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mnottertail -> RE: When D/s springs from vanilla -or- how long does it take? (3/22/2007 1:18:34 PM)
Bratten is kid in norwegian-------- ummmmmmmm not at all disparaging. griese unge(sp) now, would be disparaging (pig young one) FYI

StellaByStarlite -> RE: When D/s springs from vanilla -or- how long does it take? (3/22/2007 1:21:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail Bratten is kid in norwegian-------- ummmmmmmm not at all disparaging. griese unge(sp) now, would be disparaging (pig young one) FYI You mean piglet? "Eat like the little piggies do!"

mnottertail -> RE: When D/s springs from vanilla -or- how long does it take? (3/22/2007 1:56:20 PM)
Little Piggies (The Beatles) (Harrison) Have you seen the little piggies Crawling in the dirt? And for all the little piggies Life is getting worse Always having dirt to play around in Have you seen the bigger piggies In their starched white shirts? You will find the bigger piggies Stirring up the dirt Always have clean shirts to play around in In their styes with all their backing They don't care what goes on around In their eyes there's something lacking What they need's a damn good whacking Everywhere there's lots of piggies Living piggy lives You can see them out for dinner With their piggy wives Clutching forks and knives to eat their bacon one more time---- Geo. Orwell

DominaSmartass -> RE: When D/s springs from vanilla -or- how long does it take? (3/22/2007 2:40:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: StellaByStarlite quote: ORIGINAL: NControlofU BRATS?! That's a real nice way to reference your children. It sounds like you might need to rethink your attitude toward your children and work on your mothering skills before becoming so concerned about how to balance being a slave with being a stay at home mom. Sure am glad my slave doesn't call the kids "brats". [quote What an attitude for a mother to have toward her own children! Yeah, okay, cupcake. You couldn't tell I was using those terms in a non-serious way? Oh, I get it.. you're one of those winners that roam around just looking to be offended. I'd take this further, but one of my little boogerpicking devilspawn needs to be locked in the basement. Don't you HATE it when they need fed?? LOL! You think that's bad? You should hear what my mom's pet name for me is - and mine for her! We call each other "stupid bitch" with only fondness. Someone has his panties in a wad today apparently. Hope the little ass-monkeys aren't driving you too crazy today.

jauntyone -> RE: When D/s springs from vanilla -or- how long does it take? (3/22/2007 2:43:32 PM)
Greetings Domina and stella LOL, my mother used to call us infestations; and my father would call us the invading parties that could not be beaten back [:D] It's so nice to know one is well loved I wish you well melissa

twistedwillow -> RE: When D/s springs from vanilla -or- how long does it take? (3/22/2007 3:01:15 PM)
My unmentionable responds to the names 'mongrelguts' and'feral fred' [:D] twisted

StellaByStarlite -> RE: When D/s springs from vanilla -or- how long does it take? (3/22/2007 3:08:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DominaSmartass LOL! You think that's bad? You should hear what my mom's pet name for me is - and mine for her! We call each other "stupid bitch" with only fondness. Someone has his panties in a wad today apparently. Hope the little ass-monkeys aren't driving you too crazy today. Haha, no kidding. Sometimes I think parents are raising a bunch of wussies. I mean, my mother used to joke around all the TIME about selling me to the gypsies... I giggled every single time!

StellaByStarlite -> RE: When D/s springs from vanilla -or- how long does it take? (3/22/2007 3:11:56 PM)
Hey, jaunted and twisted! Those are great! LOL Another funny one is "leg tumor", lol. as much as they cost to raise nowadays, I'm tempted to call them Paycheck and Mortgage If I had any more.. I'd probably name it lithium, or Thorazine

AquaticSub -> RE: When D/s springs from vanilla -or- how long does it take? (3/22/2007 9:53:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NControlofU quote: ORIGINAL: StellaByStarlite quote: ORIGINAL: slavegirljoy i don't see any reason why a slave can't or shouldn't be a mom also and why being a mom should have any conflict in her ability to serve her Master. i always feel like a slave because that is what i am and will always be. slave joy Owned property of Master David I'm a housewife and stay at home mother right now. When the brats come home, I help them with their homework, fix the required snacks, engage in the "chore list battle of wills", start dinner.. and generally stick to my owner's most sacred command- Keep The Damned Chaos To A Minimum. BRATS?! That's a real nice way to reference your children. It sounds like you might need to rethink your attitude toward your children and work on your mothering skills before becoming so concerned about how to balance being a slave with being a stay at home mom. Sure am glad my slave doesn't call the kids "brats". quote: Thank god the weather is getting warmer and the days are getting longer, I can now throw the little buggers outside. <g> What an attitude for a mother to have toward her own children! My Mom called me a pest and tossed me outside when possible. My Dad called me mean as snake and the vulture. They also both love me beyond their own lives and have proven time and time again that they will be there for me whenever I need them. All said, if her offense as a mother is that she calls them brats... well that's pretty damn good and I'd be happy to grow up in her family.

denika -> RE: When D/s springs from vanilla -or- how long does it take? (3/23/2007 2:51:17 AM)
We started 17 years ago as slightly kinky s we were 'swingers' I really hate that cheesy term. we did not have randomn flings with strangers but long term relationships with other couples. We were, and are poly, we had a girl live with us for a while but we went our seperat ways. BDSM was never really a part of our life exept for a bit of bondage and dress up but no M/s TPE or even SM. That was until about two years ago when I acted on my intrests in BDSM and went to a play party. Poor Rob S life's never been the same since g We have, slowly started to encorperate a more D/s slant to our relationship, where as before it was strictly 50/50 on all desiscions. it is a growing process and the more time Rob spends around those he respects in the community the more comfortable he has become with his own natural dominance. I love him and am devoted to him, what ever label that is slapped upon us that one fact doesn't change. denika edited because I can't spell to save my life

