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RE: The Other Side of Money - No, Not About The Evil Mo... - 4/11/2005 11:56:55 AM

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Interestingly enough I have just had this happen to me. Someone was claiming to be a millionaire, and requiring a Mistress. He declared that he would never pay for a Dominant as that would render them less dominant in his eyes. However he used to write long emails with reference to all the things he like. Call me and say Mistress this and that., and expect telephone domination. He was however not in a position to actually offer anything.

This is the thing with some men and their money... He holds on tight to it because it gives him the edge, and wants to use it to control you...
I think it's extremely important a woman is self sufficient when she runs into this type of guy. In my view one is either submissive or not, money or lack thereof not withstanding.
I think there are a lot of men who like to play bottom, and call selves submissive; my thought on that is find a top who doesn't care about your desire to control her or go to a pro. I could be wrong though, lol. M

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RE: The Other Side of Money - No, Not About The Evil Mo... - 4/13/2005 6:54:29 PM

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He was however not in a position to actually offer anything

Doesnt BDSM involve both people getting their needs met? Sounds to me like
this was a classic example of a do-me sub thinking you are a life support system
for a single tail.

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RE: The Other Side of Money - No, Not About The Evil Mo... - 4/13/2005 7:14:39 PM

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ORIGINAL: Sinergy
Doesnt BDSM involve both people getting their needs met? Sounds to me like
this was a classic example of a do-me sub thinking you are a life support system for a single tail.Sinergy

Agree completely... For those types I thank God we have Pros in the scene. M

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RE: The Other Side of Money - No, Not About The Evil Mo... - 4/13/2005 8:33:51 PM

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i think financial domme is spelled WIFE. other than that it' s just bdsm prostitution. and should'nt be allowed gratis.

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RE: The Other Side of Money - No, Not About The Evil Mo... - 4/13/2005 9:06:10 PM

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ORIGINAL: lechat
i think financial domme is spelled WIFE. other than that it' s just bdsm prostitution. and should'nt be allowed gratis.

Oh, I'm sure all Professional/financial Dominas will run off and cry now because you deem them prostitutes.
FYI: Gratis=free, and I agree domination shouldn't be done for free/as a favor, unless it suits all parties' needs/desires.

I agree that a man with a wife already has a Domme, but if he can afford to pay for 2 and Domme/wife doesn't object, who am I to judge.
I think that any time a man does not have the time/devotion/willingness to put in the work of courting a lady, he should pay for her domination/play however she decides meets her needs (work/torture/money/humiliation). JMO, M

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RE: The Other Side of Money - No, Not About The Evil Mo... - 4/13/2005 9:09:35 PM

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I never mention money in a bdsm relationship. So far, I've never had to. Whenever the subject comes up, and I begin to suspect that it's a very important factor to a potential partner, that usually serves to warn me that perhaps the relationship might not be as great as I suspected.

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RE: The Other Side of Money - No, Not About The Evil Mo... - 4/13/2005 10:03:02 PM

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i know what gratis means,silly, just saying that this site should charge pro.s hell, i don't know how they're able to keep it afloat as it is. with no banners etc.

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RE: The Other Side of Money - No, Not About The Evil Mo... - 4/14/2005 4:02:54 PM

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As a former webmaster, the actual coding for a site such as this, as well as the
storage space required to maintain it, could be safely nestled on 1% of the CPU
and space needs of a modern computer and never once cause the orbital trajectory
calculations for geosynchronous satellites to have to wait.

One of these things is a really low cost operation. It is when you add the bells and
whistles and payment codes and hooks into things that the costs start to mount.

And even then the costs are minimal. Pay sites are basically a fleece-the-public
operation with minimal overhead and maximal profit.

Which is why their spaghetti code and poor performance astonish me.

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