mp072004 -> RE: How much do you practise? (3/23/2007 6:28:54 PM)
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If the skill is something new to me, I practice it until I have a sense that I'm doing well enough to use it with a person. Then I use it in a scene, and I evaluate my performance to determine whether I need to work more, and if so, what I need to do. I'm at that stage with a snake whip now--I use it in scenes, but I'd like to be more precise. When I started working with it, I was pretty excited, and I spent about a half hour a day. Sometimes it's a bit like masturbation, actually--it's self-play. I'm confident, by now, in many of my skills. In some cases I find it necessary to keep "in shape" as it were. For example, I can cane well, but my accuracy decreases if I don't hit things with canes at least once monthly. It's more fun to cane a person, but if I haven't done so for a while, I'll get them out and beat up a pillow to make sure I can hit what I want. In other cases, once I've learned to use an implement, it's not possible to improve without a live bottom. My approach to the TENS unit is an example of this. I know how to attach electrodes, I understand safety, I know what each setting does and how they might be used in relation to one another, and I know how to use the controls on the unit. As I've used it in more scenes with different bottoms in a variety of ways, I've gotten better at it and, as a result, more confident in its use--but I couldn't have gained those skills without having actual penises, actual labia, and actual screams to work with. Mental/emotional play is another example of this--I can think about it and come up with ideas without a submissive around, but I can only develop evidence-based conclusions by observing responses. If "practice" means something you do alone, I don't practice most things. But if "practice" is defined by its results--keeping skills active, improving the quality of my play--then I practice an awful lot. It's just mixed up with sex and fun. But Whipofdoom--why does it matter how much *I* play by myself? If you're enjoying it, by all means, knot while you watch TV, swing your whips around for hours each day. I stop when it's not fun or interesting, and I think that's the principle you should apply to your actions, not a semi-arbitrary time limit. Monica
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