever tried to "get into their pants". And the one girl that I do have sex with, really isn't my sub. Really? You are pretty cranky for man with all that action. I'm not cranky...Well,OK sometimes I am. This was to see what kind of replies I'd get back. If you were getting all the action you are claiming, i doubt any wannebes online would be an issue for you. i also doubt you'd be fishing for replies, and certainly not with such lousy bait. Color me silly, but it smells like bullshit to me. Master's dorei The bait wasn't that lousy, you answerd

daddysliloneds -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/21/2007 4:16:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: whipofdoom As to all those who questioned my background, here it is in brief. I've been in the scene for over 20 years and I know that some of you won't beleave this but am a well known and well respected member of my local BDSM community i knew there was a reason why i didn't try to be a part of the 'whole bdsm community' crap! explain yourself all you like; try to make it look as though your initial o.p. wasn't a whine; you may actually convince some of the people. the only thing you've convinced me of is that you're nothing more than a passive/aggressive little boy in a big mans clothing!well known i'd believe, well respected, i doubt it! you may possess some set of skills that people admire as a top, but you don't even possess what it takes to be in the category of 'a man' in my world, let alone a dominant/master!

ScreamerGirl -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/21/2007 5:25:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: whipofdoom I ask this because so far in all my time on this site all I've come across are smartassed little shits that are just looking for that 25 year old Dom thats hot looking and knows it all. Oh, hey. If you find the hot 25 year old dom that knows it all would you do me a favor and give him my name please? Thanks in advance,

whipofdoom -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/22/2007 9:00:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: daddysliloneds quote: ORIGINAL: whipofdoom As to all those who questioned my background, here it is in brief. I've been in the scene for over 20 years and I know that some of you won't beleave this but am a well known and well respected member of my local BDSM community i knew there was a reason why i didn't try to be a part of the 'whole bdsm community' crap! explain yourself all you like; try to make it look as though your initial o.p. wasn't a whine; you may actually convince some of the people. the only thing you've convinced me of is that you're nothing more than a passive/aggressive little boy in a big mans clothing!well known i'd believe, well respected, i doubt it! you may possess some set of skills that people admire as a top, but you don't even possess what it takes to be in the category of 'a man' in my world, let alone a dominant/master! Throughout this whole string I have been polite to every single person that I have addressed. Even those who have been critical of my original post. I have explained my reasons, and my position. I have tried to keep this away from becoming a series of person attacks. Yet it seems that some people can not leave well enough alone. I usually refuse to lower myself to that level, but it seem that you can not raise above it. So here we go. As far as not wanting to be part of the BDSM community, then I ask again. Why are you here? You are the exact kind of person my post was meant for. Thank you for proving my point. As for being a "man" in your world. I've been to Texas. I have no desire to be a no toothed red neck bohunk, in overalls, a John Deer ball cap, and a "I love George Bush" tee shirt. As for your other opinions, I really don't care what a Texas dive bar fly has to say. With that out of the way let me just say, Good luck in your search, and have a nice day.

Aileen68 -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/22/2007 9:13:08 AM)
Truthfully, I find hot 25 year old doms to be...HOT! I relate more to men younger than me. And it's an incredible turn on. I've also found that there isn't any real correlation of age to maturity. I've spoken to just as many older idiots as I have to younger, intelligent men. I've also found that older men tend to fall into that romantic, daddy dom category which I find to be a turn off. The younger ones that I've talked to are more edgy and aggressive, which I like.

wyldsubmissive -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/22/2007 9:19:40 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: whipofdoom Do you really think that some 23 year old is going to know what it takes and means to be a Dom or Master? So be honest, if all you are looking for is a hot quick fuck just say so. I'm not a slave, but I do have an opinion on this particular question and that is thus: No, some irregardless of gender cannot be a Dom at the tender age of 23. They can have a dominant personality, and the idea that they are dominant but I don't believe one has enough experience to qualify as what most slaves* deem a dom. *grossly over estimated amount is 1 x 5^infiinity

StellaByStarlite -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/22/2007 9:50:19 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: whipofdoom quote: ORIGINAL: daddysliloneds quote: ORIGINAL: whipofdoom Throughout this whole string I have been polite to every single person that I have addressed. Even those who have been critical of my original post. I have explained my reasons, and my position. I have tried to keep this away from becoming a series of person attacks. Yet it seems that some people can not leave well enough alone. I usually refuse to lower myself to that level, but it seem that you can not raise above it. So here we go. As far as not wanting to be part of the BDSM community, then I ask again. Why are you here? You are the exact kind of person my post was meant for. Thank you for proving my point. As for being a "man" in your world. I've been to Texas. I have no desire to be a no toothed red neck bohunk, in overalls, a John Deer ball cap, and a "I love George Bush" tee shirt. As for your other opinions, I really don't care what a Texas dive bar fly has to say. With that out of the way let me just say, Good luck in your search, and have a nice day. Hey, whip. =) Yeah, your OP was a little on the rude side, but you apologized for it afterward and owned up to it. Unfortunately, in the screwy world of message boards, that's just not enough for some people, lol. Who the hell knows why.. but shit like this is pretty common in every board I've frequented. The defense and attack threads always seem to be the most drawn out ones. My advice? Keep well away from the snarkies and stick to the posters that seem genuinely cool. Just ignore 'em.. you're fighting a losing battle as far as this is concerned. You made a first posting mistake, but so what? It's been done before, and no doubt some another poor unlucky SOB will do it again next week, thus starting a whole brand-new confrontation. Don't worry, you'll be past news by then, lol. After all... at the end of the day, you shut your computer off and hopefully don't give what goes on here too much thought. =) I know I don't! But there ARE nice people in here... don't sweat it. You're okay in my book. =) Stella

