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tulipgoose -> RE: The young sub and why they suck. (3/24/2007 2:55:31 AM)
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Well, I feel it is important to note that "age" itself has nothing to do with it. These people who are rude towards you now will likely be rude towards you years from now, as well towards anyone else they cross paths with. Part of the problem is the education. A young adult boy or girl (not man or woman, by their own actions) takes a look at one of those porno pop ups with whips and chains and thinks "ooo that's hot!" and thus declare themselves no longer "vanilla" after reading an erotic fantasy story or two herein having labels to declare. This is where most education does in fact come from. I can almost guarantee that most people these days, especially the younger because of the environments and "times" they grew up in very rarely sit and read through chapters and books of real important information, save it having information on how to actually DO something. In that case however, they often skip safety and reality issues. (being "younger" than so many here, luckily I was blessed with concern for safety and reality)
This is not to do with "age" again, but to do with the way people have been taught. I know that I for one got flooded with information growing up which forced me to weed through it all and only keep the "juicy" stuff..... With more knowledge in a world, there is only so much anyone can take in. Of course you will take in what you want to know! That is the curse of a developmental time.
As for young adults views on Pro-Dommes: I have seen that many view them as any other buisiness transaction: Get what you can for as little as possible: quality probably sucks no matter what you pay! - Not saying it DOES suck, but that is generally the mindset. I'll admit it, I am a bargain shopper! Though I would NEVER pay someone for helping me live out this lifestyle, I see how people can see it as such. "Why pay a bundle for something our partner ideally should be helping us with for free?" (A quote I have heard from a friend on the subject)
This is your business. Learn with the times, try and understand them, and deal with them...... As annoying as it may be to do so. Customers these days are just......... consumers..... no longer your neighbor, best friend, and so forth........ unless you're either lucky, or that is in fact their thing!
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