StellaByStarlite -> RE: When D/s springs from vanilla -or- how long does it take? (3/23/2007 3:57:43 AM)
Hey, Aquatic. =) Above-mentioned brats might disagree with you about living in this family...they've just been informed that they have to clean the yard today. ;) But hey, fair is fair... I'll refer to myself as the Mean Rotten Mommy when they get all disgruntled. My owner is known as the Troll, lol

jauntyone -> RE: When D/s springs from vanilla -or- how long does it take? (3/23/2007 4:31:00 AM)
quote: Haha, no kidding. Sometimes I think parents are raising a bunch of wussies. I mean, my mother used to joke around all the TIME about selling me to the gypsies... I giggled every single time! greetings /giggles I can remember once asking my father where we came from...kids and all that...lol...and he told me that he picked me up off the street corner,and when he tried to take me back years later, they refused me. LMAO My sister and I got back at him one time by placing an ad in the local newspaper offering our parents for free to a good home. Someone called to tell my dad about our 'obvious problems' at home. He thought it was hilarious. I wish you well melissa (sorry for the derail of the thread, but the memories this brought back were just too good to pass up )

NControlofU -> RE: When D/s springs from vanilla -or- how long does it take? (3/23/2007 1:17:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub All said, if her offense as a mother is that she calls them brats... well that's pretty damn good and I'd be happy to grow up in her family. I hope you're right. It just sounded to me as though the underlying tone regarding her kids was on the negative end of the stick. Just wonder how her kids feel about their mom calling them brats. Maybe a lot of people grew up with that, dunno, not me and glad of it.

susie -> RE: When D/s springs from vanilla -or- how long does it take? (3/23/2007 2:51:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NControlofU quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub All said, if her offense as a mother is that she calls them brats... well that's pretty damn good and I'd be happy to grow up in her family. I hope you're right. It just sounded to me as though the underlying tone regarding her kids was on the negative end of the stick. Just wonder how her kids feel about their mom calling them brats. Maybe a lot of people grew up with that, dunno, not me and glad of it. Actually it sounded to me more like a relaxed family where a mother loves her kids. I am usually called the "spoilt brat" which is what they wanted to call the boat that we bought (the marina would not let me name it after them as they thought Bitch and Bastard might upset some people). I think you will find that people who use names like that within a family usually have a close relationship.

michaels4evr -> RE: When D/s springs from vanilla -or- how long does it take? (3/23/2007 7:16:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MaamJay To michaels4evr - your Dominant needs to find a Dominant mentor or two. Preferably in real life, if you can join a group near you. In Australia, in most major cities there is a discussion group called LookingGlass, which gives people chance to get together and talk about bdsm, learn from each other, and make friends. And your local scene may also offer munches (social gatherings) or workshops or play parties. All can be a great way for your Dom to learn from others. That's not to say He should simply copy what He learns ... it's more a matter of exposure to new ideas to sift through and decide what fits Him. And it can be a listening ear and some wise advice too. If real time isn't an option, then He might be able to find an online Dominant friend to correspond with, or of course, reading the boards here is an education in itself! These methods sure worked for Me! Good luck! Maam Jay aka violet[A] Thank you for your thoughtful reply Maam Jay..we are actually quite active. (well we were before the twin aliens arrived anyways!!).. I moderate/lead a group here called the Violet Society... so real is not a problem. There are a few close friends who have offered to mentor. He has not taken any of them up on it. I can only conclude that He is not ready for that at this point. I truly believe that everyone's lifestyle path is their own and I somehow am confident that He will find His way. Thanks again! -michael's

SirStephan55 -> RE: When D/s springs from vanilla -or- how long does it take? (3/23/2007 7:20:25 PM)
My sub went from vanilla to d/s in about 2 months (and I am her first d/s relationship). She now says she could never go back to vanilla.

phoenixinchains -> RE: When D/s springs from vanilla -or- how long does it take? (4/12/2007 3:40:33 AM)
personal acceptance can take a moment or a lifetime. in a realationship there are at least two personal acceptances. i'm no good at math, but you get the idea.- Phoenix

LadyPact -> RE: When D/s springs from vanilla -or- how long does it take? (4/12/2007 5:58:10 AM)
I don't know if this helps any, but it's been on a couple of the other boards, so I'll lend the story. To answer your question directly, four years, eight months, and a number of days. Let Me back up a bit. My husband I met vanilla, dated vanilla, and except for the occassional "fantasy play" lived vanilla. Then, about a year or so ago, We started branching out a bit. I still didn't tell him about My prior experience as a Domme. I just really didn't think it was going to be acceptable to him. I really didn't open up to him about that part of Myself until I took My most recent sub last year. After the initial shock wore off, and the "Why didn't you tell me" phase was over, he was quite happy with his, how should I say this...... discovery. Built in kink that he didn't really know exisited. (I should mention that I didn't take any boys during the period that he was in the dark. Not in any way, shape, or form.) Now, I'm sort of Mentoring him, for lack of a better term. He has interest in being a Dom himself, and We might possibly evolve into a poly household someday. I have a switch friend who is playing with Us on the understanding that it is for learning purposes. I'd like to find another submissive, like My last pet, who could help in the areas of the more intimate structure of the dynamic, but We're working with what We've got in the meantime. All in the interest of science, right? Anyway, there are a lot of details missing, but that was the basics of the journey. My husband isn't My sub, so it may not have been exactly what you are looking for, but maybe it was some interesting information.

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