desertdancer -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/22/2007 10:19:52 AM)
Why am I here? 'Cause I can't sleep, I'm tired but I can't sleep. I take sleepin' pills but still no sleep. So I'm just drugged and sleepless, that's why I'm here right now...and why my typing is so bad.. What brought me here to Cm? Cause I thought I was a freak, I didn't understand all the feelings and cravings I had. I didn't understand that there were others out there with the same feelings and cravings untill I stumbled onto Cm. So, I came to learn, and once I started learning, I started feeling better in my own skin. SO now I'm still here to learn, but also have a few laughs with friends I've made. As for hot young 25 year old doms.. well a hot guy is a hot guy no matter his age, isn't he? A bloke could be 50 but if he's hot he's hot. My Master happens to be younger then me, that's not how I planned it, as I met him randomly playing an on-line game. Is he hot? Oh yes, he's feckin' yummy, but he'll be yummily hot at age 50 too, I think. Look there will always be players and always be people who are sincere, and there will be some that want it from behind as you say, which btw, I think doin' it from behind is fun. So that's why I'm here. ~dancer

lateralist1 -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/22/2007 10:38:18 AM)
I so empathise with what you are saying. How could you possibly be submissive to someone who you didn't think was hot. And yes age doesn't mean a thing it's just a number. I'm looking for a sub/slave who I think is hot. It's not about looks. It's about much more than that. I want him to think I'm hot too. Why on earth would we want to do the most intimate things with someone who we didn't think was hot? It isn't just about lust. Lust or attraction can be very transitory. We wouldn't be human if we didn't want a relationships to last. Of course we accept that sometimes they don't no matter how hard we try.

FelinePersuasion -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/22/2007 1:02:54 PM)
Why, yes that does sound fun. My Dominant is always pointing out I am a Sammy, or being a Sam, he thinks it's cute when I get myself into playful situations that w/ill get my ass smacked:) quote: ORIGINAL: bayboundse hmmm ..... smart ass slaves who like to have their ass slapped...SOUNDS LIKE FUN!!

FelinePersuasion -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/22/2007 1:16:43 PM)
Not every one who replied on here are slaves. Nor is every one under the same directions as you may be:) : quote: ORIGINAL: viperess Greetings, i will admit to being a little taken back by the original post but at the same time can understand His fustrations. The thing that really surprised me were many of the replies to His post. i must say if i replied to a Master as some have my Master would have me to the point of not being able to sit for a week more less be allowed to post comments on here as the words of a slave reflect the Master she is owned by. Respectfully,

slaveish -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/22/2007 1:16:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: whipofdoom quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen68 Hey...I have no clue why you're sill looking. I just love doms that use shit, prick and crap in their profile. I don't know why either. And, if you like what I use in my profile you should see the things I use in a scene. ~chuckle chuckle chuckle chuckle~ Aaaaaaaaaaccccccccccccckkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk.

Mustardseed -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/22/2007 10:00:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Darkspoiler Why I am here is to seek a real Submissive, most that i have found here are fake as the day is long. They all bich about the oneliners in thier mail and when you send them a well thought multi sentence most times complimentary note, Would it be to much to ask for at leest a reply....Even if it is just one word. Real life ,real time I am a sadistfirst and Dom second If you're not meeting their search criteria and they have their mail filtering turned on, then your message is probably going in their Bulk Mail folder. There are no "hey! you have new mail!" announcements for messages that go into that folder. Submissives who get a lot of mail that passes their automatic filtering system probably don't even think to check the folder full of mail that doesn't make the cut. Either that, or they keep saving it for a time when they've caught up with the mail that does. It's entirely possible that CollarMe's own service could be keeping you from getting "No, thank you" responses, if the people you're contacting are choosing to use it that way.

FukinTroll -> RE: Why are you here, and what are you really looking for. (3/22/2007 10:29:13 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: whipofdoom quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen68 Hey...I have no clue why you're sill looking. I just love doms that use shit, prick and crap in their profile. I don't know why either. And, if you like what I use in my profile you should see the things I use in a scene. I am a lil afraid it might be the same stuff Aileen pointed out.

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